{"id":81716,"date":"2021-10-09T11:08:22","date_gmt":"2021-10-09T11:08:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81716"},"modified":"2022-04-22T01:28:59","modified_gmt":"2022-04-22T01:28:59","slug":"regola-del-non-contatto-il-potere-del-silenzio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/regola-del-non-contatto-il-potere-del-silenzio\/","title":{"rendered":"La guida passo-passo alla regola del divieto di contatto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando ho rotto con il mio ex, ero a dir poco disperata. Ero pronta a fare l'impossibile per riaverlo o per dimenticarlo.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s when my friend told me that I can actually do both. <b>S\u00ec, esiste un modo magico per guarire se stessi mentre il vostro <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quanto-tempo-dopo-una-rottura-i-ragazzi-iniziano-a-sentire-la-tua-mancanza\/\"><b>ex miss<\/b><b> ancora di pi\u00f9<\/b><\/a><b> e altro ancora.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;s this thing called the <\/b><b>regola del divieto di contatto<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But, how does it actually work? What are the rules you must follow in order for it to be effective? What does it do to your ex&#8217;s brain, and how does it impact you?<\/p>\n<p>I guess you&#8217;ll never find out unless you read on!<\/p>\n<h2>Che cos'\u00e8 la regola del divieto di contatto?<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/regola-del-divieto-di-contatto\/\">Non avere contatti<\/a> mezzi<b> tagliare tutti i legami di comunicazione con l'ex nel periodo successivo alla rottura per un certo periodo di tempo. <\/b><b>quantit\u00e0 di tempo<\/b><b>.<\/b> Significa resistere all'impulso di contattarli in ogni modo possibile e non dare loro la possibilit\u00e0 di contattarvi.<\/p>\n<h2>Regole del divieto di contatto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138060 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una donna immaginaria seduta alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The term itself should be self-explanatory, right? Well, it&#8217;s actually much harder than it seems.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m giving you some <b>linee guida su come il <\/b><b>La regola del divieto di contatto funziona<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>Tagliarli completamente<\/h3>\n<p>Non avere contatti <b>significa davvero non avere contatti<\/b>. I don&#8217;t know how to emphasize this enough.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono <b>non casuale <\/b><b>telefonate<\/b><b> nel cuore della notte, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-motivi-legittimi-per-non-rispondergli-mai-piu-con-un-sms\/\"><b>no <\/b><b>messaggi di testo<\/b><\/a><b>, no checking up on each other, no calling to hear their voice, no picking up the phone when you get their drunk calls&#8230;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Of course, all indirect hints are also strictly forbidden. You know exactly what I&#8217;m talking about.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m talking about stuff like replying to their stories, &#8220;accidentally&#8221; calling them from your back pocket, stalking them, and sending them signals that you still think of them. There is <b>Non si tratta di augurare loro un buon compleanno o di ricordare che era il vostro anniversario.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And, this one should be obvious but let&#8217;s make it clear for the ones in the back rows: There is <b>no <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.health.com\/sex\/hooking-up-ex\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>aggancio<\/b><\/a><b> di qualsiasi tipo!<\/b> I know you miss kissing them and sleeping with them, but if you slip back just once, what&#8217;s the point of this entire trouble?<\/p>\n<h4>Quando \u00e8 accettabile infrangere questa regola?<\/h4>\n<p>C'\u00e8 un'eccezione a ogni regola.<b> The only time you&#8217;re allowed to contact your ex is if they&#8217;ve been in a real emergency.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not talking about their cat hurting its paw \u2013 don&#8217;t make such lame excuses!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s one thing if their loved one has passed away or if their life is at stake. Only in that kind of situation are you allowed to break this rule and be the bigger person.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto il resto \u00e8 off limits!<\/p>\n<h3>Quanto deve durare la regola del divieto di contatto?