{"id":83604,"date":"2020-07-09T08:21:12","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:21:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=83604"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:09:13","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:09:13","slug":"come-smettere-di-sentire-la-mancanza-di-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-smettere-di-sentire-la-mancanza-di-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"Come smettere di sentire la mancanza di qualcuno: 10 semplici passi verso la libert\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sappiamo tutti che il dolore peggiore di tutti \u00e8 quello di una <\/span>crepacuore<\/span>. Mancare a qualcuno \u00e8 come spezzarsi il cuore ogni giorno, ancora e ancora. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter what that person you’re missing means to you and no matter what the reason was for your separation, <\/span>il dolore \u00e8 l\u00ec e fa sempre lo stesso male.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Il dolore del tuo <\/span>mal di cuore<\/span> makes you think that there is no right answer to ‘how to stop missing someone you love’. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fortunately, that’s only the pain speaking. There are some proven methods on how you can deal with the pain of missing someone in a <\/span>modo sano<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sguardo al futuro<\/i><\/b> per qualcuno che vi ha lasciato andare o che vi \u00e8 stato portato via colpisce <\/i><\/b>il tuo <\/i><\/b>salute mentale<\/i><\/b>.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Si viene sopraffatti da tanti sentimenti negativi e pensieri cupi e <\/span>poi inizia a influenzare tutti gli altri aspetti della vostra vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo ci vuole per smettere di sentire la mancanza di qualcuno?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In tutta onest\u00e0, questa \u00e8 una domanda <\/span>nessuno pu\u00f2 darvi la risposta giusta<\/i><\/b> a. L'ho messo qui solo perch\u00e9 sapevo che sarebbe stata la prima cosa che avreste chiesto. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that time has become so important in our lives today. We all rush through life like we’re running out of time. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vogliamo superare velocemente una rottura, vogliamo incontrare subito l'amore della nostra vita, <\/span>vogliamo avere tutto subito. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That’s not how the world functions. You have to fight and try hard to get what you want. You have to learn how to stop missing someone or <\/span>lasciarsi andare<\/span> di qualcuno che ti ha lasciato. <\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 che bisogna darsi del tempo, <\/i><\/b>per organizzare i propri pensieri, per capire i propri sentimenti, per guarire, per lasciar perdere, per andare avanti. <\/span> <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

We’re all different and we all function differently. Everyone grieves differently. Everyone heals differently.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo ci vuole per smettere di perdere i nostri <\/span>amata<\/span> varia da persona a persona. Non esiste un vero e proprio calendario. <\/span><\/p>\n

One person doesn’t need much time; when they decide they’re done with missing a person, that’s it. Another person will need some more time and that’s perfectly okay. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re allowed to take as much time as you need. First, you have to heal your <\/span>cuore spezzato<\/span>, then you’ll find a way to stop missing the person who isn’t there anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Devi <\/span>check-in<\/span> with yourself daily. Avoiding talking about it or even worse, denying it, won’t help you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sooner or later, you’ll have to deal with it. Believe me, the longer you put it off, the harder it will be for you to deal with. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete elaborare i vostri sentimenti e questo richiede tempo. Potete chiedere consiglio ad altre persone, ma alla fine dovreste fare quello che pensate possa aiutarvi ad alleviare il dolore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Se vi manca qualcuno, pu\u00f2 sentirlo? S\u00ec, ed ecco perch\u00e9<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Come smettere di sentire la mancanza del proprio ex?<\/h2>\n

Indipendentemente da chi ha iniziato la rottura o dal motivo che l'ha determinata, se amavate veramente il vostro partner, ne sentirete la mancanza. <\/span><\/p>\n

Avete trascorso una parte della vostra vita con quel <\/span>una persona<\/span> and it’s perfectly normal that you miss them or the relationship you had. <\/span><\/p>\n

