{"id":86555,"date":"2020-08-13T20:16:33","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:16:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86555"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:44:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:44:08","slug":"lasciare-un-uomo-che-rifiuta-di-impegnarsi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lasciare-un-uomo-che-rifiuta-di-impegnarsi\/","title":{"rendered":"Siate abbastanza coraggiose da lasciare un uomo che si rifiuta di impegnarsi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Per una ragazza come te, che crede in un amore vero e fiabesco, la cosa peggiore degli appuntamenti moderni \u00e8 che le persone hanno in qualche modo normalizzato le relazioni occasionali. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like the word commitment has been written out of the dictionary and having a healthy, serious relationship has become a jackpot instead of something normal and expected. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, you\u2019re not someone who judges those who consensually get involved in flings. It\u2019s one thing if neither of the parties involved is interested in commitment and only wants to have a good time. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s something else when you\u2019re in a situation where you crave real romance, while the other person doesn\u2019t even think about things such as loyalty and fidelity and this is exactly what\u2019s going on with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been surrounded by guys who are not interested in any long-term plans. Guys who are perfectly fine with temporary affairs and who don\u2019t want anything more than that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, <\/span>questo \u00e8 un promemoria per ricordarvi di non accontentarvi di nulla di meno di quanto desiderate e meritate.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un promemoria per non accettare un <\/b>relazione senza laboratorio<\/b><\/a> in cui non si sa mai da che parte stare.<\/b><\/p>\n

Dimenticate le norme sociali. <\/span>Dimenticate la nuova normalit\u00e0 e concentratevi su ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 normale per voi. <\/b><\/p>\n

No matter what anyone tells you, it\u2019s not okay for a man to sweet-talk you into giving him your entire self, just to end up telling you he is emotionally unavailable once things start to get a little bit serious.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not okay to settle for casual dating if you want more. <\/b>Not okay to accept crumbs of someone\u2019s love and attention if you know you deserve more. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m begging you not to keep doing this to yourself. I\u2019m asking you to remember your worth and to be brave enough to go after what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared of people calling you old-fashioned just because you demand a label. Don\u2019t be scared of being seen as possessively jealous just because you want exclusivity and fidelity.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid of being perceived as clingy just because you want someone\u2019s undivided attention.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid of being perceived as a prude just because you refuse to give your body to someone who doesn\u2019t want your heart, mind and soul attached to it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fidatevi di me su questo punto; <\/span>you\u2019re not crazy for wanting full commitment. <\/b>You\u2019re not too picky because you want a man who is willing to put some effort into your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your standards are not incredibly high just because you expect some basic things such as love, respect and appreciation. You\u2019re not asking for too much just because you want loyalty and unconditional love. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019re just braver than the rest of the world and I\u2019m asking you to stay that way.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to beg you to leave the moment a man tells you he can\u2019t give you what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The moment he starts making excuses for his alleged emotional unavailability and the moment you see he can\u2019t make up his mind about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m asking you to walk away from any man who is not mature enough to devote himself to one relationship at a time.<\/b><\/p>\n

From a man who doesn\u2019t have the decency to pick you or who doesn\u2019t treat you as his first and only choice. <\/span><\/p>\n

Be courageous enough to face the truth and realize that this type of guy will never change. Courageous enough to know that you can\u2019t save him and open his heart to love. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m asking you to be brave enough to always choose yourself over any half-hearted love. To choose yourself over the possibility of an almost relationship and over someone\u2019s potential.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siate abbastanza coraggiosi da <\/b>spezzare il proprio cuore<\/b><\/a> and to walk away from someone you deeply care for simply because you know he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Abbastanza coraggiosa da farsi del male adesso, invece di lasciare che lui continui a farti del male per mesi o addirittura anni. <\/span><\/p>\n

Soprattutto, siate abbastanza coraggiosi da <\/span>rimanere single<\/span><\/a> in this harsh world until the man who can give you the commitment you\u2019re looking for appears in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siate abbastanza pazienti da aspettare il suo arrivo, invece di sprecare tutto il vostro tempo con i ragazzi sbagliati. <\/span><\/p>\n

Be brave enough never to bow under the pressure of others who tell you that you\u2019re waiting for someone who will never come.<\/span><\/p>\n

Abbastanza coraggiosa da non perdere mai la fiducia nel fatto che esistono uomini veri che hanno la capacit\u00e0 di dedicarsi a una sola donna. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m begging you to be bold enough not to allow anyone to diminish your worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Brave enough to always remember how valuable you actually are and never to accept breadcrumbs of someone\u2019s almost love and fake attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Siate<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For a girl like you, who believes in a true, fairy tale kind of love, the worst thing about modern dating is that people have somehow normalized casual relationships.  It\u2019s like the word commitment has been written out of the dictionary and having a healthy, serious relationship has become a jackpot instead of something normal…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":86557,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-86555","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-Bold-Enough-To-Leave-A-Man-Who-Refuses-To-Commit.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86555","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=86555"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86555\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/86557"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=86555"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=86555"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=86555"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}