{"id":8371,"date":"2017-11-10T14:12:27","date_gmt":"2017-11-10T14:12:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8371"},"modified":"2022-02-14T23:52:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T23:52:11","slug":"meritano-di-fissare-lo-schermo-vuoto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/meritano-di-fissare-lo-schermo-vuoto\/","title":{"rendered":"Meriti di pi\u00f9 che fissare lo schermo vuoto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Invece di lasciarti svolgere questo ruolo importante nella sua vita, ti ha lasciato fuori nella sala d'attesa. Ed eccoti l\u00ec, seduta al tavolo per un po', a fissare lo schermo vuoto del tuo telefono. Cosa state aspettando? Un messaggio di risposta, una chiamata, delle scuse?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Stupida ragazza, quando imparerai? Quando capirai che <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/alyssa-ramosreynoso\/one-mans-trash-is-another_b_8728666.html\" rel=\"noopener\">one man\u2019s trash is another man\u2019s treasure<\/a>? Why are you settling for someone who isn\u2019t aware of your worth? The one you want isn\u2019t the one who deserves you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you have to forget about what you want and what you feel and remember what you deserve. You have to let go of this feeling that he\u2019s good enough for you. He isn\u2019t. In fact, you\u2019re more than good enough for him. You\u2019re actually too good for him. Because you have no mean bone in your body, you let him get away with his behavior. And how long is that going to last? How long will you allow him to treat you like a rug he can step on whenever he wants?<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who texts you first. Who texts you goodnight and good morning. You deserve someone who replies fast. You deserve someone who never gets tired of your bullshit stories. You deserve someone who\u2019ll show eagerness to talk to you every minute of the day. You deserve someone who\u2019ll make you feel like you actually matter. Someone who will never make you question if he\u2019s into you or not.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/holly-riordan\/2016\/11\/you-shouldnt-have-to-beg-him-to-do-these-16-basic-things\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Non implorare mai un uomo per le cose che sai di meritare<\/a>. The right man will give you everything you deserve and everything you never knew about. He\u2019ll make sure you know where you stand with him. He\u2019ll make sure you\u2019re aware he wants you next to him and that he\u2019s saving a spot in his life just for you. You won\u2019t need to ask for his attention or wait for a large gap of time to hear from him. He\u2019ll be in your life at any time of the day. He\u2019ll never leave you staring at an empty screen. Only immature boys do things like that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t hold onto someone who treats you poorly just because you think there will be nobody else. You\u2019ve got to think that you\u2019re worth more than being repeatedly hurt by someone who doesn\u2019t really care. You\u2019ve got to believe that someone will see what you\u2019re really worth and treat you the way you should be treated.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Stop settling for a guy who just plays games. Don\u2019t choose him because he\u2019s cool or because he\u2019s handsome or because everyone wants him. Those kinds of things <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-non-diresti-mai-se-fossi-davvero-felice-con-lui\/\">don\u2019t make you happy<\/a>. They just feed your ego, but they won\u2019t help you after your messages get no response for the hundredth time. The only thing that matters when being with someone is how you actually feel when you\u2019re with them and how that person treats you.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t text you for hours or days, if he leaves you staring at the screen and waiting for a text back, if he makes you question if you\u2019re good enough, then, <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/when-youve-fallen-for-someone-who-isnt-right-for-you-right-now\/\" rel=\"noopener\">I\u2019m sorry, but he isn\u2019t right for you.<\/a> And you shouldn\u2019t be waiting for him. You should be walking away. You know why? Because you\u2019re more than enough.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There is someone out there dying to get your text. There is someone actually worthy of your attention and someone who deserves you. Stop wasting your time on someone who isn\u2019t worth it.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Instead of letting you play this big role in his life, he left you outside in the waiting room. And there you are, sitting at the table for a while, staring at the empty screen of your phone. What are you waiting for? A text back, a call, an apology? You silly girl, when will&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":32039,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8371","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/romain-robe-419741-unsplash-1024x640.jpg",1024,640,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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