{"id":82851,"date":"2020-06-22T12:29:57","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:29:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82851"},"modified":"2022-01-18T01:23:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T01:23:04","slug":"non-abbiate-paura-di-perderlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-abbiate-paura-di-perderlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Non abbiate paura di perderlo pi\u00f9 di quanto abbiate paura di perdere voi stessi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Voi amate quest'uomo, non c'\u00e8 dubbio. Naturalmente, quando si tiene cos\u00ec tanto a qualcuno, l'ultima cosa che si desidera \u00e8 continuare a vivere senza di lui.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s not strange that you don\u2019t want to lose this man. In fact, you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to keep him by your side.<\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014true love needs fighting for. It requires a lot of sacrifices and compromises.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia<\/strong>,<\/span> Uccidere la persona che si \u00e8 solo per compiacere l'altra parte non dovrebbe mai essere uno di questi sacrifici.<\/b><\/p>\n

Il successo della vostra relazione non deve mai andare a scapito della vostra felicit\u00e0 personale. <\/b><\/p>\n

After all, sometimes, you don\u2019t have a say when it comes to losing the man you love.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

As much as you try to keep him by your side and no matter what you do to prevent him from leaving, he will abandon you sooner or later, if that\u2019s something he wants. <\/span><\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 una di quelle situazioni. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re currently facing a crossroads and you can either choose to let him go or let go of the woman you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho capito;<\/span> perderlo<\/b><\/a> fa paura.<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re terrified of having to go through life on your own. Scared of having to survive without this man whom you thought was your other half. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t think that you will be able to make it. After all, for all of this time, you saw this guy as the only source of your happiness, as the reason for your smile and as your biggest ally. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vi considerate incompleti e incompetenti senza di lui. Lo vedete come la fonte della vostra forza, come la vostra ragione di vita e come il carburante per esistere.<\/span><\/p>\n

Naturally, you think that the end of this relationship is also the end of the world. You are convinced that you\u2019ll never fall in love with another guy again and that you\u2019ll never recover from losing this guy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you something\u2014<\/span>Anche se lui se ne va, il vostro cuore spezzato guarir\u00e0. Il tempo far\u00e0 la sua magia e prima che ve ne accorgiate starete meglio. <\/b><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, sapete qual \u00e8 una cosa da cui non vi riprendereste mai? <\/b>Perdere se stessi<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Anzi, \u00e8 proprio questa la cosa di cui dovreste avere pi\u00f9 paura. Abbiate paura di permettere a quest'uomo inutile di uccidere spiritualmente la donna che siete.<\/b><\/p>\n

Abbiate paura della possibilit\u00e0 che questo strazio spezzi anche voi. Della possibilit\u00e0 che tu sparisca dalla faccia della terra.<\/span><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not saying that you will literally die. However, if you go on like this, you will stop living for real.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019ll only start existing and surviving each day and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree there is a huge difference between the two. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m begging you not to allow this man to kill your spark. Don\u2019t let him kill your optimism or destroy your good vibe. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him be the reason for the girl you were before he stormed right through your life disappearing.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, losing him will hurt. Nevertheless, if you turn around a few years from now and see that he\u2019s managed to impact your entire life, it will hurt even more. <\/b><\/p>\n

Most importantly, don\u2019t let this break-up change the essence of the person you\u2019ve always been. Don\u2019t allow it to turn you into a bitter, negative or resentful girl because you\u2019ve never been one. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let his departure make you a <\/span>ragazza senza cuore<\/span><\/a> with high and thick walls around her soul. Don\u2019t allow him convince you that you\u2019re not meant to be loved, just because he didn\u2019t want to love you the right way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let this man kill your faith in people. Trust me\u2014not all men are the same, even though you can\u2019t see it now. <\/span><\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t make any compromises with yourself, in the hope of keeping any guy around. Don\u2019t shut yourself off just to make him stay by your side<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t lose your individuality and don\u2019t let him change you if that\u2019s the only way for him not to leave you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him shape you in order to fit his standards and don\u2019t do anything to please him if it doesn\u2019t make you happy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014you\u2019ll survive the end of any romantic relationship, including this one. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia<\/strong>,<\/span> if you allow the relationship you have with yourself to break, that is something you\u2019ll never fully recover from.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You love this man\u2014there is no doubt about that. Naturally, when you care for someone this much, the last thing you want is to continue living without them. Therefore, it\u2019s not strange that you don\u2019t want to lose this man. In fact, you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to keep him by your side….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":82852,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82851","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Don\u2019t-Be-Afraid-Of-Losing-Him-More-Than-You\u2019re-Afraid-Of-Losing-Yourself-.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82851","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82851"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82851\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82852"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82851"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82851"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82851"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}