{"id":82753,"date":"2020-06-22T12:57:01","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:57:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82753"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:15:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:15:54","slug":"linee-che-tutti-i-narcisisti-usano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/linee-che-tutti-i-narcisisti-usano\/","title":{"rendered":"Le 8 frasi pi\u00f9 usate dai narcisisti e il loro vero significato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Dubbi su se stessi. Nebbia cerebrale. Sensazione di perdere la testa. Mettere in dubbio la propria memoria. Sensazione di non essere abbastanza bravi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Queste sono solo alcune delle cose che un narcisista vi far\u00e0 sentire.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing you say or do is good enough and it\u2019s like you\u2019re drowning. Every single day you\u2019re on the verge of having a nervous breakdown.<\/p>\n<p>He uses many tools to push you deeper down in the abyss of low self-esteem where you stop believing you\u2019re worthy of love.<\/p>\n<p>Uno dei suoi strumenti pi\u00f9 forti sono le parole offensive, e queste sono alcune delle sue frasi preferite che usa per abusare emotivamente di voi.<\/p>\n<h2>1. \u201cYou didn\u2019t let me finish what I was saying.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82800\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/fighting-couple-sitting-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia combattiva seduta sul divano vicino alla cucina\" width=\"800\" height=\"524\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/fighting-couple-sitting-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/fighting-couple-sitting-1-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/fighting-couple-sitting-1-768x503.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you try to oppose whatever he\u2019s saying, he immediately interrupts you, never even allowing you to make your point.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s his words, opinions, and arguments that matter. Not yours.<\/p>\n<p>His goal is to inflict as much emotional pain as he can, and if you\u2019re the one talking, he can\u2019t do that.<\/p>\n<h2>2. \u201cYou\u2019re mad just because I didn\u2019t do what you wanted when you wanted it.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82801\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/unhappy-couple-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice che discute sul divano in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/unhappy-couple-arguing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/unhappy-couple-arguing-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/unhappy-couple-arguing-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you try to make him realize you too have rights and boundaries, he won\u2019t accept it. What he\u2019ll do is make you feel guilty for trying to have things go your way for once.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole rendervi cos\u00ec emotivamente fragili e rovinare la vostra autostima al punto che non pensiate pi\u00f9 di avere il diritto di volere o pretendere qualcosa.<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u201cI\u2019m sorry. What more do you want me to do?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82802\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-explaining-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che spiega a una donna arrabbiata appoggiata al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-explaining-to-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-explaining-to-a-woman-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-explaining-to-a-woman-768x507.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s clearly not sorry for whatever it is he\u2019s referring to. He\u2019s giving you some fake idea that he\u2019s taking responsibility for his actions, while you can definitely see he regrets nothing.<\/p>\n<p>He states that there\u2019s nothing more he can do but give you those two pathetic words, because he wants you to know he isn\u2019t planning on making you feel better or making things right.<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u201cYou made me cheat.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82803\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-grasping-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna che afferra con rabbia la giacca di un uomo all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-grasping-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-grasping-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-grasping-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Projecting blame. A narcissist\u2019s favorite tool of drowning you in pain and making you his victim.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re dating a narcissist, you\u2019re used to him doing this all the time, but it may come as a surprise that he\u2019d still do it even when he does something as despicable as cheating. Unbelievable, but true.<\/p>\n<p>Rivoluzioner\u00e0 qualsiasi situazione per mettervi in cattiva luce.<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u201cYou\u2019re the only person in this world who thinks like that.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82804\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-having-disagreement.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna in disaccordo all&#039;interno della cucina che non si parlano\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-having-disagreement.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-having-disagreement-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-and-woman-having-disagreement-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will use whatever they can to back up his lies and manipulate you further. When there\u2019s no one around for him to use to be on his side, he will lie or imagine situations.<\/p>\n<p>He wants to make you feel like everybody else agrees with him, while you\u2019re the only person on the other side of the ring. He\u2019s fighting dirty, using whatever it takes to demean you and your opinions.<\/p>\n<h2>6. \u201cWhy can\u2019t you just forget the past?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82805\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/attentive-husband-to-his-angry-wife-1.jpg\" alt=\"marito attento alla moglie arrabbiata seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/attentive-husband-to-his-angry-wife-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/attentive-husband-to-his-angry-wife-1-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/attentive-husband-to-his-angry-wife-1-768x520.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He makes a point that you\u2019re the one dwelling on the past, memorizing everything bad he\u2019s ever done and using it against him.<\/p>\n<p>The most outrageous part about all this is that he still doesn\u2019t change his behavior. Even this is something he blames you for: not being able to forgive and forget all his mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>He speaks to your sensitivity too, hoping you might feel sorry for him, even though he doesn\u2019t deserve your empathy.<\/p>\n<h2>7. \u201cI don\u2019t know what you\u2019re talking about.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82806\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/angry-young-businessman.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo d&#039;affari arrabbiato che discute con una donna che porta una tazza\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/angry-young-businessman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/angry-young-businessman-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/angry-young-businessman-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is his way of discrediting the facts. Even if you already agreed on something after talking for quite some time about it, he still pretends he doesn\u2019t know what you\u2019re talking about.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s an expert at using passive-aggressive behavior to hurt you, and this is one such way. He will also say awful things and then deny saying them afterward as if it were all in your head.<\/p>\n<h2>8. \u201cWhat about your issues?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82807\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/unhappy-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna infelice seduta davanti a un uomo arrabbiato\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/unhappy-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/unhappy-woman-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/unhappy-woman-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He fails to take responsibility for his unacceptable behavior. He uses guilt trips to control you \u2013 yet another manipulation tactic.<\/p>\n<p>In any given situation, he would minimize your issues so he doesn\u2019t have to be there for you, but when it comes to getting himself out of the gutter, he\u2019s happy to drown you to save himself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82810\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Top-8-Lines-All-Narcissists-Use-And-Their-True-Meaning-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Le 8 frasi pi\u00f9 usate dai narcisisti e il loro vero significato\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Top-8-Lines-All-Narcissists-Use-And-Their-True-Meaning-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Top-8-Lines-All-Narcissists-Use-And-Their-True-Meaning-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Top-8-Lines-All-Narcissists-Use-And-Their-True-Meaning-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Top-8-Lines-All-Narcissists-Use-And-Their-True-Meaning-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self-doubt. Brain fog. Feeling like you\u2019re losing your mind. Second-guessing your memory. Feeling as if you\u2019re not good enough. These are only some of the things a narcissist will make you feel. Nothing you say or do is good enough and it\u2019s like you\u2019re drowning. Every single day you\u2019re on the verge of having a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":82808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Top-8-Lines-All-Narcissists-Use-And-Their-True-Meaning.png",800,507,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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