{"id":82812,"date":"2020-06-22T12:58:26","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:58:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82812"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:15:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:15:01","slug":"motivi-per-cui-sei-depresso-perche-sei-innamorato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/motivi-per-cui-sei-depresso-perche-sei-innamorato\/","title":{"rendered":"7 motivi per cui siete depressi perch\u00e9 siete innamorati (s\u00ec, \u00e8 possibile)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avete finalmente trovato la persona fantastica che vi ama, vi rispetta e si prende cura di voi. Dovreste essere deliziosamente felici, ma...<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve started feeling blue and decided that there must be something wrong with you to feel this way when you have all that you have.<\/p>\n

Hold on\u2026 don\u2019t jump to conclusions. It\u2019s possible that your wonderful love is exactly what\u2019s causing your sad, nostalgic feelings.<\/p>\n

Things have changed for you, and you\u2019re learning how to deal with it. Take a look at these 7 possible reasons why you\u2019re depressed because you\u2019re in love.<\/p>\n

1. Uscire con una persona simpatica, tanto per cambiare, ti spaventa<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve finally broken the awful pattern of dating toxic people, congratulations!<\/p>\n

Now, being with someone who is nice, who treats you like you\u2019re special, loves you, nurtures you, and is careful about what they say and do to you can feel strange.<\/p>\n

Forse nella vostra vita c'\u00e8 stato un sacco di caos che improvvisamente \u00e8 scomparso.<\/p>\n

Everything you\u2019re feeling right now probably just points to the fact that you need some time to get used to the new normal because this has obviously been a huge change for you.<\/p>\n

2. Pensavate che la vostra relazione avrebbe risolto tutti i vostri problemi.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Ci sono molte persone che sperano che, una volta trovata la persona per sempre e mantenuta una relazione sana e piena di amore e rispetto, tutti i loro problemi spariranno.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 assolutamente detto che una relazione possa curare tutti i vostri sentimenti di tristezza o di vuoto, o risolvere i vostri problemi pi\u00f9 profondi come la bassa autostima o l'ansia.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 fare un po' di differenza essere in un luogo sicuro con una persona che si ama, ma per risolvere veramente i propri problemi e crescere, bisogna lavorarci da soli.<\/p>\n

3. Lack of drama bores you or you can\u2019t get used to it<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Potrebbero esserci stati molti drammi nelle vostre relazioni precedenti e ora vi sentite completamente persi senza di essi.<\/p>\n

The peace you\u2019re feeling might be confused with boredom, don\u2019t let yourself think that way.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s perfectly normal for it to take some getting used to, but don\u2019t start thinking that you need all the drama in your life to be happy.<\/p>\n

4. I vostri sogni di persona per sempre sono stati realizzati<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Per un certo periodo di tempo, qualcosa vi ha preoccupato: trovare la persona per sempre. Ora, quando avete effettivamente quella persona speciale nella vostra vita, sembrate meno entusiasti di quanto dovreste. Perch\u00e9?<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that the person you\u2019ve chosen isn\u2019t right. It simply means that reaching your goal has left you somewhat aimless. It happens whenever we reach a goal in life and it\u2019s perfectly okay.<\/p>\n

Il vostro cervello ha bisogno di stimoli e sfide, quindi dovreste trovarli in altri settori della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

5. L'insediamento vi spaventa completamente<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you\u2019re freaked out by committing to that special someone. It\u2019s just that settling down in general freaks you out \u2013 you just don\u2019t like the idea.<\/p>\n

Si ha la sensazione che la vita diventi improvvisamente molto noiosa.<\/p>\n

The most important thing to remember is that your relationship doesn\u2019t have to be like anyone else\u2019s. It can be as exciting and thrilling as you want it to be.<\/p>\n

The kind of life you consider less of a thrill than you need isn\u2019t there waiting for you, it\u2019s you who makes the decision how to live your own life.<\/p>\n

6. You\u2019ve lost yourself<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Innamorarsi \u00e8 fantastico, ma perdersi in quell'amore fa completamente schifo.<\/p>\n

If your partner is the one who controls everything in your relationship, determining its course and you\u2019re letting him, that can\u2019t feel very good.<\/p>\n

Potreste avere la sensazione che i vostri sogni stiano aspettando, mentre voi date tutto quello che avete alla vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t remember the last time you did something you actually enjoyed, it\u2019s time for you to change things.<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re in a loving relationship doesn\u2019t mean you should abandon your personal interests.<\/p>\n

7. Ti manca un po' essere single<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Now, this is absolutely normal. Just because you truly love someone doesn\u2019t mean that a part of you doesn\u2019t miss being single.<\/p>\n

In primo luogo, le persone hanno quasi sempre la sensazione che l'erba del vicino sia pi\u00f9 verde.<\/p>\n

Secondly, it\u2019s a possibility that you didn\u2019t really live life to the fullest while you were single and now you\u2019re starting to regret that.<\/p>\n

The best way to deal with this is to realize that there\u2019s no reason you can\u2019t have fun and truly live life to the fullest during your relationship days as well.<\/p>\n

Being in a committed relationship shouldn\u2019t mean that the fun ends there. If you\u2019re with a partner who thinks otherwise, then you might want to reconsider your relationship.<\/p>\n

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You\u2019ve finally found that amazing person who loves you, respects you, and takes good care of you. You should be deliriously happy but\u2026 You\u2019ve started feeling blue and decided that there must be something wrong with you to feel this way when you have all that you have. Hold on\u2026 don\u2019t jump to conclusions. It\u2019s…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":82825,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82812","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-depression"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29635,"label":"depression"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Reasons-You\u2019re-Depressed-Because-You\u2019re-In-Love-Yes-It\u2019s-Possible.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29635,"name":"depression","slug":"depression","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29635,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","parent":22911,"count":23,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29635,"category_count":23,"category_description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","cat_name":"depression","category_nicename":"depression","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82812","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82812"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82812\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82825"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82812"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82812"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82812"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}