<\/h3>\n<p>Il periodo di interdizione al contatto dura idealmente tre mesi interi. <b>S\u00ec, avete sentito bene: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/recupero-della-rottura-regola-del-divieto-di-contatto-per-90-giorni\/\"><b>90 giorni<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b>But, if that&#8217;s too much, I&#8217;ll let you slide with 60 days, at least. And, not a day shorter!<\/p>\n<p>Trust the process, and believe me when I tell you it&#8217;s the only way to get something done. <b>You can&#8217;t expect to move on or make your ex want you back if you go silent for a week or so.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They need time to process the breakup, time to understand they miss you, time to realize that you&#8217;re not coming back, and time to get the courage to reach out.<\/p>\n<p>E voi? Avete bisogno di tempo per guarire il vostro cuore spezzato, di tempo per elaborare il lutto di una relazione fallita, di tempo per capire che potete vivere senza di loro, di tempo per lavorare su voi stessi e di tempo per capire se li volete indietro o no.<\/p>\n<p>Come pensate che tutto questo possa avvenire in meno di 60-90 giorni?<\/p>\n<h3>Dovete rispondere se vi contattano?<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138061 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"una donna immaginaria si siede e guarda il telefono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-and-looks-at-the-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E se il vostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-il-mio-ex-non-ha-cercato-di-contattarmi\/\">l'ex ti contatta<\/a> durante il periodo critico? <b>Il <\/b><b>regola del divieto di contatto<\/b><b> se rispondete?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>No, it won&#8217;t. In fact, if you respond, you have to do it all over again from scratch (yes, from day one).<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, esistono alcune eccezioni. Ecco una guida che illustra i potenziali scenari in cui \u00e8 possibile infrangere la regola.<\/p>\n<h4>Vogliono indietro le loro cose<\/h4>\n<p>If they ask for their belongings back, this is probably just a way to start a conversation. Don&#8217;t fall under this trap!<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, you can&#8217;t keep things hostage forever.<b> So, it&#8217;s better to return them right away without giving them the chance to deepen the conversation.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It would be best if you two don&#8217;t see each other eye to eye during this handover. Drop their things off at your friends&#8217; house or make some other arrangement where you won&#8217;t have to meet them.<\/p>\n<p>Be kind and restrain your communication from talking about anything besides the drop-off itself. Let them know you&#8217;re not interested in anything besides really giving them their stuff back.<\/p>\n<h4>Imbattersi in loro<\/h4>\n<p>Se incontrate il vostro ex, <b>fare del proprio meglio per evitarli.<\/b> Guardare il telefono, parlare con un amico o cambiare direzione.<\/p>\n<p>But, sometimes they&#8217;ll deliberately show up in front of you just to engage in a conversation. In that case, you can&#8217;t just stare at them without pronouncing a single word.<\/p>\n<p>Greet them kindly and limit yourself to answering their questions. Of course, you won&#8217;t answer anything personal, but it&#8217;s acceptable to say how you&#8217;ve been and stuff like that.<\/p>\n<p><b>Qui sono consentite solo le chiacchiere. Niente battute interne e certamente niente flirt!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Another thing: asking them anything breaks the no contact rule. Don&#8217;t show any interest in their life whatsoever and I assure you they&#8217;ll get the message.<\/p>\n<h3>Dovreste bloccarli?<\/h3>\n<p>Observing your ex&#8217;s life and resisting the temptation not to contact them is tough. You must think that blocking them on social media apps is the best possible move if you&#8217;re going cold turkey.<\/p>\n<p>Well, ironically, it isn&#8217;t. <b>In fact, it&#8217;s much better to keep on following them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Se <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.egypttoday.com\/Article\/6\/96033\/Should-You-Or-Should-You-Not-Block-Your-Ex#:~:text=If%20keeping%20your%20ex%20on,your%20inner%20peace%2C%20block%20them.&amp;text=If%20you%20don&#039;t%20want,think%20doesn&#039;t%20really%20matter.\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>bloccare il tuo ex<\/b><\/a><b>, they&#8217;ll know that you can&#8217;t stand their presence on your <\/b><b>social media<\/b><b>. You&#8217;re either bitter or you&#8217;re scared to watch them move on.