{"id":85741,"date":"2020-07-09T11:03:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:03:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85741"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:22:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:22:58","slug":"i-narcisisti-possono-sopravvivere-a-tutto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-narcisisti-possono-sopravvivere-a-tutto\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 sembra che i narcisisti possano sopravvivere a qualsiasi cosa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sembra che qualsiasi cosa accada, un narcisista<\/a> trova sempre il modo di atterrare in piedi.<\/p>\n

Tutti intorno a loro rimangono feriti, arrabbiati e devastati, ma loro riescono in qualche modo a trovare un modo per elevarsi al di sopra di ogni disastro che incontrano o creano.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto they\u2019ve done to you<\/a>, it\u2019s even more frustrating to see them continuing their life as if absolutely nothing has happened.<\/p>\n

So, how do they do it? How come it\u2019s possible for them to survive every kind of tragedy without a scratch?<\/p>\n

First, we have to think about what \u201ca tragedy\u2019\u2019 means to a narcissist.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We can\u2019t compare them to our standards of basically anything that involves emotional attachment because their way of experiencing and perceiving emotions is very different than our own.<\/p>\n

One mistake we all make is to try to apply the rules that work for us to their lives \u2013 and that\u2019s just wrong.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? L'ho capito dopo molti anni di lotta contro la rabbia e l'ansia causate da un narcisista nella mia vita.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ecco cosa ho capito:<\/strong> Vivo la vita usando l'empatia, la logica e le emozioni per bilanciare ci\u00f2 che sta accadendo nella mia vita e prendere decisioni.<\/p>\n

Penso alle altre persone e al fatto che le mie azioni possano ferirle e cerco di evitare di provocare un dolore inutile.<\/p>\n

A narcissist, on the other hand, has a completely different thought process. When I go through something horrific, I process that tragedy through my emotional responses, and they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s a tragedy to me is not a tragedy for them. They see the world through their personal gain. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Agiscono nel modo che ritengono migliore per i loro interessi, invece di seguire i loro impulsi emotivi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Allora, come fanno a scrollarsi di dosso le emozioni negative dopo aver perso qualcosa che li interessava, vi chiederete?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where the other aspect of their personality sets in.<\/p>\n

I narcisisti vivono nella menzogna.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Il fatto che attraversino il caos che creano senza battere ciglio \u00e8 solo un'illusione.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

They seem like the luckiest, wittiest, most charming person in the room while they\u2019re actually using all their energy to appear that way.<\/p>\n

They are never actually happy. They spend most of their lives feeling so low that when something devastating happens it doesn\u2019t even feel new to them.<\/p>\n

They appear like they\u2019re flying and they never seem to fall, but that\u2019s because they were crawling all along.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t easily land on their feet after a disaster as they are never actually on their feet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They live in a fantasy world that they seem to have created to hurt people around them in order to try and spread their negativity and, just because they can\u2019t seem to reach any high, pull everyone down with them.<\/p>\n

Si concentrano cos\u00ec tanto sulla vittoria, non perch\u00e9 la cerchino davvero, ma perch\u00e9 vogliono che tutti gli altri vedano il loro successo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why they\u2019ll do anything in their power to make it look like they\u2019re always on top. Losing \u2013 or better yet \u2013 looking defeated, is the end of the world for a narcissist.<\/p>\n

Never believe anything they say, not even when their lies are supported by evidence, because they\u2019ll sacrifice everything and everyone to put on a show where they are the most superior being walking the earth.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

La paura pi\u00f9 grande che una persona narcisista ha \u00e8 che le persone inizino a capire tutto questo<\/a> e vederli per quello che sono in realt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Anche quando questo inizia a succedere, vanno in overdrive, ingannando e mentendo per presentarsi nella migliore luce possibile.<\/p>\n

Quello che bisogna capire di un narcisista \u00e8 che ha la convinzione di poter fare qualsiasi cosa.<\/p>\n

Sono diventati ci\u00f2 che sono combattendo la tristezza, il dolore, l'abbandono e attraversando le difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve created a coping mechanism that makes them believe they can do and be whatever they like, and they go through life with this attitude that no harm can be done to them and they can rise above any kind of misfortune.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ultimately, they\u2019ve built a world of deception, illusion, and fantasy in which they are the only ones who make decisions about what\u2019s real and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

La realt\u00e0 ha un impatto minimo sul modo in cui si sentono, perch\u00e9 mancano la ragione e l'empatia per accettare l'influenza degli altri.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sick of feeling annoyed, hurt, or angered by how a narcissist in your life seems to always find their way out of everything, just know that their life is completely fake \u2013 and ultimately \u2013 pathetic and sad.<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It seems like whatever happens, a narcissist always finds a way to land on their feet. Everyone around them is left hurt, angry, and devastated and they somehow manage to find a way to rise above any disaster they come upon or create. After everything they\u2019ve done to you, it\u2019s even more frustrating to see…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":85869,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Narcissists-young-man.jpg",800,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85741","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=85741"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85741\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85869"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=85741"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=85741"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=85741"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}