{"id":82738,"date":"2020-06-22T12:26:17","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:26:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82738"},"modified":"2022-01-14T10:36:02","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T10:36:02","slug":"come-rompere-con-qualcuno-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-rompere-con-qualcuno-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Come rompere con qualcuno: Una guida in 12 passi per una rottura pulita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Che vi piaccia o meno ammetterlo, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/horoscope\/come-sanno-che-la-relazione-e-finita\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la vostra relazione \u00e8 praticamente finita<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> nel momento in cui iniziate a chiedervi come <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con qualcuno.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is exactly what you&#8217;re going through. You&#8217;ve been trying to find the least harmful way to walk away from your partner and to give them the bad news the easiest way possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People assume that the one saying the final goodbye doesn&#8217;t carry any burden. However, that&#8217;s far from the truth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;ll be honest with you. Breaking things off is never easy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, sometimes you reach a point where it&#8217;s the only option you have \u2013 a point where your relationship is making you miserable and you know it can&#8217;t be saved.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ebbene, se questi sono i pensieri che vi passano per la mente e se continuate a chiedervi come <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con qualcuno, ecco alcuni consigli del nostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">esperti di relazioni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> che dovreste assolutamente controllare.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Essere certi della propria decisione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82755 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-outdoor-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda seduta all&#039;aperto a pensare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-outdoor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-outdoor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-outdoor-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before ending your relationship, you have to be sure that this is what you really want. Please, don\u2019t confuse yourself or your partner if you\u2019re not certain in your decision.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t do this if you want to scare them by pretending that you want to leave. Don\u2019t do it to make them understand what they\u2019re losing or to make them feel your absence so they can appreciate your presence more.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So che potrebbe sembrare una buona idea, ma credetemi, questi non sono altro che <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-fa-questi-7-giochi-di-relazione-immaturi-sta-sprecando-il-vostro-tempo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">giochi mentali immaturi<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> che creer\u00e0 una confusione ancora pi\u00f9 grande nella vostra relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First of all, you need to be clear that your relationship isn\u2019t worth saving. You\u2019re breaking up with someone because you don\u2019t love them anymore, you think you two have no future together, or they don\u2019t treat you right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anche se questi sono i motivi pi\u00f9 comuni per cui le persone sono solite <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, potete basare la vostra decisione su qualcosa di diverso.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The point is that you shouldn\u2019t have to justify your reasons to anyone \u2013 the mere fact that you want out of this relationship is more than enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, \u00e8 importante che ci sia un motivo per farlo. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Don\u2019t do it on a whim and if you\u2019re likely to change your mind the next day.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly, don\u2019t do it if you expect to get back together with your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not saying that this can\u2019t happen sometime in the future, but there is absolutely no point in breaking-up with them if you\u2019re thinking about reconciliation now.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Don\u2019t beat yourself up<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82756 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-stairs.jpg\" alt=\"donna con sciarpa grigia seduta sulle scale\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-stairs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">molte persone<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> supporre che l'unica persona che soffre a causa della <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is the one who is being left behind. Well, that can\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Capire come <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con qualcuno che vi ama, vi porta anche dolore emotivo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because you want to say your goodbyes, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re happy about it. Besides, when you\u2019re the one breaking up, you\u2019re dealing with another painful emotion: guilt.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially true if we\u2019re talking about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-motivi-che-causano-la-fine-di-una-relazione-a-lungo-termine\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazioni a lungo termine<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You think that you\u2019re throwing away your history together and all the years you spent next to each other, so you can\u2019t avoid feeling guilty for being the one who destroys everything.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un'altra cosa da fare, prima di agire concretamente, \u00e8 la seguente <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is clearing your conscience. After all, you\u2019re not married to your boyfriend or girlfriend, and even if you are, you have the right to file for divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You didn\u2019t sign a paper that the two of you will grow old together, no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You didn\u2019t make any wedding vows, promising them to stick by their side through bad and good days, through sickness and health until death does you apart.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You didn\u2019t choose this person as your life partner just yet. Therefore, you have the right to change your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t feel guilty for breaking up with them if this is something you want to do. Don\u2019t blame yourself for the failure of your relationship. Don\u2019t think of yourself as weak for not being able to put up with it anymore.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationships end and that is all a part of life. I know that you\u2019re probably beating yourself up for being the one who has to put a stop to your romance, but you have to put your happiness first.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won\u2019t stay in a relationship that is making you miserable just to spare the other <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">person\u2019s feelings<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You can\u2019t keep on breaking your own heart just to save theirs.