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Either way, you&#8217;re not indifferent. <\/b>On the other hand, if you don&#8217;t block them \u2013 you don&#8217;t care about their activity.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, se questo rovina la vostra pace e se passate le giornate a perseguitarli, non avete altra scelta che bloccarli. In ogni altra circostanza, lasciateli stupire.<\/p>\n<p><b>E se vi chiamano? Dovreste bloccare il loro <\/b><b>numero di telefono<\/b><b>?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Se riuscite a resistere all'impulso di non rispondere o mandare messaggi, lasciateli sbloccati. <\/b>That way, they&#8217;ll know you&#8217;re literally looking at your phone, but you have the strength not to pick it up.<\/p>\n<p>Ma quanto \u00e8 bello?<\/p>\n<h2>10 vantaggi della regola del non contatto<\/h2>\n<p>If I still haven&#8217;t persuaded you into following the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-regola-del-non-contatto\/\">regola del divieto di contatto<\/a>, I bet you&#8217;ll change your mind the moment you check out <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-vantaggi-per-linterruzione-della-regola-del-divieto-di-contatto\/\">tutti i vantaggi<\/a> che porta con s\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Maturit\u00e0 emotiva<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138062 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away.jpg\" alt=\"una donna sorridente si siede al tavolo e guarda altrove\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sits-at-the-table-and-looks-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So cosa vi aspettate in questo momento: che vi dica come seguire la regola del non contatto far\u00e0 s\u00ec che il vostro ex torni da voi in men che non si dica.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ll come to that \u2013 take it easy. But, before that, let&#8217;s dig into something more important.<\/p>\n<p><b>La cosa di cui dovreste essere pi\u00f9 felici \u00e8 il modo in cui tagliare i ponti con il vostro ex vi porter\u00e0 benefici.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Trust me: it will bring you the kind of emotional maturity you didn&#8217;t even know you had. And, even if you don&#8217;t get anything else from this period, this maturity is more than enough.<\/p>\n<p><b>Questo periodo vi aiuter\u00e0 a mettere alla prova voi stessi e i vostri limiti. Vi dimostrer\u00e0 che potete farcela da soli.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Senta, so che lei <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-amo-ancora-il-mio-ex\/\">provare ancora qualcosa per il tuo ex<\/a>. Otherwise, you wouldn&#8217;t be here, would you?<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, that doesn&#8217;t make your emotional dependency okay. Once you become emotionally mature and independent, you&#8217;ll thank God for taking this step and going no contact.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Recuperare il rispetto di s\u00e9<\/h3>\n<p>Losing your self-esteem is one of the main side-effects of a toxic relationship. At some point, you realize that you can&#8217;t make it without your partner.<\/p>\n<p>In pratica, sapete che dovete sopportare tutto ci\u00f2 che vi fanno. Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 se la relazione finisce, finisce anche il vostro mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Di conseguenza, si smette di rispettare se stessi. <b>You can&#8217;t believe that you&#8217;re weak to the point where you can&#8217;t tell your own heart what to do.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Luckily, all of this changes during the period of no contact. You regain your self-respect and self-esteem once you see that, against all odds, you&#8217;re capable of surviving without them.<\/p>\n<h4><b>Your ex&#8217;s respect<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>Il rispetto \u00e8 uno dei pilastri pi\u00f9 significativi di ogni <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/principali-regole-di-relazione\/\">relazione sana<\/a>. Ogni coach di relazioni vi dir\u00e0 che non c'\u00e8 amore dove non c'\u00e8 rispetto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pensate davvero che il vostro <\/b><b>ex fidanzato<\/b><b> o <\/b><b>ex fidanzata<\/b><b> vi rispetteranno se sapranno di poter tornare da voi quando vorranno? Pensate che vi apprezzeranno se continuerete a permettere loro di trattarvi come vogliono?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Or, they&#8217;ll start respecting you more once this period of time is over? Will they appreciate your presence more once they feel your absence? Will they admire your ability to live without them?<\/p>\n<p>Credo che le risposte a queste domande siano piuttosto ovvie.