{"id":81878,"date":"2020-06-22T12:14:08","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81878"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:53:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:53:33","slug":"uomo-che-non-ha-avuto-il-coraggio-di-combattere-per-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomo-che-non-ha-avuto-il-coraggio-di-combattere-per-me\/","title":{"rendered":"All'uomo che non ha avuto il coraggio di combattere per me"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ne valeva la pena.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Giuro su Dio <\/span>Valeva la pena di lottare <\/i><\/b>and you were a fool for letting me go. You let go of the only girl who’ll ever honestly love you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m not talking about that ordinary love a woman can feel towards her man. I am talking about once-in-a-lifetime love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Di quella incondizionata, altruistica, onesta, incrollabile, eterna<\/i><\/b> tipo di amore<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That love was worth fighting for because I\u2019m sure you’ll never find that kind of love again. We have only one chance to find true love and you’ve missed yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eventually, you’ll find someone who’ll love you again, but trust me, you’ll never find someone who’ll love you as I did.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong. You know me best. You know that I don’t hold grudges. I really hope you are happy. I would be really pleased if you found someone who loves you for everything you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

My intention wasn’t to play with you. I just wanted to distance myself to see how strong our love was and whether you were being honest when you said that you’d love me for the rest of our lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

I still can’t understand how you could say over and over that you loved me if you didn’t feel that way. And you truly said it like a million times.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come hai potuto guardarmi negli occhi e mentire? Significa che mi mentivi direttamente in faccia ogni giorno.<\/span><\/p>\n

So che \u00e8 stato un mio errore. Non avrei mai dovuto mettere alla prova il nostro amore. Ho sbagliato a credere che fosse cos\u00ec forte da superare ogni prova.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mi hai fatto credere che il nostro legame fosse cos\u00ec forte da resistere a tutto ci\u00f2 che abbiamo affrontato. Credevo sinceramente che il nostro amore avrebbe superato la prova del tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you remember how we used to say \u201cYou and me, until the very end.\u201d?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Haha, actually, it’s funny now. Promising and swearing eternal love for so long, but as soon as hard times came, you gave up and walked away immediately.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato a causa del suo orgoglio maschile <\/span>o il tuo ego?<\/span><\/a>  You just couldn’t allow yourself to be vulnerable or weak for one woman, could you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Non capir\u00f2 mai come tenere sotto controllo il proprio ego sia pi\u00f9 importante che tenere nella propria vita la donna che si ama, la propria anima gemella.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Avevate paura di quello che avrebbero detto i vostri amici? Forse temevate che vi avrebbero preso in giro se aveste mostrato quanto eravate deboli a causa della donna che amavate?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, if that’s the case, then I’m glad you gave up on us. Now you can have your friends and I’ll be here, standing aside, watching how they stab you in the back one by one.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 niente di pi\u00f9 importante dell'amore a questo mondo e tu, mia cara, lo scoprirai nel modo pi\u00f9 duro.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You’ll understand one day when you are all alone. When all those fake friends have betrayed you. When you\u2019ve crushed your own precious ego.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll see that I was right to call you a fool in this letter. Then you’ll admit it yourself. You were a fool because you gave up on love, on us.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sei stato uno sciocco perch\u00e9 ti sei rifiutato di lottare per il nostro lieto fine. <\/span>Hai trasformato la nostra piccola favola d'amore nel mio peggior incubo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I have to admit, I didn\u2019t feel okay for some time. Hell, I fell apart. But now, I’m here again. Fully recovered and ready for some new battles in life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sono passato attraverso <\/span>una profonda depressione<\/span><\/a>. It was so hard to accept that the man I loved more than I’d ever loved myself or anyone else before didn’t even want to try to fight for our love, for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, mi sono resa conto che dovevo reagire.<\/span><\/p>\n

I had to accept everything that had happened and look at it as a huge life lesson that God sent me to warn me that you weren’t so honest about your feelings and that you didn’t love me as much as I loved you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo so <\/span>Valeva la pena di lottare. <\/i><\/b>Maybe not now, maybe not tomorrow, but one day you’ll realize it too, only then it will be too late. You’ll be left with remorse for the rest of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"All'uomo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I was worth it. I swear to God I was worth the fight and you were a fool for letting me go. You let go of the only girl who’ll ever honestly love you. I’m not talking about that ordinary love a woman can feel towards her man. I am talking about once-in-a-lifetime love. About…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":81881,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/To-The-Man-Who-Didn\u2019t-Have-The-Guts-To-Fight-For-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81878"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81881"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}