{"id":85439,"date":"2020-07-09T10:54:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T10:54:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85439"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:12:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:12:34","slug":"leggete-questo-articolo-se-siete-stati-in-una-relazione-fallita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggete-questo-articolo-se-siete-stati-in-una-relazione-fallita\/","title":{"rendered":"Leggete questo articolo se avete avuto una relazione fallita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Le rotture sono difficili, non c'\u00e8 dubbio. Si perde la persona a cui si tiene profondamente e all'improvviso si deve imparare a vivere senza di lei.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter who initiated the end of your relationship \u2013 whenever it happens, it\u2019s painful for both parties.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you\u2019re the one who happened to stop loving your romantic partner, you can\u2019t help but feel sorry for the fact that you two had to say your final goodbyes.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re honest, you\u2019ll see that breakups happen all the time.<\/p>\n<p>This might sound harsh, but the truth is that every couple who doesn\u2019t end up married or as life partners, has to part ways sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that statistically speaking, most of your romantic relationships will end up with breakups. Sadly, it\u2019s all a part of life and something we all have to face.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, what can be even worse is when you end things with someone you weren\u2019t even really a couple with.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Passare attraverso un fallimento <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/che-cose-la-situationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Situazione di vita<\/a> \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 doloroso di una relazione fallita.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So che molti non saranno d'accordo con me, ma credetemi quando vi dico che <strong>it\u2019s quite possible to miss someone you never actually had<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t only miss this person, you suffer even more for the potential your romance might have had.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85443\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-suffering.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che soffre per una rottura che piange e si siede su un divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\"><\/p>\n<p>Piangete per tutte le cose che avreste potuto e dovuto fare. Tutte le cose che avete immaginato accanto a quest'uomo, tutti i progetti futuri che avevate, e il fatto che nulla di tutto ci\u00f2 si realizzer\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever been in a failed situationship, you\u2019ll know that it leaves the most devastating consequences on your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Whether you like to admit it or not, you\u2019re not only hurt by the fact that you have to go on without this man, but you\u2019re also devastated that he never had the decency to choose you for real.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto il tempo che avete trascorso insieme, non ti ha mai chiamato davvero la sua ragazza. Non ti ha mai preso per mano e non ti ha mai presentato con orgoglio a tutti i suoi amici e familiari.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segni-che-urlano-non-vogliono-impegnarsi-e-che-tu-stai-ignorando\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Non ha mai voluto impegnarsi<\/a> e continuava a rifiutare di dare un'etichetta alla vostra relazione. Non siete mai stati esclusivi e non hai mai saputo a che punto eri con lui.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, <strong>you assume that you can\u2019t expect anything more or better from any other man<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re clearly not meant to be loved, and you\u2019ll never be enough for a guy to prioritize you and make you the only woman in his life.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you that you can\u2019t be more wrong. <strong>Just because you had one situationship like this, it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t form a real relationship<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this sounds like I\u2019m trying to comfort you, but believe me on this one: It\u2019s not you, it\u2019s him.<\/p>\n<p>It was never your fault that this immature boy didn\u2019t have the capacity to give you what you deserve.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda fuori dalla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not to blame for the fact that he didn\u2019t know what he wanted and couldn\u2019t make up his mind about you.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you. You\u2019re guilty of allowing him to keep treating you like this, after realizing that he\u2019ll never be the man you need. I get it.<\/p>\n<p>Hai continuato a sperare che cambiasse, ma tutto \u00e8 rimasto uguale.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, \u00e8 inutile ripensarci adesso. Quello che \u00e8 successo, \u00e8 successo, e tutto ci\u00f2 che si pu\u00f2 fare \u00e8 imparare da esso.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di lasciare che questa esperienza vi rovini irrimediabilmente, prendetela come una lezione. Imparate a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-tipi-di-uomini-che-evitano-di-frequentare\/\">evitare il tipo di uomini<\/a> che sono chiaramente dei giocatori e che ovviamente vi spezzeranno il cuore.<\/p>\n<p>Ma soprattutto, <strong>insegnare a non accontentarsi mai di meno di quello che si merita<\/strong>. Realize that it\u2019s not acceptable to be someone\u2019s last resort and don\u2019t let another man ever treat you as such.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Solo quando avrete raggiunto questa mentalit\u00e0, vedrete che la fine di questo rapporto \u00e8 certamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/la-fine-di-una-relazione-non-e-la-fine-della-tua-vita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">non la fine della tua vita<\/a> \u2013 it\u2019s actually a chance for your new beginning.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Only then will you be ready to meet a man who won\u2019t just treat you like his first choice, but his one and only choice.<\/p>\n<p>A man who will always be sure about you, won\u2019t have any doubts about his feelings and will make you feel safe and loved.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85452\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Leggete questo articolo se avete avuto una relazione fallita\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Breakups are tough, there\u2019s no doubt about that. You lose the person you deeply care about and all of a sudden, you have to learn how to live without them. It doesn\u2019t matter who initiated the end of your relationship \u2013 whenever it happens, it\u2019s painful for both parties. Even if you\u2019re the one who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":85450,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship..jpg",800,507,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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