{"id":82891,"date":"2020-06-22T12:31:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:31:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82891"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:34:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:34:36","slug":"confessioni-di-una-mamma-tuttaltro-che-perfetta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/confessioni-di-una-mamma-tuttaltro-che-perfetta\/","title":{"rendered":"3 confessioni brutalmente oneste di una mamma tutt'altro che perfetta"},"content":{"rendered":"

La maternit\u00e0 \u00e8 un gran casino e stress.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, there are many beautiful things about being a mother, but I\u2019m here to share the ugly truths we all try to bury as deep as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every mom has her own insecurities, I know that. I honestly believe that kind of makes you a good mom because having doubts means you\u2019re on your path to improvement. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are some things that go through a mother\u2019s mind a whole lot of times but she\u2019s never even thought about sharing it with anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

Today, I\u2019ve decided to share my biggest insecurities with every momma out there, hoping that it might help at least one of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 niente da fare.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Nella mia mente, mi paragono alla mamma che penso di dover essere<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ne esco sempre male. Sembra che la mamma che sono sia cos\u00ec lontana da ci\u00f2 che credo debba essere una mamma.<\/span><\/p>\n

I tell myself that there are some things I should be better at \u2013 be more patient, play more with my kids or something \u2013 but it seems like I never actually change.<\/span><\/p>\n

I feel toxic for not being able to be a perfect mom to my babies. I fear that my personality will ruin theirs and cause them unnecessary weaknesses and issues that they wouldn\u2019t have if they had a better mom.<\/span><\/p>\n

I wish I was the smiling princess kind of mom who always has a kind word for everyone, but I\u2019m not.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sono quella che sono: sarcastica, timorosa, a volte impaziente e debole. So che ci sono cose buone di me, ma sono sempre preoccupata che i miei figli ricordino solo quelle cattive.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. I\u2019m not always confident with my parenting choices, but you gotta do something, right?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Motherhood, to me, feels like something I\u2019m just winging rather than something I truly ever got a hold of.<\/span><\/p>\n

With children, there isn\u2019t enough time to think about every possible outcome of something you choose to do as their parent. <\/span><\/p>\n

One second you might think it was a good idea to give them a juice, the next second they prove you wrong by spilling it on the sofa\u2026 The same happens when they grow up.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s a lot of uncertainty in raising a child and sometimes, while family and friends praise me for making such informed decisions for my child\u2019s future, <\/span>I ACTUALLY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I\u2019M DOING.<\/b><\/p>\n

I try to stay on top of things and make all the best choices but\u2026 the truth is, it feels like guessing and hoping to win the lottery. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are so many unknowns and it\u2019s incredibly stressful. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ho un disperato bisogno di tempo lontano dai miei figli<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Mi stanco di giocare con i miei figli e di organizzare pasti sani per loro.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec. Per quanto possa sembrare terribile ad alcuni di voi, cercare di dare ai miei figli un ambiente sano in cui crescere \u00e8 per me estenuante.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes, I just don\u2019t want to play with them. Sometimes, I don\u2019t even want to be close to them. I need to be alone and do grown-up stuff.<\/b><\/p>\n

I spend a whole bunch of my time just thinking about what to cook for them that day. I wish I could just give them fast food and be done with it. I don\u2019t, and I believe that\u2019s what counts.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 un po' brutto pensare ai propri figli come fonte di stanchezza o di noia. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, let me tell you something…<\/i><\/h3>\n

La perfezione \u00e8 sopravvalutata. Almeno credo, perch\u00e9 non ho mai conosciuto una mamma perfetta.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cThere\u2019ll always be something you\u2019ll do wrong,\u201d I tell myself and that\u2019s the truth. There\u2019s nothing you can do in life without making any mistakes and motherhood is no different.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 che adoro i miei figli. Sono la loro pi\u00f9 grande fan. Faccio sempre il tifo per loro, il pi\u00f9 forte possibile. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

What matters is that when there\u2019s not an atom of energy left in my body and I can barely hold my eyes open, I still find a bit more to hug them and kiss them goodnight and do my best to prepare everything they need for the following day.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

What matters is that I\u2019m teaching them to be real and honest, both to themselves and to the world. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t suppress your magic and devalue yourself. Own your motherhood and remember: There\u2019s no one to compete with but the mom you were yesterday.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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