{"id":85692,"date":"2020-07-09T10:59:51","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T10:59:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85692"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:05:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:05:55","slug":"prima-ci-siamo-lasciati-e-poi-ci-siamo-sposati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/prima-ci-siamo-lasciati-e-poi-ci-siamo-sposati\/","title":{"rendered":"Prima ci siamo lasciati e poi ci siamo sposati: ecco cosa \u00e8 successo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So che ogni ragazza che legger\u00e0 questa storia vi si collegher\u00e0 in qualche modo.<\/p>\n<p>Come posso esserne cos\u00ec sicuro?<\/p>\n<p>Well\u2026 It all started when I was in high school. I fell in love with the most popular boy there, duh. This is already starting to sound like a romantic movie but I swear to you that it wasn\u2019t anything like that.<\/p>\n<p>In qualche modo ho attirato la sua attenzione e abbiamo iniziato a frequentarci. Ero innamorata pazza di lui. Era il mio primo tutto.<\/p>\n<p>I believed there was no one who could ever replace him and I guess I was right. And yes, I\u2019m sure because later in life, I tried to replace him and it never worked.<\/p>\n<p>Cosa \u00e8 successo dopo?<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t honestly be completely sure of what it was that tore us apart. Did we drift apart? Did we want to explore other people, other options in life?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ovviamente pensavamo che ci fosse di pi\u00f9 nell'amore e nella vita rispetto a quanto avevamo fatto l'uno con l'altro e siamo andati entrambi alla ricerca del nostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/perche-e-necessario-credere-nel-destino\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">destino<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85716\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lady-hugs-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una signora abbraccia un uomo che indossa una giacca di jeans all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lady-hugs-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lady-hugs-a-man-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lady-hugs-a-man-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Years later, we found it, back in each other\u2019s arms.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t say I spent all those years apart dwelling on our past relationship. Did I miss him? I sure did.<\/p>\n<p>In qualche modo, mi sono convinta che il tempo trascorso con lui sarebbe sempre rimasto un bel ricordo, ma che non eravamo destinati a qualcosa di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che pensavo a lui, pensavo che era stato una parte meravigliosa della mia adolescenza e devo ammettere che a volte immaginavo che saremmo rimasti insieme.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Eppure, credevo che la nostra relazione fosse cos\u00ec straordinaria perch\u00e9 eravamo giovani, spensierati e liberi e che avesse ben poco a che fare con la nostra compatibilit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>A volte immaginavo come sarebbe stato il nostro rapporto nel mondo reale e adulto.<\/p>\n<p>Non riuscivo mai a pensare a qualcosa che ci impedisse di essere una coppia perfetta, ma continuavo a seppellire quei pensieri, pensando a quanto fossi infantile.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t even know who he was anymore. At that point, we hadn\u2019t seen each other for years and I wasn\u2019t even sure if I\u2019d recognize him if I saw him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85724\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-brown-winter-jacket.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in giacca invernale marrone che parla e cammina con una donna all&#039;aperto durante l&#039;inverno\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\"><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ho continuato la mia vita, cercando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/15-segni-innegabili-di-una-vera-relazione-damore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">amore vero<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ci sono stati uomini che mi hanno fatto sentire come se potessero essere la scelta perfetta per me, ma in qualche modo non erano mai abbastanza.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Mi mancava qualcosa e non sono mai riuscita a capire cosa fosse, ma la sensazione di vuoto mi ha accompagnato in tutte le mie esperienze relazionali.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ho mai pensato che fosse il mio amore per lui a farmi sentire cos\u00ec? No, perch\u00e9 non ci ho mai pensato.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Ora so che \u00e8 sempre stato una parte del mio cuore e della mia anima, ma all'epoca non ne ero assolutamente consapevole.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know that the romantics among you would like to hear that when we first met it was all rainbows, butterflies and fireworks and I\u2019m sorry to disappoint you but it wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>La prima volta che ci siamo visti dopo molti anni, siamo stati semplicemente felici di riallacciare i rapporti e di parlare per un po'.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Nothing amazing happened. I didn\u2019t fall into his arms, telling him he was the love of my life or anything like that.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85725\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/photo-from-the-back-of-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"foto di spalle di un uomo che vede una donna che lo guarda di spalle seduta al tavolo del ristorante\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\"><\/p>\n<p>Abbiamo deciso di incontrarci di nuovo. Ricordo che la sera stessa in cui lo vidi, in qualche modo mi sentii in pace. <em><strong>Era come se tutto cominciasse a ricomporsi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Still, I didn\u2019t recognize what was happening until much, much later.<\/p>\n<p>Piano piano abbiamo ricominciato a frequentarci e indovinate un po'? Ci siamo sposati e abbiamo avuto una bella famiglia.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever people asked us how we met, I\u2019ve always told them that it was nothing special, just two high school sweethearts who ended up together.<\/p>\n<p>Ora, se ci penso, la nostra storia \u00e8 speciale.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>It\u2019s a story of two souls who were meant to be together and who found their way back to one another.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I now know that there\u2019s nothing more special that can happen to you than being lucky enough to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-vostra-anima-gemella-vi-ispirera\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">trovare l'anima gemella<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d like to think that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vorrei-davvero-che-il-matrimonio-ce-la-facesse\/\">noi due in qualche modo ce l'abbiamo fatta<\/a> happen but we really didn\u2019t. It was destiny.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85736\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/First-We-Broke-Up-And-Then-We-Got-Married-This-Is-What-Happened-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Prima ci siamo lasciati e poi ci siamo sposati: ecco cosa \u00e8 successo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/First-We-Broke-Up-And-Then-We-Got-Married-This-Is-What-Happened-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/First-We-Broke-Up-And-Then-We-Got-Married-This-Is-What-Happened-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/First-We-Broke-Up-And-Then-We-Got-Married-This-Is-What-Happened-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/First-We-Broke-Up-And-Then-We-Got-Married-This-Is-What-Happened-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know that every girl who\u2019ll read this story will connect to it in some way. How can I be so sure? Well\u2026 It all started when I was in high school. I fell in love with the most popular boy there, duh. This is already starting to sound like a romantic movie but I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":85732,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/First-We-Broke-Up-And-Then-We-Got-Married-This-Is-What-Happened.jpg",800,502,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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