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Tempo per riflettere sulla vostra relazione<\/h3>\n<p>Your relationship ended for a reason. It doesn&#8217;t matter if you think it&#8217;s still worth the fight or if there is still love between you and your ex.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che c'era qualcosa che non andava. Altrimenti sarebbe durato ancora.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you&#8217;re at a certain breaking point. You have two choices.<b> \u00c8 possibile utilizzare questo <\/b><b>quantit\u00e0 di tempo<\/b><b> per lamentare il vostro triste destino o potete vedere il <\/b><b>regola del divieto di contatto come<\/b><b> una possibilit\u00e0 di fare la <\/b><b>decisione giusta<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need a relationship coach to figure out which path is the correct one. Use this period of radio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/citazioni-sul-silenzio-relazionale\/\">silenzio<\/a> per riflettere sulla vostra relazione sentimentale.<\/p>\n<p>Cosa vi ha portato a questa rottura? Cosa avete fatto di sbagliato entrambi? In quali circostanze tornereste insieme al vostro ex?<\/p>\n<p>Quali sono stati i vantaggi della vostra storia d'amore? Quali sono gli elementi che l'hanno spinta a restare fedele al suo ex per cos\u00ec tanto tempo?<\/p>\n<p>What can be changed? What are the things you&#8217;d have to deal with, whether you like it or not?<\/p>\n<p>Do your best to be as realistic as possible here. These seem like easy questions, but trust me \u2013 getting the answers won&#8217;t be a piece of cake.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Definire gli standard e i fattori di disturbo<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138063 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table.jpg\" alt=\"una donna immaginaria seduta a un tavolo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-at-a-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ma, ehi, questa non \u00e8 l'unica relazione sentimentale su cui dovreste concentrarvi. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segni-che-la-regola-del-divieto-di-contatto-sta-funzionando\/\">La regola del divieto di contatto funziona<\/a> come occasione per un ritorno alle relazioni precedenti e future.<\/p>\n<p><b>Che cosa volete veramente? Avere <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-stabilire-standard-elevati-e-importante-per-la-vostra-relazione\/\"><b>i tuoi standard sono aumentati<\/b><\/a><b> dopo la vostra passata relazione? Cosa avete imparato?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Quali sono le cose che potete tollerare in un uomo o in una donna? Quali sono le cose che pi\u00f9 vi fanno desistere?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Che cosa \u00e8 negoziabile e che cosa non perdonereste mai? Abbassereste i vostri standard per un ragazzo o una ragazza che vi piace molto?<\/p>\n<p>Provate a immaginare il vostro partner perfetto. Quali qualit\u00e0 dovrebbe avere?<\/p>\n<p>People forget about their standards and deal breakers after their long-term relationship ends and it&#8217;s time to refresh your own memory.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Pi\u00f9 forte che mai<\/h3>\n<p>Non si sa mai quanto si pu\u00f2 sopportare fino a quando non si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/superare-il-crepacuore\/\">attraversare un devastante colpo di fulmine<\/a>. Si pensa a se stessi come deboli e vulnerabili.<\/p>\n<p>You think that this one person is giving your life all of its meaning. You&#8217;re convinced that you&#8217;d be utterly lost without them.<\/p>\n<p>You think you&#8217;re incapable of dealing with any of life&#8217;s hardships. Then, this hits you.<\/p>\n<p>Si mettono alla prova i propri limiti e si inizia a vivere senza la persona amata (a meno che non si abbia una relazione a distanza). E, indovinate un po'? Si scopre che, dopotutto, ce la si pu\u00f2 fare.<\/p>\n<p><b>Una volta terminato il periodo di non contatto, vi accorgerete che vi ha reso molto pi\u00f9 forti. Avete affrontato qualcosa che sembrava impossibile e ne siete usciti vivi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You made it. It taught you a lot, but most importantly, it helped you learn how much you&#8217;re actually capable of.<\/p>\n<p>If you go through this period of no contact, you won&#8217;t just defeat your ex. You&#8217;ll also defeat yourself, and that&#8217;s the sweetest victory ever. How great and empowering does that feel?<\/p>\n<h3>6. Godersi la vita da single<\/h3>\n<p>After spending years in a relationship, you get used to being someone&#8217;s boyfriend or girlfriend. You forget how it is to go through life alone since you&#8217;ve spent so much time as a part of someone.