{"id":84537,"date":"2020-07-09T08:48:30","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:48:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=84537"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:39:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:39:56","slug":"ignorare-le-cose-che-non-contano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ignorare-le-cose-che-non-contano\/","title":{"rendered":"A volte l'unico modo per essere in pace \u00e8 ignorare le cose che non contano"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Una volta ho letto che l'insicurezza uccide tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 bello e non potrei essere pi\u00f9 d'accordo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve spent too much time thinking and worrying about the things that add no real value to my life. That\u2019s why I decided to change things around.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I made a set of rules for myself to follow and now I\u2019m sharing them with you hoping you will do the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignorate le cose che vi fanno sentire insicuri.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t let insecurities ruin your life. Don\u2019t let them scare you to the point where you alter your life trying to avoid them rather than doing what you really want to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il nostro tempo in questa vita \u00e8 limitato. Potrebbe essere un pensiero terrificante, ma a volte mette le cose in prospettiva.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pensate alle cose che vi interessano davvero e concentratevi su di esse. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/romantic-love\/love-advice\/la-vita-e-troppo-breve-per-innamorarsi-di-persone-che-non-ti-trattano-bene\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life\u2019s too short to waste it on superficial things<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that don\u2019t add value to your life but instead just make you feel miserable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84539 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-wall-7.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente in top rosso in piedi vicino al muro e che pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-wall-7.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-wall-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-wall-7-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eliminate dall'ambiente circostante gli elementi che vi rendono demotivati.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abbracciate l'incertezza e continuate ad andare avanti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignorate le persone che hanno sempre qualcosa di negativo da dire.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to listen to or talk to people you don\u2019t like. In fact, you can tell them to get the hell out of your life any time you want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people feed off making you feel insecure, ashamed, and sad \u2013 don\u2019t let them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non tutte le critiche sono negative, ma alcune persone non fanno altro che criticare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il modo in cui gli altri vivono la loro vita non \u00e8 il modo in cui voi dovreste vivere la vostra. Fidatevi del vostro giudizio e vivete la vita secondo le vostre regole.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il modo per vivere una vita autentica \u00e8 ascoltare il proprio cuore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignore people who don\u2019t care about you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is a hard one because sometimes people who don\u2019t care about us are the people we still care about and that\u2019s okay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s not okay is letting them back into your life after they mistreated you, broken promises, and failed you in other ways.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/meritare-la-prima-opzione-di-qualcuno\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t let yourself be someone\u2019s option<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or a second thought. There are so many people who care for you and love you at all times \u2013 focus on their love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can\u2019t make someone love you and why should you? If they don\u2019t see you for who you are, there\u2019s no point.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Leave behind those who\u2019ve left you behind. As soon as you do that \u2013 new people will enter your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignore the crippling thoughts that tell you you\u2019re not enough.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84541 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-leaf-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top nero a fiori che tiene in mano una foglia verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-leaf-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-leaf-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-leaf-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ci sono tante domande che ci poniamo e a cui nessuno pu\u00f2 rispondere. Per esempio: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perch\u00e9 mi sta succedendo questo?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is there\u2019s nothing we can do but keep our hopes up and look at the bigger picture.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We must work on our self-esteem and invest in our personal growth and that means accepting the fact we\u2019re enough as we are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that but we must make peace and apologize for all the times we\u2019ve said and thought a bad thing about ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ognuno ha i suoi limiti personali, ognuno \u00e8 diverso e tutti sono degni di amore e felicit\u00e0 nonostante le differenze.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We can\u2019t pretend we\u2019re something we\u2019re not because if we do failure is inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Life doesn\u2019t tolerate fakeness \u2013 it pushes you to discover who you truly are by putting you through painful and stressful situations.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you learn to let go of fear and things that don\u2019t matter, you\u2019ll experience the true beauty of life. You\u2019ll be at peace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why learning to let go is one of the main lessons in life. In order to know your worth, you first need to let everything and everyone else go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Scegliete la pace prima di ogni altra cosa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Tutte le altre cose passeranno e diventeranno inutili, ma la vostra pace interiore \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vi render\u00e0 felici alla fine.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84544 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A volte l&#039;unico modo per essere in pace \u00e8 ignorare le cose che non contano\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I read once that insecurity kills everything that is beautiful and I couldn\u2019t agree more. I\u2019ve spent too much time thinking and worrying about the things that add no real value to my life. That\u2019s why I decided to change things around. I made a set of rules for myself to follow and now I\u2019m&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":84538,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84537","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84537","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=84537"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84537\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84538"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=84537"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=84537"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=84537"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}