{"id":81851,"date":"2020-06-22T12:39:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:39:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81851"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:27:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:27:15","slug":"essere-la-donna-di-cui-avevi-bisogno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-la-donna-di-cui-avevi-bisogno\/","title":{"rendered":"Sii la donna di cui avevi bisogno da piccola e rendila orgogliosa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Ricordate tutte le volte che vi siete sentite insicure da bambine? Tutte le volte che vi siete sentiti non abbastanza bravi, belli o intelligenti?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>C'era sempre qualcuno migliore di te e sempre qualcuno che te lo ricordava.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine if, in those moments, you had someone to tell you all of those things were nothing but lies \u2013 someone to tell you that the opinions of others have nothing to do with your life.<\/p>\n<p>Tutti noi abbiamo lottato con qualcosa durante la nostra infanzia e molte di queste cose sono rimaste con noi. Molte persone sono state ferite profondamente dalle parole degli altri.<\/p>\n<p>Tanti hanno creduto in quelle parole e le hanno assunte come parte di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The worst thing that can happen in a child\u2019s life is for them to believe in other\u2019s people lies. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Even when we later on in adulthood recognize those words as lies, it\u2019s hard to ignore the impact they had on us for so long.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Molte volte, esperienze traumatiche o addirittura commenti scortesi modificano il comportamento personale e in qualche modo dirottano la loro vera personalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Ci fa iniziare a misurare il nostro valore in base a cose come il nostro aspetto e i risultati esterni, ignorando i nostri talenti naturali e la nostra empatia.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81909\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta all&#039;interno dell&#039;armadio che apre le porte\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Fortunatamente, ci sono molti esempi di come la lotta alla fine ci renda pi\u00f9 forti. Abbiamo sempre la possibilit\u00e0 di migliorare le cose.<\/p>\n<p>A volte, nel bel mezzo della lotta, ci rendiamo conto di quanto siamo forti. Quando iniziamo a rifiutare le false credenze su noi stessi, iniziamo a notare le nostre vere possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s nothing in the world more powerful than a woman who knows her worth and needs no permission.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A woman who is unapologetically herself. The kind of woman who doesn\u2019t conform to the expectations of others but meets her own expectations.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A woman who knows to set boundaries and see through the people who don\u2019t mean good to her \u2013 the one who demands respect and believes in her potential.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t wait for anyone, but proceeds to do things on her own, trusting her intuition and judgment.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the kind of woman you needed as a little girl. That\u2019s the kind of woman you need now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Once we know our worth, there\u2019s nothing that can make us feel insecure, especially not words from people who barely know us.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The truth is, people don\u2019t really care what you do as much as you think, so why should you take their opinions to heart?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81906\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito blu rivolta verso lo specchio con le mani sui bordi dello specchio\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to know what we\u2019re capable of and what\u2019s inside of us. Nothing and no one else can decide our value as a human being but ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>To decide a human\u2019s value based on looks and God-given personality traits is pointless and mean.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ognuno \u00e8 libero di essere se stesso in modo autentico, di esprimersi con naturalezza e di sentirsi al sicuro tra gli altri.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you have ever been hurt, don\u2019t let it change who you are and strip the world of your uniqueness.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto come donna, quando il mondo intero ha richieste assurde per te. Ti chiede di essere indipendente ma di rimanere fragile, di lottare ma di essere gentile.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be strong in a sense of staying true to who you are \u2013 and that means listening to no one but yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fatelo per la bambina che c'\u00e8 in voi e che pensava che ci fosse qualcosa di sbagliato in lei. E per cosa? Cose che non sono mai state vere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Embrace yourself and be kind to yourself. Don\u2019t strive for perfection, only progress.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You deserve to be happy and loved as you are \u2013 the same words the girl in you needed to hear all along.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81911\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Sii la donna di cui avevi bisogno da piccola e rendila orgogliosa\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remember all the times you felt insecure as a little girl? All the times you felt like you weren\u2019t good enough, beautiful enough, or smart enough? There was always someone better than you, and always someone to remind you of that. Imagine if, in those moments, you had someone to tell you all of those&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":81910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81851","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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