Tutte le notti insonni, per cosa? Un'altra delusione e un nuovo inizio, ricominciando da zero.<\/span><\/p>\n How do you let go of something that defined your life for so long? How do you make peace knowing what you thought was real suddenly isn\u2019t?<\/b><\/p>\n Mi hai portato tanto dolore e mi hai lasciato solo e confuso. Ho perso la direzione della mia vita perch\u00e9 ero cos\u00ec immersa nel renderti felice.<\/span><\/p>\n Ho dimenticato chi sono senza di te e, dopo che hai lasciato la mia vita, mi \u00e8 venuto in mente all'improvviso. Avevo bisogno di ritrovare me stessa.<\/span><\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to see you as an enemy, but I do want to see myself as the hero of my own life.<\/b><\/p>\n For a moment I got scared I\u2019d never get back on my feet again, but now I know I will.<\/span><\/p>\n Life\u2019s an unpredictable journey and I\u2019ve always been a wanderer. I\u2019ve always felt too much yet never ever given up. You couldn\u2019t change that.<\/b><\/p>\n Nemmeno dopo tutto quello che mi hai fatto passare. Nemmeno quando mi hai ferito intenzionalmente. Nemmeno dopo tutte le cose immaginarie di cui mi hai incolpato.<\/span><\/p>\n I always saw the good in you. I still do\u2026 but it\u2019s time for you to take care of yourself and for me to care about myself.<\/b><\/p>\n That\u2019s the lesson life taught me through you. You can\u2019t change somebody if they don\u2019t want to change themselves, no matter how hard you try.<\/b><\/p>\n Ognuno \u00e8 responsabile delle proprie azioni e nessuna quantit\u00e0 di empatia far\u00e0 s\u00ec che qualcuno veda le proprie mancanze quando mette cos\u00ec tanta energia nell'evitarle e nel dare la colpa agli altri.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s not my responsibility to save you. It\u2019s not my responsibility to keep you entertained and happy.<\/b><\/p>\n Non me ne ero mai accorto prima, ma ora lo so.<\/span><\/p>\n L'unico modo per crescere \u00e8 l'autoriflessione e l'umilt\u00e0, l'equilibrio tra il nostro ego e le nostre emozioni.<\/b><\/p>\n The ego is not always bad, because it\u2019s there to protect us. The problem is when it gets so big there\u2019s no room for anything else but ego.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s when the lack of self-reflection makes you blind to other people\u2019s feelings and needs.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s why I had to take care of them on my own. That\u2019s why I promised myself I will change my life for the better, even if that means living without you.<\/span><\/p>\n I will not make our story an example of failure but of a life\u2019s lesson that needed to happen in order for good things to come.<\/b><\/p>\n Non far\u00f2 del nostro amore una tragedia, ma una curva di apprendimento.<\/span><\/p>\n This lesson requires self-love and braveness, and I\u2019m here for it.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m slowly learning to love myself for all the things I am. I\u2019m learning how to forgive myself and give myself a second chance.<\/b><\/p>\n I know I\u2019m worthy of real love and pure attention, and I won\u2019t accept anything less.<\/span><\/p>\n So che l'amore che do pu\u00f2 essere ricambiato allo stesso modo.<\/span><\/p>\n And above all, I know that I\u2019m enough the way I am.<\/span><\/p>\n Ho lottato a lungo per accettarmi e ora finalmente comincio a vedere il buono che c'\u00e8 in me. Ironia della sorte, \u00e8 stato solo dopo che tu non c'eri pi\u00f9.<\/b><\/p>\n Mi rifiuto di mettere mai pi\u00f9 la mia felicit\u00e0 nelle mani di altre persone.<\/span><\/p>\n Now that I know my life is in my hands, I\u2019m ready to make something great out of it.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m ready to start over and think of you as someone who helped me get there.<\/b><\/p>\n As I said before, life\u2019s an unpredictable journey, but I\u2019m determined to make it the best it can be.<\/b><\/p>\n I wish I could say I\u2019m happy I met you, but that would be a lie. On the contrary, I sometimes wish we never met at all. Either way, it is what it is, and now I\u2019m learning to live with your memory in the back of my mind, hoping it would somehow cease to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":83145,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Our-Relationship-Wasnt-A-Failure-But-Redirection-Toward-Good-Things-To-Come.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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