{"id":84017,"date":"2020-08-13T13:36:46","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T13:36:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=84017"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:31:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:31:57","slug":"non-sono-difficile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-sono-difficile\/","title":{"rendered":"Io non sono difficile, tu sei solo irrispettoso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 cos\u00ec facile etichettare una donna come difficile quando non vuole scendere a compromessi su rispetto, amore e fiducia?<\/span><\/p>\n

I guess it\u2019s easier for men to pronounce a woman impossible to deal with than to actually put some effort into meeting her needs.<\/b><\/p>\n

Yeah, I get why you do that, but I won\u2019t accept it. I\u2019m not willing to forget who I am just so you can tell me how easygoing and cute you find me. Nope.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni volta che una ragazza ha rispetto per se stessa e sa cosa vuole per sentirsi amata, accudita e al sicuro, viene misteriosamente definita una donna pazza e bisognosa che sfrutta il suo uomo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you not used to dealing with a woman who knows she\u2019s good enough and doesn\u2019t question herself just because you decided that you\u2019re the most important person in the relationship?<\/b><\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019re not. <\/span><\/p>\n

There was a time when I actually thought that I might be asking for too much from my boyfriend. Luckily, I\u2019ve realized just how little sense that makes.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not asking you to give anything I\u2019m not already giving you. I only ask for us to be partners, equal in how much we respect each other and care for one another. I want my effort to be reciprocated.<\/span><\/p>\n

You chose to ignore my needs so you can fulfill yours and that doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m being difficult or selfish, it means I\u2019m being <\/b>non rispettata<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

So che speravi che fossi cos\u00ec insicura da lasciarti controllare la nostra relazione e farti diventare il re del mio castello.<\/span><\/p>\n

Unfortunately for you, I\u2019m perfectly aware of how much value I have and I demand to be treated with as much respect and love as I treat you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not okay with you paying attention to me only when you feel like it. I want to constantly feel like you\u2019re there for me and I\u2019m not <\/b>assestamento<\/b><\/a> per qualcosa di meno di questo.<\/b><\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t mean that I won\u2019t give you time, freedom, or space for your individuality. It doesn\u2019t mean that you have to be at my beck and call 24\/7.<\/span><\/p>\n

It only means that you have to give me the respect that I deserve \u2013 the same kind you want me to give you and that I do give happily every day.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of being called nagging and demanding just because I have to remind you of the right way for you to show me you love me.<\/span><\/p>\n

You should know that on your own. You should appreciate that I\u2019m willing to give you time to learn and change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sembra che in ogni situazione, quando mi aspetto che tu alzi il tiro e mi dimostri quanto puoi essere premuroso, trovi un modo per deludermi.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sure enough, a woman shouldn\u2019t say anything, not even then, unless she wants to be called difficult.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ci si aspetta che una brava ragazza si accontenti di un amore mediocre, di una relazione mediocre e di una passione mediocre per poter avere il privilegio di essere etichettata come disinvolta, rilassata e mite.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? I don\u2019t care what you call me, because what you call me only speaks of who you are and what your shallow expectations of me are.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get to guilt-trip me into thinking that I should abandon my rights, my needs, and my wants.<\/span><\/p>\n

Things don\u2019t work that way. If you want to have a woman in your life who\u2019ll give you everything. you need to learn to treat her the way she deserves to be treated.<\/span><\/p>\n

In definitiva, cosa volete? Volete avere una donna fantastica nella vostra vita? <\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m right here. The thing is, you won\u2019t keep me by trying to <\/span>abbassare i miei standard<\/span><\/a> invece di mettere semplicemente pi\u00f9 impegno nella nostra relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t have you trying to bring me down just so you can feel better about yourself. You\u2019re not being strong or clever by doing that, you\u2019re just being annoyingly insensitive and demeaning.<\/span><\/p>\n

I need love, devotion, admiration, and respect and if that\u2019s just too much for you to give, I have a label for you and it says you\u2019re \u2019a low effort man who doesn\u2019t have what it takes to love me\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll always keep my head high, no matter how difficult you think that makes me.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Io<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why is it so easy to label a woman as difficult when she doesn\u2019t want to compromise on respect, love, and trust? I guess it\u2019s easier for men to pronounce a woman impossible to deal with than to actually put some effort into meeting her needs. Yeah, I get why you do that, but I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":84020,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/I\u2019m-Not-Difficult-You\u2019re-Just-Disrespectful.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84017","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=84017"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84017\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84020"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=84017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=84017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=84017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}