{"id":83085,"date":"2020-07-09T09:21:54","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T09:21:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=83085"},"modified":"2022-06-01T19:41:16","modified_gmt":"2022-06-01T19:41:16","slug":"sarai-sempre-troppo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sarai-sempre-troppo\/","title":{"rendered":"Sarai sempre troppo per qualcuno che non ti merita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be real about one thing: <strong>As a woman, there will be many opportunities when you\u2019ll be told that you\u2019re \u2018too much\u2019<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Situations in which you\u2019ll be accused of wanting too much, asking too much and expecting too much.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially true when it comes to romantic relationships. After all, this is something you\u2019ve been facing for as long as you can remember, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>You see, as a woman, you\u2019re always expected to make compromises.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong; I\u2019m not talking about meeting your partner halfway here, because that is something you should definitely try to do in every relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m talking about making compromises with yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about being less demanding, less emotional or even pretending to be less smart and less successful in order for men to accept you better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re expected to lower yourself in order for a guy to feel like the bigger man. Expected to do everything possible to prevent him from feeling threatened by you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>In base a ci\u00f2, un uomo non ha la colpa di non essere in grado di seguire il vostro ritmo. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Instead, you\u2019re guilty of not stooping to his level so he doesn\u2019t feel intimidated. Guilty for being better and for having the decency of being everything more.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83095\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-young-lady.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna pensierosa in abito da ufficio con la mano sulla testa\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\"><\/p>\n<p>Fin da giovane, diversi ragazzi ti hanno detto che i tuoi standard erano troppo alti.<\/p>\n<p>Even your closest friends accused you of believing in fairy tales and telling you that you were searching for Mr. Perfect, who didn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I\u2019m here to beg you not to believe them. <strong>Qui per chiedervi di non <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/abbassare-i-propri-standard-non-aumentera-le-possibilita-di-essere-felici\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">abbassare gli standard<\/a>Non rinunciate mai ai vostri problemi e, soprattutto, non accontentatevi mai di poco.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It seems that in the modern dating world, you should consider yourself lucky to find a man who won\u2019t cheat on you right in front of you.<\/p>\n<p>Secondo alcuni, dovreste accontentarvi di un ragazzo che abbia la decenza di scegliervi e di decidere per voi, senza illudervi.<\/p>\n<p>No, you haven\u2019t won the lottery just because you ran into a guy who labels your relationship and who publicly calls you his girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t hit the jackpot for having a boyfriend who sends you a goodnight text and who treats you as his equal.<\/p>\n<p>Tutte queste cose sono straordinarie, ma <strong>please don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you\u2019re \u2018too much\u2019 for wanting more<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Infatti, tutti i ragazzi sbagliati che attraverseranno la vostra vita faranno del loro meglio per farvi pensare che il poco che hanno da offrire dovrebbe essere sufficiente.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>una volta incontrato un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/6-modi-provati-per-attrarre-finalmente-luomo-meritevole\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">l'uomo che ti merita davvero<\/a>, he\u2019ll never make you settle for less.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83098\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-blonde-caucasian-woman.jpg\" alt=\"felice donna bionda caucasica incontrare un uomo all&#039;aperto vicino a un albero\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-blonde-caucasian-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-blonde-caucasian-woman-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-blonde-caucasian-woman-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Questo ragazzo non cercher\u00e0 mai di mettervi in difficolt\u00e0 per apparire pi\u00f9 grande.<\/strong> He\u2019ll never make you feel like you\u2019re not good enough just because it\u2019s the only way for him to feel better about himself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Un uomo che ti merita davvero non ti chieder\u00e0 mai di abbassare la voce per far sentire la sua.<\/strong> He\u2019ll never hold you back from your accomplishments so he looks more successful.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For him, you won\u2019t be too emotional, too demanding or too clingy.<\/strong> Instead, he\u2019ll cherish your vulnerable heart and make sure he never damages it in any way possible.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You won\u2019t be accused of being a smarty pants or a Ms \u2018know-it-all\u2019 just because you have opinions of your own.<\/strong> Instead, he\u2019ll be proud to have<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segni-di-una-donna-intelligente\/\"> una donna intelligente e capace<\/a> come voi al suo fianco.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For him, you\u2019ll never be too strong or too powerful.<\/strong> Instead, he\u2019ll see you as a role model and as an inspiration to keep moving forward.<\/p>\n<p>Ma soprattutto, <strong>he\u2019ll never see you as too <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-segni-che-dimostrano-che-stai-trattando-una-donna-indipendente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">indipendente<\/a> o troppo autosufficiente<\/strong>. Instead, he\u2019ll be happy knowing that you chose him out of all the men in this world, despite not actually needing him.<\/p>\n<p>So, I\u2019m begging you, every time you are accused of being too much, remember that this guy is out there.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che vi accusano di far sentire un ragazzo immaturo meno uomo, ricordate che esiste colui che vi merita.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, <strong>every time you are accused of being too much for a guy, remember this: You\u2019re a princess who doesn\u2019t need a smaller crown; you need a man with bigger hands.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Please, don\u2019t dim your light just because it might blind someone and keep on shining as bright as always!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83107\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Will-Always-Be-Too-Much-For-Someone-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Deserve-You-Pinterest..jpg\" alt=\"Sarai sempre troppo per qualcuno che non ti merita\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Will-Always-Be-Too-Much-For-Someone-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Deserve-You-Pinterest..jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Will-Always-Be-Too-Much-For-Someone-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Deserve-You-Pinterest.-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Will-Always-Be-Too-Much-For-Someone-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Deserve-You-Pinterest.-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Will-Always-Be-Too-Much-For-Someone-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Deserve-You-Pinterest.-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be real about one thing: As a woman, there will be many opportunities when you\u2019ll be told that you\u2019re \u2018too much\u2019. Situations in which you\u2019ll be accused of wanting too much, asking too much and expecting too much. This is especially true when it comes to romantic relationships. After all, this is something you\u2019ve&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":83113,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83085","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Will-Always-Be-Too-Much-For-Someone-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Deserve-You.jpg",800,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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