{"id":81889,"date":"2020-07-09T11:19:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:19:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81889"},"modified":"2022-12-02T11:17:52","modified_gmt":"2022-12-02T11:17:52","slug":"lex-sta-gia-uscendo-con-unaltra-persona-e-questo-fa-male","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lex-sta-gia-uscendo-con-unaltra-persona-e-questo-fa-male\/","title":{"rendered":"Il mio ex sta gi\u00e0 uscendo con un'altra persona e fa male: ecco perch\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts like hell. I thought I was over them. I was sure they had disappeared from my mind, yet here I am, broken to the bone seeing them with someone new.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che la maggior parte delle persone prova quando vede la propria <\/b><b>ex partner<\/b><b> in un <\/b><b>nuova relazione<\/b><b>. E se vi sentite affini, questo \u00e8 per voi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Break-ups are complicated and that&#8217;s the understatement of the century. A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">crepacuore<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> gi\u00e0 di per s\u00e9 \u00e8 abbastanza devastante, ma sapere che il vostro ex ha gi\u00e0 in mente un'altra persona comporta un nuovo livello di dolore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo tutto, avete condiviso tanti momenti preziosi e intimi che ora non ci sono pi\u00f9. E per di pi\u00f9, il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex partner<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doesn&#8217;t seem to miss you much at all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perch\u00e9 vi sentite cos\u00ec? Volete che il vostro <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex indietro<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or are you nostalgic for something that&#8217;s never coming back?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Ecco perch\u00e9 il vostro cuore si sta spezzando di nuovo<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re having a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tempo difficile<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> affrontare il fatto che il vostro ex sia andato avanti con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuovo partner<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo far\u00e0 luce sul <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">motivi reali<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> perch\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Il tuo ego si sta ammaccando<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81892 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna in camicia nera in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allo stesso tempo, questo \u00e8 un bene <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> bad news. What&#8217;s good about it, you may wonder?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, it&#8217;s kind of obvious; this is not about suppressed emotions or you pining for your ex <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">di per s\u00e9<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Si tratta del fatto che il vostro ego ha subito un duro colpo dopo aver visto il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex mossa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> su.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You didn\u2019t break up due to unresolved issues and you&#8217;re not <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ossessionante<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> over this out of romantic reasons. You have been replaced with a \u2018newer model\u2019 and it feels like crap.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spesso accade che le emozioni persistenti non abbiano nulla a che fare con la frequentazione dell'ex. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gli-piaccio-ma-ha-iniziato-a-frequentare-unaltra-persona\/\">uscire con un'altra persona<\/a>. Sometimes, it&#8217;s a bit more superficial than that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c8 possibile che (nel profondo) vogliate il vostro <\/b><b>ex partner<\/b><b> to still have feelings for you, even though you&#8217;re not willing to reciprocate them. It&#8217;s what makes you feel desired.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s somewhat comforting to know that there is still someone out there pining for you. And that false illusion you&#8217;ve created in your mind is blown the moment you see your ex with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuovo amore<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lunga storia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> short, you&#8217;re merely human! Just <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">il mese scorso<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Stavo avendo un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tempo difficile<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> vedendo il mio <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex fidanzato<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con il suo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuova fidanzata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e ci siamo lasciati da molti mesi!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questa persona \u00e8 diventata il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">migliore amico<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e se il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione a lungo termine<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 terminata da poco, \u00e8 ovvio che vederlo con lei \u00e8 dannoso per il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autostima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s human nature wanting to go on <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social media<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e vedere come <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">si \u00e8 fatto avanti <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e vi ha lasciato con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cuore spezzato<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Ma il <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">il giorno successivo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">devi affrontare la situazione.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/sei-esattamente-dove-hai-bisogno-di-essere-in-questo-momento\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fidatevi di me, siete esattamente dove dovete essere in questo momento<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>You&#8217;re currently in a rebound relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81894 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-kissing-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che si baciano in piedi vicino alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-kissing-1-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-kissing-1-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-kissing-1-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Che cosa costituisce un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione di rimbalzo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? In genere, si tratta di una relazione in cui ci si butta a capofitto dopo la pi\u00f9 recente <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione passata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In most cases, it&#8217;s an escape route to avoid dealing with intricate issues post-break-up. You are distracting yourself (and shielding your heart) from the (inevitable) pain by focusing on a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuovo fidanzato<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\/<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuova fidanzata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, you&#8217;re just in it to get away from your ex as quickly as possible. And at times, it works, but mostly, you&#8217;re just postponing the inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prima volta<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Sono saltato in un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione di rimbalzo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it was more complex than I could&#8217;ve anticipated. Why? