{"id":86563,"date":"2020-08-13T20:18:01","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:18:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86563"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:43:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:43:34","slug":"motivi-per-cui-il-narcisista-potrebbe-averti-traumatizzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/motivi-per-cui-il-narcisista-potrebbe-averti-traumatizzato\/","title":{"rendered":"4 motivi per cui stare con un narcisista\/manipolatore potrebbe avervi traumatizzato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tutti ammetteranno che una relazione con un gaslighter\/narcisista \u00e8 estremamente dannosa e pericolosa.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, everyone talks about the impact it leaves on you while you\u2019re a direct victim of this abuser; the impact it leaves while you\u2019re still involved with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sadly, these consequences don\u2019t end with the end of your toxic relationship. In fact, this experience traumatizes you for life and here is exactly how. <\/span><\/p>\n

Omicidio spirituale<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

A narcissist is not always physically violent. It doesn\u2019t mean that he will actually punch you or leave bruises on your body but he will certainly <\/span>abusare emotivamente di voi<\/span><\/a> e mentalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that this man won\u2019t kill you in the real sense of that word. Your life won\u2019t end with everything he does to you. However, he might do something even worse; he can make you wish it had. <\/span><\/p>\n

After this kind of man is done with you, you feel like you\u2019ve been spiritually murdered and that is one of the worst sensations you\u2019ll ever experience. <\/b><\/p>\n

When this kind of man is done with you, you feel dead on the inside. It\u2019s like you\u2019re not living but merely surviving day to day.<\/span><\/p>\n

What you feel is very similar to depression. You have lost the will to live and you don\u2019t see a light at the end of the tunnel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il vostro sistema di credenze<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Una relazione con un narcisista distrugge la vostra fiducia nella bont\u00e0 intrinseca delle persone. Mette in discussione tutto ci\u00f2 che si pensava di sapere sulla vita e sul mondo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prima che quest'uomo orribile attraversasse la sua vita, lei credeva davvero che ci fosse qualcosa di buono in tutti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se le persone facevano cose brutte, trovavate sempre una ragione per il loro comportamento; cercavate di capirle e cercavate sempre le loro qualit\u00e0 positive, anche quando non erano in vista.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, this toxic romance changed all of this. After having experienced this real-life hell, you didn\u2019t only <\/b>perdere la fiducia nell'amore<\/b><\/a>, avete anche perso la fiducia nell'umanit\u00e0 intera. <\/b><\/p>\n

If the man who swore he\u2019d love you forever could do this much harm to you, what can you expect from others? <\/span><\/p>\n

If someone you wanted to spend your life next to destroyed it, how can you have any hope that others won\u2019t do the same?<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, as much as you try, you can\u2019t seem to find anything good in this guy.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ci \u00e8 voluto molto tempo per accettare questa terribile verit\u00e0, ma il fatto \u00e8 che essenzialmente \u00e8 una persona malvagia, senza alcuna empatia o gentilezza.<\/b><\/p>\n

No, he doesn\u2019t hide his good sides; they\u2019re not buried deep inside of him, underneath all the layers he shows to the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s pretty simple; there is no good in him. So, I guess it is possible that there is no inherent goodness in every human being.  <\/span><\/p>\n

L'impatto negativo sulle altre relazioni<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve spent a significant amount of time next to a narcissistic person, he somehow manages to shut you off from the rest of the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

For a long time, you see him as the only person who matters in your life, the only one whose opinions are important and the only one who knows what\u2019s right from you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Di conseguenza, tutte le altre relazioni ne risentono. Questo ragazzo fa del suo meglio per allontanarvi da tutti i vostri cari, in modo da potervi manipolare con pi\u00f9 facilit\u00e0. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dopo un po' di tempo, quando finalmente si chiude la relazione, queste sono le persone di cui si ha pi\u00f9 bisogno di sostegno. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, whether you like to admit it or not, your relationships are now not the same. Also, you don\u2019t trust them unconditionally anymore even though they have never done you any harm. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve simply changed and you have become extra careful so you can\u2019t relax in front of anyone. <\/b><\/p>\n

This is especially true when it comes to any new, potential romances. As much as you try, you can\u2019t seem to expect anything good from new guys who come into your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si presume che <\/span>tutti gli uomini sono uguali<\/span><\/a> e che ogni relazione finir\u00e0 allo stesso modo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dubbi su se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Il problema del gaslighting, che \u00e8 quasi sempre una parte importante di <\/span>relazioni narcisistiche<\/span><\/a>\u00e8 che ti fa dubitare della tua sanit\u00e0 mentale.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'altra persona si sforza di farvi sembrare pazzi per avere un controllo pi\u00f9 forte su di voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

After you finally escape this abuse, you know that you aren\u2019t crazy. However, you\u2019re just aware of that on a conscious level.<\/b><\/p>\n

D'altra parte, c'\u00e8 sempre una vocina in fondo alla testa che ti dice che dovresti dubitare di te stesso, che ti dice di mettere in discussione ogni mossa che fai e ogni parola che dici. <\/span><\/p>\n

This shouldn\u2019t come as a surprise since you were exposed to this voice for years.<\/span><\/p>\n

You had a man by your side who kept telling you that nothing you ever did was good enough so it\u2019s perfectly normal that this left some marks on you. <\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that all of this sounds harsh. However, trust me when I tell you that you\u2019re in no way damaged beyond repair.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se non mi credete, alla fine guarirete. La vostra anima spezzata si riparer\u00e0 da sola e tutto questo sar\u00e0 alle spalle.<\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you have to do is cut this guy off for good, if you haven\u2019t done that already. Put all of your strength into kicking him out of your life, mind and heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

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