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Farlo in tempo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82758 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna seduti su un molo vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'errore numero uno di un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">molte persone<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> fare quando vogliono <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con il proprio partner \u00e8 quello di rimandare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aspettano che il loro fidanzato o la loro fidanzata escano da un brutto periodo della loro vita, fino a dopo il loro compleanno, fino a quando tornano da quel viaggio che hanno programmato da secoli, e cos\u00ec via.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is something you shouldn\u2019t do. Trust me, before you know it, you\u2019ll turn around and see that months have gone by since your initial decision and you\u2019re still trapped in this relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fact is that people do this because they\u2019re scared. They don\u2019t have the courage to walk away, so they remain in this relationship, expecting a miracle to happen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In pratica, si aspettano che sia l'altra persona a fare la mossa o che la loro relazione finisca magicamente. \u00c8 improbabile che ci\u00f2 accada e, che vi piaccia o no, dovete trovare la forza di fare il lavoro sporco da soli.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not telling you to abandon your partner in the middle of a family emergency or the moment they lost their job.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo tutto, questo \u00e8 ancora il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amico fidato<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, even though you don\u2019t feel any romantic connection with them anymore.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, I\u2019m begging you not to make excuses and not to postpone the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Trust me, it\u2019s better to do it in time before things between you two become even worse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, by leaving them, you\u2019re actually doing your partner a favor. It\u2019s way better to be honest about your feelings than to keep on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/e-colpa-sua-se-ti-ha-illuso-ma-e-colpa-tua-se-glielo-hai-permesso\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">che li guida<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> just because you\u2019re scared of saying the final goodbye.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siate diretti e strappate il <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cerotto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> raccontando tutto <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">AL PI\u00d9 PRESTO<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e nel modo pi\u00f9 diretto possibile.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And the worst thing you could do is treat your significant other as a safety net. Don\u2019t go out there hunting for a new potential partner until you make everything clear in your current relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Pianificare la conversazione di rottura<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82760 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-5.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta sul divano con la testa sulla mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re wondering how to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with someone you love (because no matter what happened, I&#8217;m sure you still have some emotions towards this person), you have to know exactly what you\u2019re about to say.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Otherwise, your emotions will take over and if you don&#8217;t plan ahead, you won&#8217;t manage to do it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, this won\u2019t be a monologue, so it\u2019s impossible to plan every single sentence to come out of your mouth, but you should definitely think about what you want to tell them as a whole.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you usually have trouble expressing yourself verbally, write your thoughts down on a piece of paper and learn it by heart. No, you won\u2019t be reading or reciting your speech, it will just serve you as a guideline.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember: This is probably the last time you\u2019re having this kind of conversation with your partner. So don\u2019t leave anything unsaid.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead, tell them everything that\u2019s on your mind and heart. Try to explain to them how you feel, why you think that your romance should end, and most importantly, do your best to give them <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ecco-come-ci-si-sente-quando-si-cerca-di-andare-avanti-senza-una-chiusura\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chiusura<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, don\u2019t use this opportunity to analyze your entire relationship from the first day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non ha assolutamente senso tirare fuori tutto il vostro bagaglio emotivo, perch\u00e9 questo porter\u00e0 solo a una discussione inutile.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t become all defensive or try arguing with your partner. Just be calm and honest.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try not to show too many emotions; that will only make things even harder for both of you. Nevertheless, don\u2019t behave like you\u2019re completely indifferent to all that\u2019s been going on.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cercate di trovare un equilibrio. Mostrate loro che <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lasciarsi \u00e8 difficile da fare<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for you, but that you\u2019re certain in your decision and nothing they do or say can change your mind.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando si parla di ragioni per il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, be as honest as possible. Don\u2019t lie or sugarcoat things; tell them straightforwardly why you\u2019re leaving them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Inoltre, preparatevi al fatto che probabilmente ci saranno domande difficili da parte del vostro partner. Tuttavia, questa \u00e8 la persona con cui avete trascorso un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">molto tempo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con i quali probabilmente li conoscete meglio.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, if you think things through you\u2019ll probably be able to predict most of their responses and questions. So, prepare yourself and be ready to give them the answers they want to hear.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>RELATIVO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/testi-di-rottura\/\">Testi di rottura: 50+ messaggi di testo per chiudere la relazione<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>5. Faccia a faccia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82762 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-walking-in-snow.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con giacca gialla e donna che camminano nella neve\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-walking-in-snow.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-walking-in-snow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-walking-in-snow-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Negli appuntamenti moderni, tutto avviene letteralmente tramite <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social media<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">messaggi di testo,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">telefonate<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Ebbene, anche se \u00e8 diventata una prassi <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with someone this way, it is something you shouldn\u2019t do at any cost.