A volte questo sentimento vi travolge completamente e vi impedisce di pensare chiaramente a ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo o a ci\u00f2 che potete fare. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is how you’ll shift your focus back to yourself and stop missing that <\/span>una persona<\/span> who didn’t even deserve you in the first place.  <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Scrivete tutto ci\u00f2 che sentite<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Iniziare un diario<\/span> e usare quel diario come psicologo privato.<\/i><\/b> Versate i vostri sentimenti su un <\/span>pezzo di carta<\/span> scrivendo tutto ci\u00f2 che si prova. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me, it worked for me, it’ll work for you too. Most people don’t feel comfortable sharing some of their deepest emotions with another human being; that\u2019s why this method is going to work for you for sure. <\/span><\/p>\n

Make a list. I called mine ‘The pros and cons of dating him’. You can call yours whatever you want, then write down all the good and bad sides of your relationship with him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have to be brutally honest, that’s very important, then weigh up those pros and cons and I’m sure everything will become more clear to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll see that you were actually stuck in a <\/span>relazione tossica<\/span>. You’ll come to the conclusion that your ex actually never even deserved you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Scrivete tutte le <\/span>bei ricordi<\/span> che vi viene in mente e che avete condiviso con il vostro <\/span>ex fidanzato<\/span>Aggiungete tutte le cose brutte che sono successe nella vostra relazione e fate di nuovo i conti.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m sure there were a lot of great moments in your relationship but I’m also sure that there were some terrible and awful periods that can make you forget the good ones. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your journal will also serve as a great reminder for you after you definitely let go of your ex. It’ll remind you how strong and brave you were and how you manage to let go of a person who meant so much to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Scrivete loro un ultimo messaggio<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You’re allowed to send them one last message but hey, it really must be THE LAST ONE. That’ll be your much-needed closure. <\/span><\/p>\n

Write everything you feel now and how you felt when you ended your relationship. If it’s too much for a text message, then write them a letter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Be honest. Admit to them how you still miss them but emphasize how this message isn’t your attempt to get them back.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tell them how you’re trying to move on and stop missing them and how this is the one last step you have to take in order to do that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tell them how angry you are because they left you and you can’t make your heart stop loving or missing them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ricordare loro il <\/span>l'anno scorso<\/span> e di come tutto fosse diverso prima. Ricordate loro quanto vi siete divertiti insieme e quanto vi siete amati una volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t be too pathetic. Maybe you’re afraid that you’ll never be able to move on but they don’t have to know that. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Bloccateli sui vostri social media<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di spiarli sul vostro <\/span>social media<\/span> as it\u2019ll only make things worse. When you see the photos they post on their <\/span>social media<\/span>, it’ll only make you miss them more. <\/span><\/p>\n

If they post about a song you like or a movie you watched together, you’ll think that they posted it for you and it’ll get your hopes up that they want to be with you again.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll only be more disappointed once you realize that’s not the case. You’ll start thinking about how it’s for some other woman, how they’ve already found someone new. <\/span><\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, il motivo pi\u00f9 importante per cui dovreste bloccare il vostro ex sulla loro <\/span>social media<\/span> \u00e8 perch\u00e9 solo in questo modo sarete al sicuro dall'invio di sms da parte di chi \u00e8 ubriaco. <\/span><\/p>\n

This reminds me, you should also delete their number from your phone. I hope you don’t know it by heart though because otherwise all of this is pointless. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Cancellare tutte le foto del vostro ex fidanzato<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You don’t need anything that can remind you of him. Their photos and all the photos where you two are together can delay your process of healing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t waste your time lying in bed and crying over their photos all day long as <\/span>that\u2019ll also make you miss them more. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Dovete andare avanti perch\u00e9 il vostro ex lo ha gi\u00e0 fatto di sicuro. Dovete lasciare il vostro ex al suo posto; dovete lasciarlo nel passato. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Trascorrere del tempo con i vostri amici per distrarvi dal pensare a loro.<\/h3>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Maybe you neglected your friends while you were in a relationship but don’t worry; it happens. If they are your true friends, they’ll understand and forgive you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Chiamateli e invitateli a casa vostra o chiedete loro di uscire con voi. Frequentateli pi\u00f9 spesso. Stavano con voi prima del vostro ex e stanno con voi ora. Che cosa vi dice? <\/span><\/p>\n

