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He stole it from me and turned me into something I didn\u2019t want to be. Something he wanted me to be. <\/strong><\/p>\n Something he could control\u2014a mannequin disguised as a woman.<\/strong><\/p>\n He was an infinite bastard. A heartless mother fucker. He didn\u2019t care for a single soul in this world except for himself.<\/p>\n He didn\u2019t care for his family or his friends. Actually, he didn\u2019t even have any friends.<\/p>\n And he robbed me of mine, as well. It was so calculated, it was so sneaky and I didn\u2019t get it.<\/p>\n I couldn\u2019t leave just like that. Even when I started to realize what he was doing to me, I couldn\u2019t just walk away.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not as easy as it seems. I know people sometimes judge women who are being abused for still sticking to their abusers.<\/p>\n These abused women even defend their abusers and make excuses for them. Well, it\u2019s easy to play the role of just an observer and judge those women.<\/p>\n Ma vivere questo scenario e svegliarsi ogni mattina con lo stomaco pieno di paura e con la delusione scritta in faccia \u00e8 qualcosa di completamente diverso.<\/strong><\/p>\n Queste donne hanno paura<\/strong> to leave because they got used to the poor treatment they get. They don\u2019t know any better.<\/p>\n It is insanely weird, because, to some extent, they have at least some kind of security, even if it\u2019s living with an abuser. These uomini tossici<\/a> sanno come ingannarvi e farvi credere che si preoccupano davvero per voi.<\/p>\n Sanno come darvi la giusta attenzione per farvi rimanere.<\/strong><\/p>\n And when they do, they turn into toxic sociopaths, their actual real selves, all over again, and the vicious circle goes on. That\u2019s why you can\u2019t leave.<\/p>\n Continua a darvi la speranza che cambier\u00e0.<\/p>\n L'unica cosa che queste donne conoscono \u00e8 il maltrattamento. Quando qualcuno urla e si scaglia contro di te ogni giorno, diventa il tuo ambiente naturale.<\/p>\n After some time, those harsh loud insults don\u2019t offend you as much.<\/p>\n His threats and his violent behavior don’t affect you as much. I mean it does affect you, but you swallow it all up.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t shake anymore in front of him, but you go through hell inside of you.<\/p>\n Ti d\u00e0 una dose di se stesso e tu ne sei coinvolto.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s like you are a drug addict. He made you try it a few times and now, you can\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n You need more and more and he keeps giving you something you think you need, something you think you can\u2019t live without.<\/p>\n Quando un tossicodipendente si disintossica, si rende conto di ci\u00f2 che stava facendo a se stesso.<\/p>\n He realizes how much damage he has done to his precious mind and body and he realizes how stupid he was up to the point when he couldn\u2019t have enough.<\/p>\n It\u2019s either give up on drugs or die. It\u2019s the same for you. Leave him or die from the inside.<\/p>\n If your guts are telling you something is wrong, and if you\u2019re feeling like you\u2019ve been imprisoned, if your true self is slowly starting to fade or if you have disappeared completely, then you are being abusato emotivamente<\/a>.<\/p>\n All of the things I wrote are true, but most of the women who are living it can\u2019t accept it or are afraid to.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re still too scared to take the step to being \u2018sober\u2019, to abandon the sociopath that constantly feeds you with toxicity, remember this\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Love isn\u2019t supposed to be that way. Love isn\u2019t supposed to yell at you because it\u2019s having a bad day.<\/p>\n Love isn\u2019t supposed to emotionally blackmail you. Love isn\u2019t supposed to make you feel less worthy.<\/p>\n Love isn\u2019t supposed to break you.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ma questi uomini sono tutto tranne che amore. Urlano, gridano e mancano di rispetto.<\/p>\n These men don\u2019t know how to love. They know how to pretend to love you.<\/p>\n They use their villain manipulative power to gaslight you and make you completely oblivious to what\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n They have the power to control you, but only until you wake up from the nightmare they\u2019ve directed and realize you deserve and want way better than you have now.<\/strong><\/p>\n Open your eyes to save yourself. See what he\u2019s doing to you, and just like myself, run for your life.<\/p>\n Vedi anche: Siete il bersaglio di un sociopatico? 10 modi per scoprirlo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s his favorite tactic, something he does best. He makes you believe things which are not true.<\/p>\n Anche se all'inizio dubitate di lui e lo affrontate, lui trover\u00e0 scuse cos\u00ec forti e vivaci che la discussione andr\u00e0 avanti per giorni.