<\/p>\n<p>This happens even if you&#8217;re involved with a narcissist or an abuser.<b> Your relationship becomes your comfort zone, even if it&#8217;s not the happiest or the healthiest one.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Stepping out of this comfort zone is scary for everyone. Facing the world alone without this other person having your back is a huge step, and it&#8217;s never a piece of cake.<\/p>\n<p>Ma, a un certo punto, deve essere fatto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Vedete, la parte peggiore \u00e8 fare il salto nella vita da single. Dopo, tutto \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 facile.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Questo periodo di assenza di contatti vi dar\u00e0 anche l'opportunit\u00e0 di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/motivi-per-cui-sono-felice-di-essere-single\/\">godetevi la vostra vita da single<\/a>. It&#8217;s the chance to rediscover yourself in a completely new light.<\/p>\n<h4><b>Essere single \u00e8 meglio che avere una relazione sbagliata<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>La vita da single \u00e8 una delle <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/regola-del-non-contatto-il-potere-del-silenzio\/\">benefici del silenzio radio<\/a>. Ma non c'\u00e8 solo il divertimento.<\/p>\n<p>Alla fine di questo periodo, dovreste rendervi conto che essere single \u00e8 sempre meglio che avere una brutta relazione. <b>It&#8217;s time you figure out that being with someone out of fear of being alone is never the right choice.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>7. Riordinare le priorit\u00e0<\/h3>\n<p>Un'altra cosa che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-motivi-per-cui-e-importante-seguire-la-regola-del-divieto-di-contatto\/\">seguendo la regola del non contatto<\/a> helps with is sorting things in your life out. Once you step into this healing process, you&#8217;ll realize that you must put yourself in first place in life.<\/p>\n<p><b>You can&#8217;t allow your happiness to depend on your family, your <\/b><b>migliore amico<\/b><b>, or your job, let alone your romantic partner. You&#8217;re the only one in charge here&#8230; please let that sink in.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This is difficult to grasp while you&#8217;re still in a relationship. But, the moment you start distancing yourself from your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is the moment you realize that you&#8217;re actually the only one that matters.<\/p>\n<p>No, this is not a selfish approach. It just means that you&#8217;re mature enough to finally see your self-worth.<\/p>\n<p>Significa che vi amate abbastanza da non accontentarvi di niente di meno di quello che meritate.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Interrompere il ciclo della dipendenza<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138064 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches.jpg\" alt=\"una donna immaginaria siede accanto alla finestra e guarda\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-watches-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Molte persone confondono la sensazione di essere innamorati con quella di essere dipendenti. Se avete difficolt\u00e0 a staccarvi dal vostro ex, potreste essere tra coloro che sono intrappolati in un ciclo tossico.<\/p>\n<p>Si dice che ci vogliono 21 giorni per creare o interrompere un'abitudine.<\/p>\n<p>What if your ex was just that? What if you stopped loving them ages ago, and lately, you&#8217;ve been nothing but hooked up on your memories together?<\/p>\n<p><b>What if you&#8217;re addicted to drama and attention? What if this is just your obsession or a matter of your ego?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In that case, you must break this addiction cycle as soon as possible. And, you can&#8217;t expect to go through this detox successfully while they&#8217;re still in your life, can you?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s exactly why the no contact period will do you good. It will help you see that you can make it without them. It will help your body, mind, and heart get used to their absence.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you two get back together, it will be healthier this time because you&#8217;ve managed to kick the habit.<\/p>\n<h4>Periodo di crisi<\/h4>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be dead honest with you here: this detox won&#8217;t be all sunshine and roses.<b> It&#8217;ll be painful, and sometimes you&#8217;ll feel like you&#8217;re going through a physical crisis because you miss this person so much.