{"id":84393,"date":"2020-07-09T08:31:06","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:31:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=84393"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:42:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:42:36","slug":"ragazza-che-non-e-mai-stata-quella-giusta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazza-che-non-e-mai-stata-quella-giusta\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che non \u00e8 mai stata \"quella giusta\"."},"content":{"rendered":"

For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve always been a man\u2019s <\/span>seconda scelta<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve had multiple relationships and different guys have called you their girlfriend but you know that not one of them ever saw you as his soulmate. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eravate presenti quando avevano bisogno di qualcuno di comodo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando volevano una ragazza per il gusto di avere una relazione, quando volevano essere una ragazza di ripiego per aiutarli a guarire il loro cuore spezzato e quando la paura di rimanere soli li sopraffaceva. <\/b><\/p>\n

Da quando si pu\u00f2 ricordare, <\/span>you\u2019ve always been a man\u2019s second best. <\/b>La brava ragazza che in teoria d\u00e0 loro tutto ci\u00f2 di cui hanno bisogno, ma anche la ragazza che non amano mai veramente.<\/span><\/p>\n

To put things simply, you\u2019re a good girlfriend \u201con paper\u201d. You are good looking, people consider you funny and interesting, and you\u2019re definitely anything but stupid.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, at the end of the day, you actually have no idea why your relationships end. You never get the closure you need and every guy who has broken up with you just tells you that you\u2019re not the one. <\/span><\/p>\n

None of them have seen you as their forever person. You\u2019ve never felt their unconditional love and undivided attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Invece, ciascuno dei tuoi fidanzati ti ha amato con <\/span>met\u00e0 dei loro cuori<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per loro andavi bene finch\u00e9 non trovavano qualcun altro, o mentre aspettavano pazientemente una ragazza che li metteva in attesa.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like they used you as a passing station instead of a final destination. They needed you on their journey to finding true love instead of seeing you as their goal.<\/b><\/p>\n

A dire il vero, la verit\u00e0, <\/span>all of the loves you\u2019ve had were temporary<\/b>– you were someone who served the moment. <\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Nessun uomo nella sua vita l'ha vista come qualcosa di permanente. <\/b>o come donna con cui invecchiare.<\/span><\/p>\n

Di conseguenza, <\/span>you can\u2019t help but feel like a consolation prize<\/b>. Come la ragazza a cui i ragazzi si rivolgono quando non c'\u00e8 nessuno di meglio in giro e quella a cui si rivolgono quando tutti gli altri li abbandonano.<\/span><\/p>\n

The worst part is that you\u2019ve tried your best in each one of your relationships. You\u2019ve never held parts of yourself back and each time, you\u2019ve hoped you\u2019ve finally found your match made in heaven.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s always turned out to be different. You\u2019ve always ended up feeling like a supporting role and you\u2019ve never actually had the chance to be the star of your own love movie. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m here to ask you not to lose hope. <\/span>Potrebbe non sembrare cos\u00ec ora, ma credetemi quando vi dico che nessuno di questi ragazzi \u00e8 stato <\/b>quello che fa per voi<\/b><\/a>, sia. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nessuno di loro \u00e8 stato l'anima gemella e la persona per sempre. Sapete perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 <\/span>quell'uomo deve ancora incrociare il vostro cammino.<\/b><\/p>\n

As painful as this might be, the truth is that there are some things beyond your comprehension and some events you can\u2019t impact, as much as you try.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that none of your past relationships were meant to last. None of your exes were meant to be yours and there is nothing you can really do about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean that your Prince Charming won\u2019t come eventually. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re sentenced to a loveless life just because you\u2019ve had a few bad experiences. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not meant to be loved or that you should give up on relationships altogether. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fidatevi di me quando vi dico che uno di questi giorni il vostro destino cambier\u00e0 drasticamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

There will come a man who will love you in all the ways you\u2019ve never been loved and a man who will always treat you as the only woman in the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t see you as a rebound, as a girl to pick up his broken pieces, or as something temporary. <\/span>Un uomo che \u00e8 destinato ad essere vostro e che vi vedr\u00e0 come il suo unico e solo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dovete solo aspettare il momento giusto. Inoltre, bisogna essere pronti al suo arrivo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 <\/span>when he comes, he\u2019ll make you realize why it\u2019s never worked with anyone before him.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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