{"id":86610,"date":"2020-08-13T20:29:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86610"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:39:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:39:40","slug":"ti-tiene-in-secondo-piano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-tiene-in-secondo-piano\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose che dimostrano che vi sta tenendo in disparte"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 solo un incapace nelle relazioni o \u00e8 un giocatore?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Figuring out if he\u2019s saving you as one of his options and wasting your time can be tricky. What if he\u2019s just keeping you on the back burner?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

For those who\u2019ve never even heard of such a kind of relationship, this is what it is: <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Una relazione in secondo piano \u00e8 una relazione in cui lui vi d\u00e0 l'impressione che le cose stiano per diventare serie, quando in realt\u00e0 ha altre opzioni che vuole prima esplorare.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

He\u2019s interested in hooking up with you, but he\u2019s not sure he\u2019ll ever want anything more. Still, he wants to keep you as an option. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Leggete questi 7 segnali che indicano che avete <\/span><\/i>una relazione in secondo piano<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c8 lui che fa tutte le scelte e le decisioni<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Tutto nella vostra relazione avviene alle sue condizioni. I vostri desideri, piani e abitudini non vengono mai presi in considerazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

He only cares about getting what he wants from you and he can even be very open about it. If you try to make things go your way, he\u2019ll tell you you\u2019re being needy or pushy.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably noticed that he\u2019s <\/span>egoista<\/span><\/a> nel modo in cui vi tratta.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s not there to make you feel happy, loved, or taken care of. You\u2019re one of his options and he treats you like you don\u2019t really matter that much because to him, you don\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re out of the picture he still has others to choose from.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti chiama all'ultimo minuto<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Even though he usually doesn\u2019t invite you to go to important events with him, he might call you at 9 to get ready for a party at 10 because his other option blew him off.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he often calls you or texts you last minute to hang out that means he never thinks of you first. He goes through his other, better options and you\u2019re definitely not his priority.<\/span><\/p>\n

He might get offended, annoyed, or mad if you refuse to go with him, but that\u2019s just because he\u2019s tired of going through his list, not because he cares that much about seeing you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo si vede raramente nei fine settimana<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Everybody has some fun plans for the weekend and he does too. The thing is, you\u2019re never a part of those plans.<\/span><\/p>\n

He makes arrangements to hang out with his first interest(s) or even his real girlfriend. The only way he\u2019ll call you on the weekend is if the scenario from the previous point happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you truly were his only interest, or at least his priority interest, wouldn\u2019t he choose to spend time with you on the weekends?<\/span><\/p>\n

Impiega molto tempo per rispondere ai messaggi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t really care that you texted him. There\u2019s nothing in that message you sent that he cares about.<\/span><\/p>\n

He texts you when he\u2019s bored or lonely<\/span><\/a> and only when he needs you \u2013 he doesn\u2019t really bother to respond to your needs. He\u2019s not happy to even talk to you if it\u2019s not convenient for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutto questo pu\u00f2 essere argutamente mascherato con la storia che lui \u00e8 super impegnato al lavoro, che sta facendo qualcosa di importante o che non sente il telefono.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it only happened once or twice, he might be being honest, but if this is something that happens often, he\u2019s definitely keeping you on the back burner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non fa mai dei veri piani con te<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t really say you\u2019ve ever agreed on meeting or doing something a week or even a couple of days ahead.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything seems to always be so spontaneous, but it\u2019s actually last minute.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course he can\u2019t commit to making plans with you. He has to check if anything more important is happening first, and then, if he\u2019s bored or has no one else to turn to, he\u2019ll make quick plans with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

He says he\u2019ll call but he doesn\u2019t<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

He told you he\u2019d call you but he didn\u2019t. He does this all the time. If he was committed to you, you would be at the front of his mind at almost all times.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forgetting to call you, and simply not even caring, definitely means he doesn\u2019t care about you or your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once his needs are satisfied, he no longer thinks of you. He might think of a charming excuse for his behavior but he doesn\u2019t even care if you get mad, that\u2019s why he gets to be so casual and carefree.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despite all this, he comes to you whenever he\u2019s lonely\/sad\/bored<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Even though, at moments, it seems obvious to you that you\u2019re not his top priority, he still comes to you. Why does he do that?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni volta che ha bisogno di sentirsi confortato, intrattenuto o semplicemente ha bisogno di compagnia, si rivolge a voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

La risposta \u00e8 proprio l\u00ec. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re there for him when no one else is and he can\u2019t just let that go. He doesn\u2019t really care about you, but he likes the way you make him feel and isn\u2019t willing to lose that.<\/span><\/p>\n

We hope we\u2019ve given you what it takes to decide if your guy is keeping you on the back burner or simply needs to work on his relationship skills. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Proteggere se stessi e <\/span><\/i>don\u2019t let anyone treat you like you\u2019re only an option<\/span><\/i><\/a> quando sapete di meritare di essere una priorit\u00e0.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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