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And, that&#8217;s perfectly normal. After all, it&#8217;s the first time to be facing life without your loved one.<\/p>\n<p>But, I can promise you one thing: it will eventually get better. You will overcome this addiction and you&#8217;ll go back to being your old self.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Tempo per il lutto<\/h3>\n<p>La guarigione non avviene mai da un giorno all'altro. Sarebbe innaturale per voi dimenticare una persona che avete amato cos\u00ec tanto in un batter d'occhio.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, it&#8217;s a process.<b> Ha le sue fasi, il suo corso e il suo ritmo, e la cosa peggiore che si possa fare \u00e8 affrettare i tempi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I know it would be easier to wake up in the morning with all of this pain behind you, but that&#8217;s not how things work. At least, they don&#8217;t if you want to do all of this in a healthy way.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you should use this time as an excellent chance to grieve your past relationship. Even if your ex comes back to you, see it as a chance to cry all those tears you&#8217;ve been holding back for years.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di inseguire relazioni di ripiego, trascorrete l'intera giornata in pigiama, guardate film romantici e piangete a dirotto. <b>Fidatevi di me: non c'\u00e8 niente di male in questo <\/b><b>\u2013<\/b><b> ti rende solo un essere umano.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>10. Riconquistare il proprio ex<\/h3>\n<p>Infine, ecco quello per cui siete venuti: il modo in cui la regola del divieto di contatto vi aiuta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-riconquistare-la-tua-ex-ragazza-17-modi-comprovati-per-farlo\/\">Riconquista il tuo ex<\/a>. Prima o poi succeder\u00e0 anche questo.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll get <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/16-modi-efficaci-per-far-perdere-le-preoccupazioni\/\">paura di perderti<\/a>, and they&#8217;ll run back into your arms. <b>They&#8217;ll see that you won&#8217;t always be there no matter what they do or how they treat you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Once they see that you&#8217;re gone, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-modi-per-far-sentire-la-mancanza-di-un-ex\/\">they&#8217;ll start missing you<\/a>. All of a sudden, they&#8217;ll understand that they&#8217;re ready to do whatever it takes just to have you back.<\/p>\n<p>Ma perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 il vantaggio meno importante del no contact?<b> Because, at this point, it&#8217;s possible that you won&#8217;t take them back.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Yes, you heard me right. When your ex contacts you, you&#8217;ll have already gone through the process of empowering yourself, and you&#8217;ll probably realize that you can do much better than them.<\/p>\n<h2>5 segni che la regola del divieto di contatto sta funzionando<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138065 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"una donna sorridente seduta sul pavimento, appoggiata al divano, che preme un pulsante del telefono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-leaning-on-the-couch-and-pressing-a-button-on-the-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How do you know if you&#8217;re on the right track? How can you know if things are working to your advantage?<\/p>\n<h3>1. Raggiungere le persone<\/h3>\n<p>If your ex contacts you \u2013 then the no contact period was beneficial. It&#8217;s what you wanted to achieve all along, isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p><b>Congratulazioni, ci siete riusciti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But, please pay attention. This doesn&#8217;t mean that you&#8217;ll necessarily get a phone call or a text from your ex.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of people don&#8217;t have the courage to make the actual first step until they test the waters first. So, if they start asking your mutual friends about you, begin showing up at the places they expect to see you, or send any other hint \u2013 they&#8217;re, without a doubt, reaching out.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Vi sentite meglio<\/h3>\n<p>Come ho gi\u00e0 detto, ci sono cose pi\u00f9 importanti che far sentire la mancanza del vostro ex. Recuperare il senso di autostima e migliorare il vostro benessere e la vostra salute mentale \u00e8 la priorit\u00e0 assoluta.