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t care if you and your partner met on a dating site or if you even started your relationship on <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social media, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">meritano che voi <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con loro, guardandoli dritti negli occhi.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter if you two have been in a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/true-love\/coupled-up\/relazione-a-distanza-ultimo-test-amore\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione a distanza<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Per favore, trovate un modo per vederli di persona.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s be honest. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/testi-di-rottura\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scaricare qualcuno attraverso un messaggio<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 un gioco da ragazzi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to actually talk to them, you don\u2019t have to be scared of your voice trembling, you don\u2019t have to look them in the eyes while telling them about your decision.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, if things get rough, you can always block their number or stop responding to their text messages. It dehumanizes the entire process and you don\u2019t see your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex partner<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> che piange dall'altra parte dello schermo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if you\u2019re mature enough to have a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione romantica<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dovreste essere abbastanza maturi da <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fine delle cose<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> anche alla vecchia maniera. Farlo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">faccia a faccia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> d\u00e0 a un'altra persona un certo senso di valore.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In questo modo, riconoscete la loro importanza nella vostra vita, anche se volete che la vostra relazione finisca.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re showing them that they have been important enough for you to give them your time and effort to explain yourself.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, you won\u2019t be seen as a coward who doesn\u2019t have the courage to actually tell someone you\u2019re walking away from them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Purtroppo, un'altra forma popolare di <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rotture<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 ora <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasma<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You know that move when you just disappear from the other person\u2019s life without even saying a word?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As tempting as this might sound, I can\u2019t emphasize how wrong it is on so many levels. So, I\u2019m begging you not to even consider it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. \u2026but not in public<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82764 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-talking-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che parlano durante il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-talking-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-talking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-talking-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another thing to keep in mind when breaking up with your significant other is the place in which you\u2019ll do it. First and foremost, a serious <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conversazione di rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> come questo merita un po' di privacy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Inoltre, per quanto si pensi di conoscere l'altra persona, non si pu\u00f2 mai prevedere completamente la sua reazione.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t know if there will be screaming, crying, curses, or fighting involved, so you might want to avoid doing it in a public space.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, you don\u2019t want to humiliate your partner by allowing other people to see or hear that they\u2019re being dumped.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With all this in mind, it\u2019s obvious that you should be careful while choosing the place for your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, don\u2019t do it in your house, apartment, or car either.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this case, if things get rough, you\u2019ll find yourself in a situation where you have to throw your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex partner<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> out \u2013 and that is the last thing they need to go through after being dumped.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, what is important is to pick a quiet setting. Maybe it\u2019s better to do it \u201con their field,\u201d so you can be the one to walk away.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. Sapere che farete del male all'altra persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82765 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaving-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna in pantaloni a righe che lascia un uomo triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaving-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaving-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaving-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I won\u2019t lie. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lasciarsi \u00e8 difficile<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This is not the nicest thing you\u2019ll have to do in life, but sometimes it simply has to be done.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo vale soprattutto se sapete che l'altra persona vuole continuare la relazione. Sar\u00e0 difficile dire di no se l'altra persona inizia a implorare per <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/dargli-unaltra-possibilita-significa-concedersi-un-altro-colpo-al-cuore\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">una seconda possibilit\u00e0<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that no matter how you play your cards, you will definitely end up hurting the other person. You will probably break their heart and there isn\u2019t a scenario in which they\u2019ll be left unharmed.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if your ex stopped loving you, you\u2019ll hurt their ego when you walk away from them. So, please accept this as an inevitable fact.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, I\u2019m asking you to acknowledge their pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you see them as the bad guy in the story \u2013 even if you think that they\u2019re the one who caused this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 they have the right to feel hurt, abandoned, or even betrayed.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is important here is for you not to feel like a villain. You\u2019re just choosing your own happiness over someone else\u2019s and, contrary to popular belief, there is nothing selfish about that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner might tell you that you\u2019re ruining their life and breaking them beyond repair, but trust me, it\u2019s not the case. They\u2019re feeling like this right now, but sooner or later, they <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">volont\u00e0 <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">recuperare.