True friends will be with you forever. They’ll remain by your side no matter what happens. Your friendship means more to them than any other relationship in their life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Queste persone sono quelle che vi amano veramente e vogliono solo il meglio per voi. <\/span>Trascorrere il tempo<\/span> con le persone che ti amano veramente \u00e8 la migliore terapia in assoluto, lo giuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can fake a smile as much as you want but they know that deep down, you’re suffering.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sanno che <\/span>il tuo sorriso \u00e8 solo una facciata<\/i><\/b> because you won’t allow other people to see that you’re hurt and that you still miss the guy who left you. <\/span><\/p>\n

They’ll do everything they can to make you happy again, to see an honest smile on your face. They’ll <\/span>cercare di distrarti<\/span><\/a> and keep you busy so you won’t have time to think about your ex. <\/span><\/p>\n

I vostri amici sono davvero i vostri <\/i><\/b>endorfine<\/i><\/b>. <\/i><\/b>They can make you feel good no matter how difficult your situation actually is. \u200b\u200b\u200b<\/span>\u200b\u200b<\/span><\/i> <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

6. Essere aperti a provare cose nuove<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Provate cose nuove, progettate avventure per voi stessi, uscite dalla vostra zona di comfort. Ora che avete tanto tempo libero, usatelo per fare qualcosa che avete sempre voluto fare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 una grande opportunit\u00e0 per imparare qualcosa, come una nuova lingua o qualche arte e mestiere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prova un <\/span>nuovo hobby<\/span>. Iniziate a giocare a calcio o a qualche altro sport che vi piace. Giocare al computer. Provare nuove ricette. <\/span><\/p>\n

Traveling is also great therapy for lonely souls or those who suffer in love. It distracts you from thinking about it but it’s also a good opportunity to meet new people or who knows, maybe even <\/span>nuovo amore<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Evitare le cose che possono scatenare vecchi ricordi<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Avoid all the things that you two loved to do together as it\u2019ll only remind you of your relationship and make you feel even worse. <\/span><\/p>\n

Evitate i luoghi che hanno un significato per entrambi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, you have some pleasant memories associated with certain places where you two went but reminding yourself of those moments won’t make you miss them any less; on the contrary, you’ll only miss them more. <\/span><\/p>\n

Evitate di guardare i vostri film preferiti o di ascoltare le canzoni che piacciono a entrambi. <\/span>Evitate tutto ci\u00f2 che potrebbe scatenare ricordi della vostra relazione passata. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

8. Evitare gli amici comuni per un po' di tempo<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong; I’m not saying that you should break friendships with your common friends just because you broke up with him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, sarebbe meglio per voi evitarli per qualche tempo perch\u00e9 parleranno di lui davanti a voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

They probably still hang out with him and they’ll know if he has moved on with his life already and it\u2019s better for you to not find out that information. <\/span><\/p>\n

They’ll remind you of some times from your relationship, some <\/span>bei ricordi<\/span>,<\/span> and that’s the last thing you need right now. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you can’t avoid them, then don’t talk about him in their company. Just like they would talk to you about him, they would also talk to him about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t allow them to see how miserable you feel. Whatever you do and however you feel, you must not tell them that you still miss him and can’t do anything about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t allow yourself to look pathetic because they will probably tell him that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe he still has feelings for you or he doesn’t want to see you suffer and he could ask you to get back together.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me, you don’t want to do that as you\u2019ll regret it sooner or later. He isn’t in love with you anymore, he would do it only out of pity. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se gli amici comuni sono gli unici che avete, allora uscite e incontratene di nuovi. In realt\u00e0, questa potrebbe essere un'ottima occasione per conoscere nuove persone e stringere nuove amicizie. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quelli <\/span>nuovi amici<\/span> can be very helpful in these kinds of situations. They won’t ask questions about your past and you’ll feel more relaxed and comfortable hanging out with them. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Imparare l'arte di lasciarsi andare<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The first thing you need to do is let him go for real. After you firmly decide that it’s time to finally do that, you’ll immediately <\/span>iniziare a sentire meno la sua mancanza<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Stop holding on to the past. He left you, he went from your life and that’s it. You have to accept it and move on. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’ve been there. I know how much it hurts and believe me, it’s going to hurt for a while but your only option is to come to terms with the break-up and move on. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll need time, that’s for sure. You need time to figure out how you exactly feel. You need to be alone for a while. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete organizzare i vostri pensieri e sentimenti e pensare alla vostra relazione e alla rottura. Quell'uomo merita davvero di mancare cos\u00ec tanto? <\/span><\/p>\n

