{"id":81944,"date":"2020-06-22T12:45:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:45:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81944"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:41:51","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:41:51","slug":"vi-fa-sentire-indesiderati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vi-fa-sentire-indesiderati\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ti fa sentire indesiderata, vattene e non tornare mai indietro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La cosa peggiore delle persone che vi fanno sentire indesiderati \u00e8 il modo in cui vi spingono a pensare di essere indegni.<\/p>\n<p>Nessuno dovrebbe mai mettere in dubbio il proprio valore.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Just because someone doesn\u2019t know how to love you doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re unlovable.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know that awful feeling. Here you are, and there he is. It seems like you can\u2019t reach him no matter what you do.<\/p>\n<p>It feels like you\u2019re invisible; he doesn\u2019t even see you. Do you even matter to him? Would anything you do make him blink, if nothing else? It seems not.<\/p>\n<p>The person who\u2019s the biggest part of your life seems not to care whether you\u2019re even there. At that very moment, you\u2019re unimportant.<\/p>\n<p>Sembrate cos\u00ec piccoli ai suoi occhi. Vorresti essere piccolo nella realt\u00e0. Vorresti ritirarti cos\u00ec in profondit\u00e0 che nessuno possa vederti.<\/p>\n<p>How can you even exist with such little value you carry? That\u2019s how a woman feels when her man makes her feel unwanted and unloved.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You have to run \u2013 run and never come back. Don\u2019t think twice, because you\u2019re not leaving anything behind but the pain.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Il vostro uomo dovrebbe apprezzarvi, proteggervi, nutrirvi. Dovrebbe amarvi e riconoscere quando fa qualcosa che vi fa sentire invisibili.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81949\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"una giovane donna triste che piange messa a fuoco e un uomo sdraiato su un letto in lontananza e sfuocato\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-young-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If he\u2019s got you to a point where you no longer see yourself, that\u2019s the point of no return. Go now. Don\u2019t fall into the trap of trying to make yourself more noticeable for him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t bend over backward to attract his attention. You don\u2019t need it any longer.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>No matter what you do at this point, it won\u2019t benefit you in any way. It will only make you feel worse to know that even when you try your hardest to make him notice you, he still doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not the one to blame. It\u2019s not the things you did or did not do that made him act this way. That\u2019s the reason you\u2019re also not the one who can change this.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing you can do is leave while there\u2019s still time for you to go back to your confident, healthy, powerful self.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t waste your time on trying to go back to something you two maybe had before he started going blind to everything about you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no going back.<\/p>\n<p>If you stay, you\u2019ll fall deeper in the mud every day. With every morning you\u2019ll feel weaker, more tired, more sad than you did the day before.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Day by day there\u2019ll be nothing left of the person you used to be. You\u2019ll become a shadow of the girl who once existed.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>La ragazza che sapeva come <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-delle-lettere-ha-bisogno-di-essere-apprezzata\/\">apprezzare se stessa<\/a> e il mondo. La ragazza che amava la vita, amava se stessa e sapeva come diffondere l'amore ovunque andasse.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81951\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/grayscale-photography-of-man.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia in scala di grigi di un uomo in piedi sul lato del ponte con una persona sfocata in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/grayscale-photography-of-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/grayscale-photography-of-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/grayscale-photography-of-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/nel-momento-in-cui-me-ne-andro-e-smettero-di-lottare-consideratemi-sparito-per-sempre\/\">She\u2019ll be gone forever<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Si dice che la cosa pi\u00f9 preziosa dei nostri cari non sia mai chi sono come persone, ma il modo meraviglioso in cui ci fanno sentire.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If he makes you feel like nothing, there\u2019s nothing about him to regret leaving.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>That girl though\u2026 She\u2019s worth it. Everything about her is worth it. Don\u2019t leave her behind, that\u2019s something you will regret. She\u2019s the one you should seek. She\u2019s the one to protect.<\/p>\n<p>Leave now. It won\u2019t be easy, but you will heal. Getting away from him will be your starting point in this journey of regaining your strength and confidence.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t let him make you think you\u2019re the one who\u2019s unlovable. Just because there\u2019s a dark cloud over his head that stops him from seeing your worth, it definitely doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re unworthy.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Permettergli di farti sentire indesiderata e di distruggere la tua autostima \u00e8 la cosa peggiore che tu possa fare a quella fantastica ragazza.<\/p>\n<p>He was a bump in the road and he did slow you down, but don\u2019t let him stop you for good.<\/p>\n<p>Everything he ruined can be rebuilt. Once you realize you shouldn\u2019t question your value, things will start falling back into their rightful place.<\/p>\n<p>This is where you learn never to let this happen to you again.&nbsp;There will always be people who won\u2019t see your worth \u2013 the most important thing is that you don\u2019t let it be you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81956\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest.png\" alt=\"Se ti fa sentire indesiderata, vattene e non tornare mai indietro\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest.png 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back-Pinterest-768x1152.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The worst thing about people who make you feel unwanted is the way they motivate you to start thinking you\u2019re unworthy. No one should ever question their own worth. Just because someone doesn\u2019t know how to love you doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re unlovable. I know that awful feeling. Here you are, and there he is. It&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":81952,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81944","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-He-Ever-Makes-You-Feel-Unwanted-Leave-And-Never-Turn-Back.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81944","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81944"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81944\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81952"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81944"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81944"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81944"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}