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s normal to feel torn apart while going through a painful heartbreak. It&#8217;s normal to miss the other person while you&#8217;re going through this detox.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <b>il momento in cui iniziate a sentirvi meglio \u00e8 il momento in cui sapete che il periodo di non contatto sta dando risultati.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You&#8217;re learning to live without your ex. You&#8217;re finding happiness in small things. You&#8217;re laughing and smiling all over again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re enjoying time with your best friends and family without spending every minute thinking about them. Hey, you even start noticing other guys or girls.<\/p>\n<p>All of this means you&#8217;re on the right track.<\/p>\n<h3>3. La loro mancanza<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138066 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo immaginario seduto a un tavolo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-at-a-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro ex sente la vostra mancanza, significa che <b>your job is done and you&#8217;ve completed your mission. <\/b>Ma, <b>they don&#8217;t have to actually tell you &#8220;<\/b><b>I&#8217;m sorry<\/b><b>&#8221; or &#8220;I miss you&#8221;.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The best way to figure this out is through their social media accounts \u2013 that is, if you haven&#8217;t blocked them everywhere.<\/p>\n<p>Postano citazioni tristi e canzoni che sai che gli ricordano te? Sono i primi a guardare le vostre storie su Instagram e Snapchat?<\/p>\n<p>Hanno trovato una fidanzata o un fidanzato di ripiego che \u00e8 l'immagine sputata di te? Stanno facendo del loro meglio per dimostrare al mondo intero quanto sono felici senza di te?<\/p>\n<p>Questi sono tutti i prodotti a prova di bomba <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/manco-al-mio-ex\/\">Segni che il tuo ex ti manca<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this doesn&#8217;t mean that you should act on it and make the first move. But, I&#8217;m sure that the idea alone will give you enough satisfaction to begin with.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Riflessione sui propri modelli di relazione<\/h3>\n<p>Uno degli obiettivi del no contact \u00e8 riflettere su tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 andato storto nella vostra relazione passata. Ma non solo: dovreste anche prendervi un momento per pensare ai vostri modelli di frequentazione in generale.<\/p>\n<p>Al termine di questo periodo, <b>you should be a better, more improved version of your heartbroken self from the beginning of the story. You should be more mature in terms of knowing what and who you want or don\u2019t want.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you catch yourself thinking about your mistakes and about the things you put up with even though you shouldn&#8217;t have, it&#8217;s a sign that the no contact period is working.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Voglia di tornare insieme<\/h3>\n<p>Finally, if your ex tells you &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; and &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-lex-vuole-tornare-disperatamente\/\">Ti rivoglio indietro<\/a>&#8220;, everything is more than clear. Your little stunt worked out for the best, and you got exactly what you wanted.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma queste parole sono una garanzia del fatto che voi due riuscirete a costruire una <\/b><b>relazione sana<\/b><b> questa volta? Significa che siete cresciuti entrambi come individui?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Questo significa che le cose andranno magicamente al loro posto come se non vi foste mai lasciati?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Mi dispiace deludervi, ma la risposta \u00e8 no.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>First of all, just because someone wants you back doesn&#8217;t mean they love you. They could be doing this for the sake of their ego or just because they haven&#8217;t found anyone more convenient.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, even if there is love still present, it&#8217;s not enough for you to rebuild your fallen empire.<\/p>\n<p>Il litigio non finisce nel momento in cui tornate insieme. Anzi, \u00e8 proprio allora che inizia!<\/p>\n<h2>Cosa succede dopo 30 giorni di divieto di contatto?