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The end of your relationship isn\u2019t the end of the world for either of you. They will find their happiness without you, so the last thing you should allow is for guilt to eat you alive.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. Lasciateli parlare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82767 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-floor-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna seduti sul pavimento a parlare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-floor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-floor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-floor-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re the one who is breaking things off, so you\u2019re the one who\u2019ll have to start and lead this conversation. However, you can\u2019t expect the other party to peacefully listen to you, without saying a word.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo tutto, la vostra relazione era una strada a doppio senso, il che significa che anche loro ne facevano parte in egual misura. Anche loro hanno il diritto di dire la loro opinione e di parlare dei loro sentimenti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 una cosa che dovete permettere loro di fare. Lasciate che vi dicano tutto quello che vogliono e date loro la possibilit\u00e0 di essere ascoltati per l'ultima volta.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Naturally, you won\u2019t always agree with everything they have to say. After all, you two probably have different perspectives on your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, even in this case, you need to let them clear everything they have off their chest. Remember that this conversation shouldn\u2019t revolve around who is right; it should be seen as a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/chiudere-con-lex-che-rifiuta-di-parlare\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">possibilit\u00e0 di chiusura<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. Essere gentili ed empatici<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82768 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-talking-to-man-.jpg\" alt=\"donna che parla con un uomo in giacca gialla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-talking-to-man-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-talking-to-man--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-talking-to-man--768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whenever you\u2019re talking to someone, even if that someone is a stranger, you ought to do your best to be kind and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/psychology\/personality-types\/8-modi-in-cui-gli-empatici-amano-in-modo-diverso\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">empatico<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, this is especially true when you\u2019re talking to the person who was your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e con cui avete una lunga storia.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that they\u2019re the ones being hurt more than you are here. They\u2019re the ones who are receiving bad news and the ones who are brought to a dead end.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though this situation is probably painful for you too, you\u2019re the one who made the tough decision to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fine delle cose<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, your partner might still want to remain in the relationship yet they\u2019re being involuntarily kicked out of it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What I\u2019m trying to say is that considering all this, it\u2019s clear that right now they\u2019re in a worse position than you. Therefore, you\u2019re the one who should give them all the sympathy in the world.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Please, try putting yourself in their shoes. Try to understand them and do your best not to judge them, even if they don\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-modi-per-rompere-il-grimaldello\/\">accettare la rottura<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;come ci si aspettava che facessero.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be as gentle as possible while telling them that you\u2019re about to leave them. Don\u2019t lie to them, but also don\u2019t insult or humiliate them in any way possible.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another thing you should be careful about is the tone of your voice. Be cautious not to raise your voice or talk like you\u2019re arguing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, your relationship is coming to an end. However, you two are still equals here. Don\u2019t you ever forget that.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>10. Evitare il gioco delle colpe<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82770 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-pavement-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna seduti sul marciapiede che guardano l&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-pavement-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-pavement-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-pavement-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un altro errore che la maggior parte delle coppie commette nel porre fine alla propria relazione \u00e8 quello di sfruttare l'occasione per risolvere tutte le discussioni.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is the final goodbye \u2013 it\u2019s not a chance for you two to figure out who made more mistakes and who\u2019s to blame for your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fasi-della-rottura\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why I\u2019m begging you to avoid the blame game at all costs. As it was already stated, both you and your ex have different perspectives on your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-top-reasons-why-relationships-fail-and-how-to-avoid-them\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fallito <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione romantica<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, it\u2019s not surprising to have them see you as the bad guy of the story and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">viceversa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Tuttavia, non \u00e8 questo il luogo o il momento per discuterne.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, what\u2019s the point of shifting responsibility? You decided it\u2019s time to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fine delle cose,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> which means that you\u2019ve reached a point where nothing can be done to save your relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t rehash your old issues, don\u2019t be resentful, and don\u2019t mention some old grudges you might have. You both need to accept that it\u2019s over and that it\u2019s completely irrelevant who did what.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>11. Tagliare tutti i legami<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82771 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-lake.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi vicino al lago durante il giorno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-lake-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-motivi-per-cui-gli-amici-ex-vanno-bene\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rimanere amici di un ex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a civilized thing to do, especially if we\u2019re talking about someone you spent years with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For all of this time, this person was a huge part of your life and it is totally understandable that you can\u2019t kick them out so easily.