<\/p>\n He will act like it\u2019s not a big deal. Even if you caught him texting another woman who is clearly his mistress, he will make you believe it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n At first, you will insist on him explaining you the situation, but after some time of hearing the same excuses, you\u2019ll start doubting yourself.<\/p>\n You will actually make yourself believe it\u2019s all in your head, that you are pushing things too far.<\/p>\n That was his plan all along. To make you believe you\u2019re the crazy one and that he never did anything wrong.<\/p>\n He is totally guilt-tripping you. He makes you think you are the one to blame for literally anything\u2014his and your mistakes.<\/p>\n Dopo tutto, lui \u00e8 quello perfetto ed \u00e8 impossibile che commetta un errore. Tu sei l'incapace, la sottomessa, l'ultima della lista.<\/p>\n \u00c8 cos\u00ec che vi ricatta emotivamente.<\/p>\n If he has troubles in his life, he will guilt you by saying you don\u2019t love him or that you don\u2019t give him enough of your time and that\u2019s why he\u2019s been failing. Not because he is incompetent, but because you don\u2019t try hard enough.<\/p>\n He is obsessed with control. That\u2019s why he has isolated you from the rest of the world.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t want you to communicate with anybody but him, so he can feed you with his toxic thoughts and violent behavior.<\/p>\n Cos\u00ec pensi che non ci sia niente di meglio per te, ma solo quello che lui ti d\u00e0.<\/p>\n He also knows he can\u2019t keep your attention. After you fall for him, he knows he has to do something to force you to stay.<\/p>\n To make this come true, he has mastered controlling any possible situation, so there won\u2019t be any surprises. This makes you feel like a prisoner.<\/p>\n All'inizio sar\u00e0 perfetto. Muover\u00e0 le montagne per voi e voi per lui. Ma, dopo qualche tempo, cambier\u00e0 e diventer\u00e0 sempre peggiore.<\/p>\n Vi tradir\u00e0, vi mentir\u00e0 e vi manipoler\u00e0. Vi tratter\u00e0 come se foste l'ultima delle sue priorit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 in realt\u00e0 lo siete.<\/p>\n And what\u2019s hilarious is that you are supposed to remain perfect and flawless.<\/p>\n Devi fare attenzione al tuo comportamento e devi stare attenta a non ferirlo in nessun modo possibile mentre lui ti tratta da schifo.<\/p>\n Ha bisogno di essere al centro dell'attenzione e tutto il vostro mondo deve ruotare intorno a lui.<\/p>\n If you do something that doesn\u2019t have to do anything with him, he\u2019ll get insanely jealous and make you pay for that \u2018mistake\u2019 you made.<\/p>\n In fact, he doesn\u2019t have an identity of his own. He needs you to boost his ego and to feed him with your approval which is sad when you look at it more closely.<\/p>\n This is again because he doesn\u2019t respect you enough to care. We all have boundaries, we all draw the line when something is too much for us.<\/p>\n Abbiamo cose che tolleriamo e cose che disprezziamo.<\/p>\n Well, he doesn\u2019t respect that. He thinks he has the right to set your boundaries for you.<\/p>\n And even if you remain firm and let him realize when it\u2019s enough, he won\u2019t respect it.<\/p>\n He will cross those boundaries every time he wants because he doesn\u2019t care at all about what you need or think.<\/p>\n \u00c8 nato cos\u00ec. Praticamente tutto ci\u00f2 che dice \u00e8 una bugia. Mente in modo cos\u00ec perfetto che non si potrebbe mai dubitare di lui ed \u00e8 coerente.<\/p>\n Non si perde mai nella confusione di bugie che crea. Anche se lo si sorprende a mentire, rimane calmo e tranquillo. E mentir\u00e0 anche per uscire da quella situazione.<\/p>\n Vi user\u00e0 e vi prosciugher\u00e0 le energie. E continuer\u00e0 a farlo finch\u00e9 ne avr\u00e0 bisogno.<\/p>\n Anche quando si \u00e8 completamente svuotati e non si ha pi\u00f9 nulla da fare, vi lascer\u00e0 per un po' di tempo per ricaricarsi e ritornare<\/a> e banchettare con te ancora un po'.<\/p>\n Vi infetter\u00e0 con la sua tossicit\u00e0 e vi impedir\u00e0 di vedere quanto siete capaci, forti e belli.<\/p>\n Il suo obiettivo principale \u00e8 quello di assicurarvi che siete un grande nulla senza di lui.<\/p>\n![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-worried-woman-starring-at-one-point.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-apologizing-to-woman.jpg\")
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<\/p>\nTi sta prendendo in giro e ti fa credere di essere tu quella pazza.<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nTi sta facendo credere che tutto sia colpa tua.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe\u2019s a control freak<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHe\u2019s a complete hypocrite<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nIl mondo gira intorno a lui<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/handsome-man-standing-outdoor.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHe doesn\u2019t respect your boundaries<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-arguing-with-sad-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nMente perfettamente<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-talking-to-sad-woman-on-the-couch.jpg\")
<\/p>\nVi consumer\u00e0 lentamente<\/h2>\n
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