{"id":82842,"date":"2020-07-09T11:19:07","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:19:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82842"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:08:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:08:22","slug":"essere-quello-che-lascia-andare-per-primo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-quello-che-lascia-andare-per-primo\/","title":{"rendered":"Questa volta, siate voi a lasciar andare per primi"},"content":{"rendered":"

For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve faced pretty much the same scenario over and over again. In all of your previous relationships, you were <\/span>colui che ha amato di pi\u00f9<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

The one who fought with her last breath, who made more sacrifices, and the one who put in more effort, even when the other person acted like he couldn\u2019t care less about the future of the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Consequently, you\u2019re always the one who ends up left behind, abandoned, and with the broken pieces of the relationship, while your ex is already long gone. <\/b><\/p>\n

This is not a question of ego. After all, it\u2019s completely irrelevant who calls it quits. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 la differenza tra le conseguenze che la rottura lascia su di voi e sul vostro partner. Lui, essendo il primo a lasciarsi andare alla vostra storia d'amore, ha maggiori possibilit\u00e0 di riprendersi.<\/span><\/p>\n

D'altra parte, <\/span>\u00e8 pi\u00f9 difficile guarire, visto che siete stati voi a resistere fino all'ultimo giorno.<\/b> Non avete accettato che la fine fosse vicina e avete ignorato tutti i segnali di pericolo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sounds familiar, doesn\u2019t it?<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you\u2019re a girl who begs for love, even where there is no love to be found. It\u2019s not that you chase guys who don\u2019t want you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Questo continua a succedere perch\u00e9 avete una cattiva abitudine: <\/span>si aggrappano a cose che sono <\/b>destinato a fallire<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Avete difficolt\u00e0 ad ammettere a voi stessi che una parte del vostro viaggio, quella che ha a che fare con un uomo specifico, \u00e8 giunta al termine.<\/span><\/p>\n

You hold on to people who don\u2019t deserve your effort anymore.<\/b> You stay in their lives even though deep down you\u2019re well aware that parting ways is a much better option. <\/span><\/p>\n

In pratica, <\/span>avete un problema a lasciarvi andare in tempo.<\/b> Rifiutate di abbandonare coloro che pensate abbiano bisogno del vostro aiuto, anche se questo significa mettere in gioco la vostra salute emotiva e mentale. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, you never lose hope. Don\u2019t get me wrong: being optimistic is awesome but sometimes, you just have to look reality straight in the eyes and face the truth, as painful as it might be.<\/span><\/p>\n

A volte,<\/span> non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 nulla da fare e l'unica opzione che avete \u00e8 quella di levare l'ancora. <\/b>Sometimes, as much as you try, things won\u2019t get better and there is nothing to be saved. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, I\u2019m begging you to do things differently this time. For a change, be the one to let go first. <\/b><\/p>\n

The moment you see that your relationship isn\u2019t heading in the right direction, turn around. Don\u2019t be the only one to fight for something that is already lost. <\/span><\/p>\n

This time, don\u2019t wait for the other person to stop loving you to safely exit the relationship. Don\u2019t give them an advantage and don\u2019t let them do the dirty work. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Stop holding on to a relationship that doesn\u2019t make you happy just because you\u2019re scared of escaping your comfort zone.<\/b><\/p>\n

Stop staying with a man who doesn\u2019t deserve a presence in your life just because you think he needs you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your conscience prevent you from making the right call. Don\u2019t feel guilty for choosing yourself over someone else because this is exactly what you should do.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ricorda: <\/span>lasciarsi andare<\/b><\/a> doesn\u2019t mean that you failed<\/b>. It doesn\u2019t mean that you wasted years of your life with someone just because it didn\u2019t work out in the end. <\/span><\/p>\n

Abandoning a relationship that doesn\u2019t make you happy is an act of self-care and self-love. <\/b>It\u2019s a sign that you\u2019re mature enough to know that saving yourself has to be your priority.<\/span><\/p>\n

Giving up doesn\u2019t equal defeat. <\/b>It just means that for the first time ever, you\u2019re playing your cards right and making the wise move. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just because you decided it\u2019s time to stop fighting, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re weak and it certainly doesn\u2019t make you a coward.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, it\u2019s a sign of your power \u2013 a sign that you\u2019re strong enough to go against your emotions and to do the right thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Inoltre, si tenga presente che <\/span>letting go isn\u2019t the same as running away \u2013 it\u2019s just retreating on time.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Questa<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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