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perch\u00e9 non mi sono mai dato una vera possibilit\u00e0 di migliorare. Non c'era <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">processo di guarigione<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Era tutto affrettato, privo di emozioni e freddo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho pensato che se fossi andato semplicemente <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nessun contatto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> fin dall'inizio, sarebbe stato pi\u00f9 facile, ma alla fine si \u00e8 rivelato uno degli <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">le cose pi\u00f9 difficili<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Sono passato.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Non sono mai riuscita a guarire dalla devastante rottura con colui che credevo fosse il mio <\/b><b>anima gemella<\/b><b>. Non avrei mai immaginato che un normale marted\u00ec pomeriggio sarebbe stato il <\/b><b>l'ultima volta<\/b><b> L'ho mai baciato.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando l'ho visto con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuova fidanzata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> someone I&#8217;ve known since <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">scuola superiore<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, tutto \u00e8 arrivato a un punto morto. Io ero <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sms<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Lo imploravo come un matto, chiedendogli come avesse potuto farmi una cosa del genere e lo pregavo di <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">incontrarsi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> per la chiusura.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, non l'ho mai capito e ho dovuto imparare a mie spese. La verit\u00e0 era che ero ben lontana dal dimenticarlo e la relazione in cui mi ero fiondata non era servita a nulla.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lui era felice con la sua nuova ragazza e io ero infelice, sola e mentivo a me stessa di stare bene.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se posso darvi un consiglio <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consigli sulle relazioni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, questo \u00e8 quanto:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t jump into a <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuova relazione<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> straight out of a break-up, especially if your ex has already moved on. It&#8217;s going to make you realize a lot of really painful things. (Learn from my mistake.)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h2>You&#8217;re questioning whether they were ever <i>veramente<\/i> felice con te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81896 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-wall-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna appoggiata a un muro di cemento beige\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-wall-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-wall-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-wall-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can&#8217;t tell you how many times I thought to myself: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts like a mofo!&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;d be scrolling through my <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social media<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> accounts and accidentally spot a photo of him and his new squeeze. And I can&#8217;t put into words how much my heart would sink.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una volta ero io. Ero la ragazza che abbracciava cos\u00ec forte con un sorriso da una guancia all'altra. Ero quella che era su tutta la sua pagina Instagram e la ragazza a cui mandava milioni di foto. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">messaggi di testo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> al giorno.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, I am gone. There isn&#8217;t a trace of me on his <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social media<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> accounts and it&#8217;s as if I never existed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il nostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amici comuni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> didn&#8217;t tell me much (they never wanted to get involved) but I could tell that he was happy with her. Worse yet, it was a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a distanza<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> relazione e sono stati <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ancora <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fiorente!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I had been right there but I just wasn&#8217;t enough for him. Was it all just a lie? Was I merely just another notch in his belt before he found who he <\/b><b><i>davvero <\/i><\/b><b>voleva stare con?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can&#8217;t explain how many toxic thoughts rummaged through my head. I was on the verge of getting a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuovo ragazzo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> solo per dimostrargli quanto poco mi riguardasse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, then I realized&#8230; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What was the point? What would I achieve? What we had was special while it lasted. Yeah, it hurts that he&#8217;s gone but why belittle our love story just because it&#8217;s over?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avrei fatto del male solo a me stessa. Cos\u00ec ho smesso di guardare i suoi profili e di dirmi che non significavo nulla per lui. Ci siamo lasciati per un motivo e lui \u00e8 andato avanti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If I wanted to get better, I just needed to accept that and turn over a new leaf. Trust me, it&#8217;s so much easier that way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/il-potere-di-allontanarsi-da-un-uomo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il potere di allontanarsi da un uomo: Lasciategli vedere cosa ha perso<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Il vostro ex partner \u00e8 stato il vostro primo vero amore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81898 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-womans-hand.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che tiene la mano di una donna mentre cammina sul marciapiede\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-womans-hand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-womans-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-womans-hand-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anche se il primo amore raramente si rivela essere il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anima gemella<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for life, they&#8217;re still a very significant part of your life. They are the one you went through all the ups and downs with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That person is who taught you stuff about love that you couldn&#8217;t possibly grasp before. And it&#8217;s normal to feel protective of that after your relationship fizzles out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>In un certo senso, ci si sente come se si avesse un diritto su di loro e quando li si vede con una <\/b><b>nuovo partner<\/b><b>, you get the feeling that they don&#8217;t deserve them or better yet, don&#8217;t belong with them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I primi amori possono essere molto complicati. Con il mio primo ragazzo, mi sentivo come se fosse <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">esso<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> per me, come se non ci fosse altro posto dove andare se non verso di lui.