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138067 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo immaginario seduto all&#039;aperto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-man-sitting-outdoors-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The best thing about the no contact rule is that you can&#8217;t lose anything. <b>You&#8217;ll either <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/20-segnali-inequivocabili-del-ritorno-del-vostro-ex\/\"><b>avere il tuo <\/b><b>ex indietro<\/b><\/a><b> or you&#8217;ll realize that you don&#8217;t actually want them back.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Or, in some cases, both scenarios happen simultaneously: you get your ex to realize what they&#8217;ve lost, but at the same time, you figure out that you&#8217;re ready to move on without them. Either way, it&#8217;s a win-win situation.<\/p>\n<h2>Regola di non contatto, psicologia maschile<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-138068 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1.jpg\" alt=\"una donna immaginaria seduta su un molo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-pier-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cosa va <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cosa-pensa-durante-lassenza-di-contatto-6-pensieri-piu-comuni2\/\">nella sua mente durante l'assenza di contatto<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Ogni dating coach vi dir\u00e0 che <b>nessun contatto funziona meglio su un <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/comprensione-della-psicologia-maschile-durante-la-regola-del-divieto-di-contatto\/\"><b>male\u2019s psychology<\/b><\/a><b> than on a female\u2019s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Per natura, gli uomini sono cacciatori. <b>Niente li diverte di pi\u00f9 che vincere su qualcosa o qualcuno che devono inseguire.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Basta farglielo notare: <\/b>Dove siete stati? L'hai sostituito con qualcuno di meglio?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-silenzio-fa-sentire-la-mancanza-di-un-uomo\/\">Il silenzio radio fa sentire la mancanza di un uomo<\/a> because it represents a challenge for him. They love the chase, and they&#8217;ll always be more interested in a woman who plays hard to get.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, let&#8217;s not forget about the part where he <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-potere-di-allontanarsi-da-un-uomo\/\">realizes what he&#8217;s lost<\/a>. Sadly, this doesn&#8217;t happen right away, but eventually, every guy comes to terms that his toxic behavior chased away the best woman he ever had.<\/p>\n<p>In sostanza, il no contact funziona sempre a meraviglia con gli uomini. L'unica domanda \u00e8: funzioner\u00e0 in tempo? Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-i-ragazzi-iniziano-a-sentire-la-tua-mancanza-dopo-una-rottura\/\">inizier\u00e0 a sentire la tua mancanza<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>I have to warn you: a lot of guys figure things out after it&#8217;s too late.<\/p>\n<h2>Per concludere:<\/h2>\n<p>Ogni dating coach vi dir\u00e0 la stessa cosa: <b>you can&#8217;t go wrong with the <\/b><b>regola del divieto di contatto<\/b><b>. In fact, it&#8217;s the best way to clear things of your past, one way or another.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But, please use this time wisely. Don&#8217;t waste it patiently sitting and waiting for your ex to come back.<\/p>\n<p>I promise you, they&#8217;ll try to crawl back sooner or later. Nevertheless,<b> il vostro obiettivo principale dovrebbe essere quello di <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-andare-avanti-10-modi-efficaci-per-lasciar-andare-e-guarire\/\"><b>andare avanti<\/b><\/a><b> da loro, e soprattutto <\/b><b>\u2013<\/b><b> show yourself that you don&#8217;t need them.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I broke up with my ex, I was desperate, to say at least. I was ready to do the impossible to get him back or to get over him. That&#8217;s when my friend told me that I can actually do both. Yes, there is a magical way to heal yourself while your ex misses&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":138059,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29630],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81716","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-no-contact"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29630,"label":"no contact"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/The-Step-By-Step-Guide-Through-The-No-Contact-Rule-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29630,"name":"no contact","slug":"no-contact","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29630,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. 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