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They weren\u2019t just your romantic partner and a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amata<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Erano anche uno dei vostri <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amici fidati,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e hai iniziato a vederli come un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">membro della famiglia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> nel corso degli anni.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, ogni <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">esperto di relazioni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> vi diranno di tagliare i ponti con loro una volta che <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">modi di separazione<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 at least in the beginning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fidatevi di me, questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per entrambi di <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lasciarsi andare<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of your relationship for real and it&#8217;s the best move for your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">benessere<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salute mentale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not saying that you should suddenly become enemies or that you shouldn\u2019t say \u201chi\u201d to each other when you run into each other, but everything besides that will only make things complicated.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it&#8217;s necessary, break things off with your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amici comuni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as well. Don&#8217;t deepen your ex&#8217;s wound and keep on hurting this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">person&#8217;s feelings<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ancora di pi\u00f9 rimanendo nella loro vita in questo modo o in un altro.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially true if the other person doesn\u2019t want to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Believe me, you\u2019ll only give them <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">falsa speranza<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> se promettete di rimanere amici.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, you\u2019ll also make a mess in your head if you don\u2019t go no contact. You\u2019ve gone this far and made your decision, so the last thing you need is having them next to you all the time as if nothing has changed.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, cutting all ties is the only way in which you\u2019ll show to your ex that you really mean what you said. This way, you\u2019re not leaving any space for them to think that you\u2019ll change your mind in the future.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not saying that reconciliation is never possible. After all, you never know what life might bring.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, questo non \u00e8 un aspetto da menzionare se si vuole davvero dare un taglio netto e strappare completamente la <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cerotto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> off.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t go giving either of you <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">falsa speranza<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> parlando della possibilit\u00e0 di tornare insieme un giorno.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>12. Imparare dalla propria relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82773 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta su una panchina che guarda l&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re wondering how to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with someone, you never think of what comes next \u2013 after the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rottura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 finita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You did what you wanted to do, your relationship is over, and now you\u2019re left all alone with your thoughts.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, that\u2019s exactly why I\u2019ll ask you to use this time to reexamine your relationship. Of course, this isn\u2019t something you should do with your ex, but on your own.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, don\u2019t think about your failed romance because you want to fix it. Scrutinize it so you can <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lasciarsi-finalmente-andare\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lasciarsi andare<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e utilizzarlo come un prezioso <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/era-solo-la-tua-lezione\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lezione di vita<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think about your dealbreakers. What were the things the other person was doing but you couldn\u2019t tolerate, as much as you tried?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What were your mistakes? Be mature enough to take your share of responsibility and think about the things you shouldn\u2019t be doing in the future with other partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando si tratta di andare avanti con la vostra vita sentimentale, secondo tutte le <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">allenatori di relazioni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">buttarsi subito in una nuova relazione non \u00e8 una buona idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Usate questo tempo per conoscere voi stessi e godervi il pi\u00f9 possibile la vostra vita da single.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly, stay away from any potential rebound relationships. You won\u2019t heal your broken heart by breaking someone else\u2019s in the process.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lavorare invece sull'auto-miglioramento e concentrarsi su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cura di s\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Sistemate le vostre emozioni e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salute mentale,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e imparare a mettere se stessi e la propria <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">benessere<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primo posto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Costruire un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione sana<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con voi stessi prima di cercare un partner. Ricordate le mie parole: questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per sperare di avere una <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relazione sana<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con qualcun altro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-83826 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/How-To-Break-Up-With-Someone-A-12-Step-Guide-For-A-Clean-Break-Up-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Come rompere con qualcuno: Una guida in 12 passi per una rottura pulita\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/How-To-Break-Up-With-Someone-A-12-Step-Guide-For-A-Clean-Break-Up-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/How-To-Break-Up-With-Someone-A-12-Step-Guide-For-A-Clean-Break-Up-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/How-To-Break-Up-With-Someone-A-12-Step-Guide-For-A-Clean-Break-Up-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/How-To-Break-Up-With-Someone-A-12-Step-Guide-For-A-Clean-Break-Up-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whether you like to admit this or not, your relationship is basically over the moment you start wondering how to break up with someone.&nbsp; This is exactly what you&#8217;re going through. 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