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All'epoca non avevo idea di quanto mi stessi sbagliando, ma stare con una persona per il <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prima volta<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e poi perderli fa sentire smarriti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your ex was your first real love, this could explain the sheer volume of pain you&#8217;re experiencing now. Your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salute mentale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> might seem to be deteriorating because you&#8217;re pining for someone who was never meant to last.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s hard saying goodbye to a romantic love, especially one who played an enormous role in shaping us into who we are today.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Vedetela in questo modo: avete incontrato una persona che ha finito per cambiare la vostra vita. Siete cresciuti insieme, siete maturati insieme e avete imparato molto attraverso una serie di errori e piccole vittorie.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That was an experience that will always be embedded in your memory. It didn&#8217;t last but so what?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You still have a whole future ahead of you. And because of the lessons you&#8217;ve learned with your first love, now, you&#8217;re more careful when entering <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuove relazioni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lasciate che il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex partner<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> do his thing and you do yours. Don&#8217;t cry because it&#8217;s over, smile because it happened!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Vi fa sentire come se la rottura fosse tutta colpa vostra.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81900 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con occhiali da vista seduta sul cemento vicino a una recinzione\" width=\"1280\" height=\"853\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-concrete-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nelle relazioni di coppia, entrambe le parti tendono a investire grandi quantit\u00e0 di sforzi ed energie per farle funzionare. E quando tutto va in frantumi e la vostra <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex spostamenti<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> cos\u00ec facilmente, pu\u00f2 farvi sentire un fallimento totale.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seeing your ex with their new squeeze brings back all the memories of what could&#8217;ve been but never was. It reminds you of how much you (supposedly) failed and this plays with your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It also leads you to think: \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My ex is dating someone new already and it hurts so much. I am such a complete failure!&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tenetelo a mente quando questi pensieri viziosi occupano la vostra mente: Il vostro ex \u00e8 destinato a mostrare i suoi veri colori a un certo punto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c8 solo una questione di tempo prima che facciano la stessa cosa con i loro <\/b><b>nuovo partner<\/b><b> che hanno fatto a voi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t suppress all of their shortcomings just because they&#8217;re seemingly so happy now. Remind yourself of how emotionally unavailable they were.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ripensate a tutti i modi in cui vi hanno fatto sentire non amati e invisibili. Tutti possono sembrare felici a prima vista, ma nessuno sa cosa succede dietro le porte chiuse, tranne loro!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t diminish yourself just because they look happy on paper.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One day (it could be tomorrow or in a year), you&#8217;re going to meet the person you&#8217;re truly meant to be with and when you do, this person will stop mattering altogether.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why not speed up the process? Why not realize how utterly irrelevant your ex and who they&#8217;re seeing are? It has no bearing on your current life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le rotture avvengono per una moltitudine di motivi. <\/span><b>Haven&#8217;t you heard that it takes two to tango?<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Siete ancora in lutto per la vostra relazione passata<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81902 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna con gli occhi chiusi appoggiata al tavolo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People try to fool themselves into believing that they&#8217;ve moved on and that there is zero emotional attachment left.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, the honest truth is that you might need a little extra time to rid yourself of all the pain you haven&#8217;t fully processed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may have consciously moved forward but that doesn&#8217;t erase the grief that&#8217;s left in your heart. The pain doesn&#8217;t simply dissolve without a trace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nel vostro cuore, potreste essere ancora completamente legati a questa persona senza nemmeno rendervi conto di quanto la rottura vi abbia profondamente traumatizzato.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il mio consiglio \u00e8 di ritagliarsi un po' di tempo da dedicare a me e di lasciarsi alle spalle tutte le emozioni negative che si provano.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Riflettete a lungo sullo stato attuale della vostra mente e su come vi sentite veramente quando si parla del vostro ex.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does it give you anxiety when you think: &#8221;<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts,&#8221; <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">o riuscite a rimanere calmi, raccolti e con una mente razionale?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Prendetevi tutto il tempo necessario per elaborare ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo tra voi due. Nessuno pu\u00f2 affrettare il <\/b><b>processo di guarigione<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fate un passo indietro e rivalutate la vostra posizione. Se il vostro cuore soffre ancora per il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione passata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lasciate che trovi la pace al suo ritmo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s okay to grieve something that once meant a great deal to you. It doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean that you want your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex indietro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">significa solo che avete bisogno di un po' di tempo in pi\u00f9 per stare di nuovo bene da soli.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And guess what? One day, you&#8217;ll be okay. Your heart won&#8217;t sink when you see them again and you&#8217;ll be able to smile without swallowing tears.