10. Don’t forget to take care of yourself<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Okay, you’re allowed to spend the first day after the break-up in your pajamas, lying in your bed, surrounded by ice cream and chocolate. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re hurt and you’re missing your <\/span>amata<\/span>. You have every right to cry so cry your heart out; it\u2019ll make you feel better. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t bottle up your emotions. Share them with your best friend or the family member you trust the most. Don’t shut yourself off as it affects your emotional <\/span>benessere<\/span> e <\/span>salute mentale<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dopo un po' di tempo, bisogna dire a se stessi <\/span>that it’s enough.<\/span> <\/a>Hai pianto abbastanza e ora devi reagire e prestare attenzione a te stesso. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to think about yourself. It’s time to make self-care your priority so take care of yourself. <\/span>Cura di s\u00e9<\/i><\/b> \u00e8 il primo passo per <\/i><\/b>amore per se stessi<\/i><\/b> e l'accettazione di s\u00e9. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Per prima cosa \u00e8 necessario rilassarsi e il modo migliore per farlo \u00e8 fare un bagno lungo e rilassante. Preparate un bagno di schiuma con alcuni oli essenziali calmanti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Put on some relaxing music, light some candles and don’t forget to pour yourself a glass of your favorite wine. This kind of bath will lift up your mood for sure. <\/span><\/p>\n

Concedetevi un regalo. Andate a fare shopping e comprate dei vestiti nuovi. Provate delle nuove maschere per il viso. Cambiate l'acconciatura o provate un nuovo taglio o colore di capelli. Fate un restyling completo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Allora esci. Fategli rimpiangere di avervi lasciato. Dimostrategli che \u00e8 stata la peggiore decisione della sua vita. <\/span>Fagli sentire la tua mancanza.<\/i><\/b>  <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll be noticed for sure. Not only by him but by other men. Soon, your Facebook and Instagram will be full of friend requests and messages. Who knows, maybe that’s how you’ll meet someone new. <\/span><\/p>\n

Datevi la possibilit\u00e0 di incontrare qualcuno di nuovo. <\/span>Don’t be afraid to date again.<\/i><\/b> A <\/span>nuovo amore<\/span> could help you forget your ex and that’s how you’ll stop missing him for sure.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Come affrontare la mancanza dell'altro in una relazione a distanza?<\/h2>\n

Essere in un <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span> is hard but if you love your partner, it’s totally worth it. <\/span>Distance means nothing if you’re in love with that person. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I won’t lie. There is nothing you can do to completely stop missing your <\/span>altro significativo<\/span> ma ecco alcune cose che si possono provare per affrontare il problema in maniera pi\u00f9 <\/span>modo sano<\/span>.  <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Know that you won’t be in a long-distance relationship forever; it’ll change one day<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Be positive as this is only a temporary situation. One day, you’ll be ready to make your <\/span>relazione ufficiale <\/span><\/a>and you won’t be in a <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span> pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll be together every day. You’ll wake up next to your <\/span>amata<\/span> ogni mattina e addormentarsi al suo fianco ogni sera. <\/span><\/p>\n

