{"id":85885,"date":"2020-07-09T08:53:54","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:53:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85885"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:57","slug":"concentrarsi-sullessere-una-grande-donna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/concentrarsi-sullessere-una-grande-donna\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettete di preoccuparvi di trovare un ragazzo fantastico e concentratevi sull'essere una donna fantastica"},"content":{"rendered":"

I believe that there is an ideal person for all of us \u2013 our perfect match. I truly believe in soulmates <\/span>perch\u00e9 non molto tempo fa stavo scoprendo me stessa e attraverso di essa ho incontrato il mio<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

So che \u00e8 difficile da credere, ma <\/span>la tua anima gemella<\/span><\/a> is out there somewhere and I’m sure he’ll find you. <\/span>Your paths will cross one day and he’ll be everything you ever asked for.<\/b><\/p>\n

He’ll be even more than that. He’ll be the prince you dreamed about when you were a little girl. He’ll be that kind-hearted \u201cbad boy\u201d you had a crush on as a teenage girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

He’ll be a successful and protective man with some serious plans and goals for the future. A man who knows what he wants and how to get it. A man whose priority is to settle down and start his own family. <\/span><\/p>\n

He’ll be that man you pray for every night before you go to bed.<\/b><\/p>\n

One day, I’m sure he’ll come. The only reason he isn’t here yet is because God thinks you need some more time. Some more time for yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete lavorare di pi\u00f9 su voi stessi. Dovete realizzare alcuni dei vostri sogni e obiettivi. <\/span>Devi prima costruirti come donna indipendente.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Your soulmate will come into your life when it’s time. There are some things you can’t control in life and this is one of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, why bother about things that are out of your control? Why bother about it when you’re not the one who decides about the timing of these things?<\/b><\/p>\n

I was also focused on finding \u201cthe one\u201d my entire life and where did it get me? Nowhere. I only neglected my own needs. I was jealous of every happy couple I saw on the street.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho iniziato a pensare che forse il vero problema \u00e8 in me. <\/span>Ero bloccato dalla costante sensazione di <\/b>non essere abbastanza bravi<\/b><\/a> and I didn’t know how to get rid of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

I wondered if I’d ever find someone who thinks that I’m good enough \u2013 who sees me with completely different eyes. Because God knows my self-image was terrible.<\/span><\/p>\n

I remember when I was in college, my goals for the future were to get my diploma, find a job I’d enjoy doing, and work hard to become a successful and independent woman.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I wanted to surround myself with a big circle of friends and somehow repay my parents for their love and everything they\u2019d done for me over the years.<\/span><\/p>\n

That futile search for a soulmate changed my goals for the future completely. The only thing that was important to me was to find someone who’d love me and stay with me for the rest of my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong. <\/span>Having a life partner is important and should be a part of everyone’s goals for the future. But it shouldn’t become your obsession.<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

Ci sono tante cose di cui dovreste occuparvi nella vostra vita prima di iniziare a condividerla con qualcun altro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un giorno ho visto alcune foto dei miei amici su Instagram. Si stavano godendo una vacanza alle Maldive. Poi ho scoperto che la mia collega ha avuto una promozione ed \u00e8 diventata la mia superiore.<\/span><\/p>\n

That was the day I looked at myself in the mirror and said, \u201cStop right there, missy. It’s enough. You have to get your life in order and you have to do it now!\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Meritavo anche di viaggiare e divertirmi. Meritavo anche di progredire nella mia carriera. Quella matricola contava su di me e io dovevo renderla orgogliosa.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Il giorno in cui ho deciso di cambiare il mio modo di pensare \u00e8 stato il giorno in cui la mia vita ha iniziato a migliorare in ogni modo possibile. Mi sentivo pi\u00f9 calma e rilassata. <\/span>Finalmente ho provato quella sensazione di pace interiore.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ho spostato l'attenzione su di me. Ho iniziato a lavorare su me stesso. <\/span>Dovevo rimettere in sesto il mio rapporto con me stesso.<\/b> La cura di s\u00e9 \u00e8 diventata<\/span><\/a> my priority. I found my life purpose and it wasn’t finding the great guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

I worked hard to make myself better in every possible way and I did it. I am so damn proud of myself and everything I\u2019ve achieved so far.<\/span><\/p>\n

Alla fine voglio solo dire una cosa a tutte le donne che sono alla ricerca dell'unico grande uomo. Il vostro grande uomo pu\u00f2 arrivare, ma pu\u00f2 anche andarsene un giorno. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are the only person you know for sure you’re stuck with for the rest of your life.<\/b> Cercate di renderlo divertente, emozionante e interessante, migliorando voi stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Smettete<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I believe that there is an ideal person for all of us \u2013 our perfect match. I truly believe in soulmates because not so long ago I was in the process of discovering myself and through it, I met mine.  I know that this is hard to believe, but your soulmate is out there somewhere…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":85886,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85885","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Stop-Worrying-About-Finding-A-Great-Guy-And-Focus-On-Being-A-Great-Woman.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85885","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=85885"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85885\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163549,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85885\/revisions\/163549"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85886"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=85885"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=85885"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=85885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}