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siate coraggiosi. Ognuno di noi sta percorrendo un viaggio unico verso la felicit\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/si-sta-allontanando-o-sta-rompendo-con-te\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si sta allontanando o sta rompendo con te? 17 modi per saperlo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>You&#8217;re wondering why you weren&#8217;t enough<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82009 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna con maglione bianco appoggiata al tavolo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-table-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Essere un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex fidanzata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sucks. Seeing your ex in the warm embrace of a new person brings out something inside of you that you didn&#8217;t know existed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi fa sentire inadeguati, vuoti, non abbastanza intelligenti e non abbastanza divertenti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E lascia un tale sapore amaro in bocca che non se ne va mai davvero, non fino a quando non si sta bene e non si sta con qualcuno di nuovo che ci rende pi\u00f9 felici di quanto non lo si sia mai stati con il proprio ex.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But until that happens, you can&#8217;t help but wonder why you weren&#8217;t enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You opened up your heart and gave them a piece of you that they ultimately couldn&#8217;t appreciate. You made yourself be vulnerable like you never were before, just to see that it didn&#8217;t matter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Oggi sono qui, felici, appagati e come se nessun cuore fosse stato spezzato nel processo. Quando \u00e8 successo <\/b><b><i>voi<\/i><\/b><b> smettere di avere importanza?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can&#8217;t help but wonder why couldn&#8217;t that have been you? How close were you to being their one true love? What should you have done differently for them to stay?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you know what? The answer is absolutely nothing. You were a good partner, a kind one, and you cared more than you should&#8217;ve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You put in the effort on a daily basis and you always put their well-being first. Their needs trumped your own and you would&#8217;ve gone to the ends of the earth for them and they still left.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does that tell you? They weren&#8217;t worthy of your time, love or effort. You are going to be enough for a person who deserves you. And that person <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">volont\u00e0<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> vieni!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When they do, there will be no more second-guessing or diminishing your own worth. You&#8217;ll be content and at peace just the way that you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Cosa fare quando il vostro ex sta con un'altra persona?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t allow yourself to react negatively<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-85318 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-a-boardwalk.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi su una passerella circondata da uccelli\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-a-boardwalk.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-a-boardwalk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-a-boardwalk-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter what happens, don&#8217;t let your heart get the better of you. Remain calm and collected. Think about your reaction before you make a scene or cause yourself any unnecessary pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le emozioni negative possono facilmente traboccare dalla mente e creare un ambiente tossico che vi soffoca. Resistete all'impulso di reagire male e fate invece il percorso inverso.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Invece di pensare: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts so much, when will the pain stop?&#8221; <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Permettetevi di sentirvi tristi per un minuto, poi tiratevi su, chiamate la vostra migliore amica e lasciate che vi aiuti a capire quanto valete.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Evitare di parlare dell'ex partner<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-85342 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-14.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda seduta su una roccia vicino a una montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-14.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-14-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-14-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t think about them, don&#8217;t talk about them and don&#8217;t let anyone fill your head with any information about them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let that person evaporate from your mind and eventually, you&#8217;ll stop thinking about them altogether. It&#8217;s funny how the mind works. When you force yourself to erase someone from your memory, it ends up doing the trick.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It takes a little bit of effort that I know isn&#8217;t easy but it&#8217;s all for the sake of successfully moving on toward a healthier, happier future. Put your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salute mentale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> prima e i pensieri negativi poi.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Prepararsi a un senso di perdita per andare avanti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-85345 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-hammock-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta su un&#039;amaca che guarda l&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-hammock-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-hammock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-hammock-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lasciarsi andare \u00e8 straziante e richiede molta forza di volont\u00e0, quindi vi invito a prepararvi a un senso di perdita incombente che inevitabilmente pervader\u00e0 la vostra mente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Indipendentemente da quanto la relazione fosse dannosa, tossica o estenuante, era comunque una parte importante della vostra vita che ora avete perso.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acknowledge the pain, feel it and don&#8217;t be afraid of your emotions. It&#8217;s never easy<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-ex-ha-una-nuova-ragazza\/\"> vedere il proprio ex con un'altra persona<\/a> ma una volta che avrete fatto pace con questa nuova situazione nella vostra testa, andare avanti sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 facile.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alleviate lo stress dalla vostra mente preparandovi ad affrontare i sentimenti che a volte vi possono sopraffare.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And then, instead of thinking: &#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts like hell,&#8221; you&#8217;ll be able to see it from a rational point of view.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b><i>They are happy with someone new and one day you will be too. And that&#8217;s all there is to it. Chapter closed!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/superare-il-crepacuore\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Superare <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuore spezzato<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: 16 consigli per guarire il cuore<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82446 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Il mio ex sta gi\u00e0 uscendo con un&#039;altra persona e fa male: ecco perch\u00e9\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8221;My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts like hell. I thought I was over them. I was sure they had disappeared from my mind, yet here I am, broken to the bone seeing them with someone new.&#8221; This is what most people go through upon seeing their ex-partner in a new relationship&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":81891,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81889","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/My-Ex-Is-Dating-Someone-Else-Already-And-It-Hurts-This-Is-Why.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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