Everything will change, you just have to be patient and wait. Don’t put too much pressure on your partner or yourself because otherwise it’ll also affect your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Rendersi conto che mantenere un contatto costante \u00e8 una priorit\u00e0, anche durante i litigi.<\/h3>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Anche quando siete molto impegnati, dovete trovare il tempo per il vostro partner e viceversa. Dovete essere in costante contatto l'uno con l'altro.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don’t mean that you have to talk or chat 24\/7 but you have to be in contact every day. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bisogna essere consapevoli che un <\/span>relazione a distanza<\/span> \u00e8 tutta una questione di duro lavoro. Se si vuole davvero che funzioni, bisogna lottare per ottenerlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Io dico sempre: grazie a Dio c'\u00e8 la tecnologia! Mantenere un contatto costante, soprattutto attraverso le chat video, vi aiuter\u00e0 ad alleviare il dolore della mancanza. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Pianificare il prossimo appuntamento<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I’m assuming you count the days when you’ll see your <\/span>altro significativo<\/span> di nuovo. Beh, potete fare di pi\u00f9. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pianificare tutto ci\u00f2 che riguarda <\/span>the next time you’ll see<\/span><\/a> each other. Plan some fun activities for you both, pick the restaurant where you’ll eat, choose the movie you’ll see at the cinema. <\/span><\/p>\n

Use every moment of your SO’s visit and leave nothing to chance. It’ll keep you busy so you won’t think much about how you’re missing them way too much. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Uscire di pi\u00f9 con gli amici<\/h3>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

Being in the house counting down the days when you’ll finally see your SO and waiting for them to call you or text you won’t do you any good. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete uscire e passare un po' di tempo con i vostri amici. Dovete distrarvi e uscire con le persone che amate \u00e8 un ottimo modo per farlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b<\/span>\u200b\u200b\u200b<\/span><\/i>They’ll find a way to cheer you up because that’s what friends are for. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

5. Trovate un nuovo hobby o qualcosa che vi distragga.<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Dovete tenervi occupati e ci sono molti modi per farlo. Trovate un <\/span>nuovo hobby<\/span>;<\/span> for example, something you think you\u2019d like and always wanted to try. <\/span><\/p>\n

Exercise more or start going to the gym. If you don’t like the gym, you can do yoga or meditation, as they have calming and relaxing effects, so one of these will also be great to help you deal with missing your SO. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t think too much about when you’ll next see your partner. Do the housework, do some gardening or you can always redecorate your house or your garden or find some DIY projects on the Internet. <\/span><\/p>\n

Potete anche realizzare qualcosa per il vostro partner e sorprenderlo con un regalo fatto a mano la prossima volta che lo vedrete.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Pensate al vostro futuro insieme<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

As I already said, this is only a temporary situation and it’ll pass. You have to think about and focus on your future. <\/span><\/p>\n

Think about how you’ll start living together very soon. Think about the <\/span>prima volta<\/span> you’ll be buying something for your own place. Those days will come sooner than you think, I promise. <\/span><\/p>\n

Think about how proud you’ll be for both of you fighting for your relationship and overcoming so many challenges and obstacles. <\/span><\/p>\n

Come alleviare il dolore di una separazione definitiva?<\/h2>\n

La morte di una persona cara<\/span> \u00e8 un'esperienza terribile, soprattutto se si perde il <\/span>l'amore della tua vita<\/span>. Una grave perdita lascia segni nel cuore per sempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

No one can give you advice on how to stop missing someone who was taken away from you because the fact is you’ll never stop missing that person.<\/i><\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, potete alleviare il dolore concedendovi del tempo per elaborare il lutto e facendo alcune cose che vi distraggano dal pensare alla vostra perdita. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s important not to just listen to other people’s advice. We are all different and we all cope with the grief of loss differently. We all need time to heal and you have the right to take as much time as you need. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can ease the pain and after some time, you’ll start missing them less but the truth is that you’ll never stop completely missing them.<\/span><\/p>\n

The right answer to the question of ‘how to stop missing someone who died?’ doesn’t exist unfortunately.<\/span><\/p>\n

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We all know that the worst pain of all is a heartbreak. Well, missing someone is like breaking your heart every day, again and again.  No matter what that person you’re missing means to you and no matter what the reason was for your separation, the pain is there and it always hurts the same….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":83617,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83604","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/How-To-Stop-Missing-Someone-10-Easy-Steps-To-Freedom.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83604","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=83604"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83604\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83617"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=83604"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=83604"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=83604"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}