{"id":82925,"date":"2020-06-22T12:33:25","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:33:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82925"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:33:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:33:50","slug":"una-donna-merita-un-uomo-che-non-la-faccia-sembrare-stupida-per-la-sua-lealta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-donna-merita-un-uomo-che-non-la-faccia-sembrare-stupida-per-la-sua-lealta\/","title":{"rendered":"Una donna merita un uomo che non la faccia passare per stupida per la sua lealt\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ho sempre creduto che essere leale fino all'inverosimile fosse la mia pi\u00f9 grande virt\u00f9 in fatto di relazioni. <\/span><\/p>\n

Honestly, I couldn\u2019t think of anything more desirable in a partner than being loyal to the one they love. I was so proud of being someone a person could always count on, no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cosa \u00e8 successo per cambiare le cose? Beh, sei entrato nella mia vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi sono innamorata cos\u00ec profondamente e ti ho dato tutto quello che avevo, l'intero pacchetto, <\/span>fedelt\u00e0<\/span><\/a> incluso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando avevi bisogno di qualcosa, io c'ero. Quando eri malato, io c'ero. Quando c'era qualcosa che ti preoccupava, io ero l\u00ec per te.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti ricordi tutte le volte che avevi paura e io ero l\u00ec a tenerti la mano? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ti ricordi le sere in cui arrivavo stanco dal lavoro e tu sentivi di aver bisogno di una lunga conversazione, cos\u00ec sono rimasto con te per ore, analizzando ogni piccolo dettaglio di ci\u00f2 che ti era successo?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Mi ricordo.<\/span><\/p>\n

C'erano cos\u00ec tante opportunit\u00e0 per me di rompere la tua fiducia, ma non l'ho mai fatto. Ho rifiutato con orgoglio tutti i ragazzi che ci provavano con me, a prescindere da quanto fossero carini, sexy o interessanti. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 questo il senso della lealt\u00e0, mi sono detto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Rimanere onesti e aperti emotivamente l'uno verso l'altro avrebbe reso la nostra relazione sana, forte e straordinaria. Aveva senso, no?<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s one thing I didn\u2019t account for. There was one nasty surprise that threw me off my feet and completely changed the game.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Non sei mai stato un <\/span>uomo fedele<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was so sure that the person I was trying to be was going to make our relationship amazing. A committed, involved, honest lover who gave their everything to keep their partner happy, that\u2019s who I was to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non mi sono mai fermata a pensare che tu potessi essere una persona completamente diversa da quella che mi aspettavo. Non ho mai pensato a come le tue indiscrezioni e il tuo comportamento avvilente avrebbero potuto rovinarci per sempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ben presto mi hai fatto vedere tutto con chiarezza.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Hai sollevato la nuvola che era sopra i miei occhi quando hai esagerato, quando hai spinto il tuo terribile comportamento su di me fino al punto di non riprendermi.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Somehow, I still blamed myself. Now I can\u2019t even remember what kind of thought stream got me to think that way but I remember it had a lot to do with me thinking I was too loyal to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I got myself to believe that I was too trusting and naive and that\u2019s why you had a chance to break me and lower my self-esteem but… no. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not the one to blame, you are. I can\u2019t be responsible for how you decided to treat me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not you. I didn\u2019t give you a motive, I didn\u2019t push you away with too much attention or whatever crap they\u2019ve been telling girls who get lied to and cheated on.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I was being myself. I was being loyal, open and trusting because that\u2019s who I am and because I thought you deserved it. I loved you, I wanted to treat you the best possible way.<\/span><\/p>\n

All'epoca mi dicevo che avrei dovuto <\/span>essere pi\u00f9 attento alle persone di cui mi fido<\/span><\/a> and that\u2019s something I still do believe. <\/span><\/p>\n

Being more careful never hurt anyone, but when someone intentionally tries to fool you, there\u2019s hardly anything you can do about that.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter how smart, strong or empowered you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you come from the point of view that people who love each other should treat each other with respect, kindness and honesty, it\u2019s hard for you to assume someone would do anything but that.<\/span><\/p>\n

I now know I don\u2019t need to minimize my loyalty or become a bitch in order to match immature, selfish men who know nothing about love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che posso essere chi voglio essere, posso essere chi sono: una ragazza che ama appassionatamente e d\u00e0 ogni piccola parte di s\u00e9 a chi sceglie.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not the one who should change. The only thing that needs to be changed in my life is a man who doesn\u2019t know how to appreciate me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sinceramente, avere una donna di buon cuore che sceglie di esserti fedele fino alla morte e solo a te \u00e8 una vera benedizione. Il fatto \u00e8 che ci vuole un vero uomo per rendersene conto.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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