{"id":82010,"date":"2020-06-22T12:48:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:48:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82010"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:27:43","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:27:43","slug":"starai-bene-senza-di-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/starai-bene-senza-di-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera di promesse a me stessa: Starai bene senza di lui"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey, you. I know that you\u2019re not only cuore spezzato<\/a> e devastato.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a smart girl and you\u2019re perfectly aware that your heartache will go away sooner or later. The biggest problem here is that you\u2019re scared<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re terrified of having to keep on living without this man by your side. Without the man you thought was your other half and without the man who completed you.<\/p>\n

Per tutti quegli anni, eravate convinti che fosse il vostro salvatore e l'unica persona che vi teneva in vita. Lo vedevate come la vostra ragione di vita, come la vostra pi\u00f9 grande motivazione e come la causa della vostra esistenza.<\/p>\n

Avete investito tutte le vostre energie nella vostra relazione. Era pronta a fare qualsiasi cosa pur di tenerlo al suo fianco.<\/p>\n

You lost everyone because he asked you to. Your friends weren\u2019t good enough, your family didn\u2019t mean you well and you cut all of them off.<\/p>\n

Most of all\u2014hai perso te stesso<\/a>. La ragazza che eri prima del suo arrivo ha cessato di esistere. L'ha distrutta, ha gettato via la sua anima innocente e l'ha uccisa spiritualmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non eri pi\u00f9 un individuo, una figlia o un'amica. In realt\u00e0, non eri pi\u00f9 una donna. Lei aveva solo il ruolo di fidanzata e per lei non esisteva un mondo al di fuori della vostra relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Con il tempo, quest'uomo \u00e8 diventato il centro del vostro universo.<\/p>\n

\"fidanzata<\/p>\n

L'unica persona che ti faceva sentire al sicuro e protetta, l'unica in grado di farti sorridere e l'unico uomo in vita in grado di renderti felice.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ora non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9<\/strong>. Ti ha lasciato in sospeso e ti ha abbandonato quando avevi pi\u00f9 bisogno di lui<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, you don\u2019t think you can make it without him. You saw him as your rock, safe haven and sanctuary.<\/p>\n

Pensate che perdendo lui, avete perso tutto ci\u00f2 che di prezioso c'era nella vostra vita.<\/strong> You\u2019re convinced that by breaking your heart, he also broke you beyond repair.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. In fact, I\u2019m here to promise you that you\u2019ll be okay without him, even though you probably don\u2019t believe me now.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t miss him forever. In fact, one of these days you\u2019ll wake up with a smile on your face and you\u2019ll realize that this man wasn\u2019t the first thing you thought of.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn how to live without his presence<\/strong>. You\u2019ll remember who you really are and you\u2019ll become independent and powerful once again.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll understand that siete pi\u00f9 che sufficienti per rendervi felici<\/strong>. That you don\u2019t need him to have your back and that he was actually the one not allowing you to reach your full potential.<\/p>\n

Vedete, quest'uomo si \u00e8 impegnato molto per farvi sentire impotenti. Voleva farvi credere che non eravate in grado di vivere da soli e che avevate bisogno di lui per sopravvivere a questo mondo duro.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Era l'unico modo per tenerti al suo fianco. Il modo in cui lui ti fa emotivamente dipendente<\/a> su di lui e il modo per trasformarvi nella sua vittima.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, after a while, you\u2019ll understand that he actually did you a favor when he left you to struggle on your own.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, ti ha fatto nascondere la donna forte che eri prima di lui.<\/p>\n

However, that woman is still there, buried somewhere inside of you\u2014you just have to put some effort into digging deep enough to find you.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, ha frantumato il vostro cuore in un milione di piccoli pezzi. Tuttavia, vi assicuro che avete le carte in regola per incollare nuovamente ciascuno di essi.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, fidatevi di me quando vi dico che he didn\u2019t break you because you\u2019re stronger than that. You\u2019re made of steel and you will rise back from the ashes like a phoenix.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you; scars will remain. Those painful wounds all over your soul will eventually heal but they will leave a mark.<\/p>\n

No, they won\u2019t hurt forever. Instead, they will serve you as a reminder of everything you had to experience…<\/p>\n

… as a reminder that you went through hell but were strong enough to come back from it more powerful than ever. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi serviranno come promemoria della vostra forza e della vostra sopravvivenza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

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