{"id":86989,"date":"2020-09-08T06:35:23","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T06:35:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86989"},"modified":"2022-08-25T12:01:13","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T12:01:13","slug":"le-cose-strane-che-i-narcisisti-fanno-per-manipolare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-cose-strane-che-i-narcisisti-fanno-per-manipolare\/","title":{"rendered":"13 cose strane che i narcisisti fanno per manipolare le loro vittime"},"content":{"rendered":"

It doesn’t matter if you’ve had a relazione tossica<\/a> with a narcissistic ex or you’re still involved with someone suffering from NPD \u2013 either way, you know very well that there are some behavior patterns every narcissist follows.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, tutti loro sono persone individuali, ma stranamente ci sono alcune cose strane che i narcisisti fanno e che sono comuni a tutti loro.<\/p>\n

I’m not talking here about their individual personality traits that have nothing to do with their disorder. I’m referring to some strange things that characterize them.<\/p>\n

Each one of these habits or actions can serve as a bulletproof sign that you’re dealing with a narcissist and can help you save yourself in time.<\/p>\n

Questo elenco definitivo di cose strane che fanno i narcisisti scava un po' pi\u00f9 in profondit\u00e0 sotto gli strati della loro personalit\u00e0 e va oltre alcune cose che ci si potrebbe aspettare di sperimentare da una persona di questo tipo.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get into it.<\/p>\n

Intimit\u00e0 artificiale<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you meet a malignant narcissist for the first time, his goal is to get to know you better. He is not doing it because he\u2019s genuinely interested in your life.<\/p>\n

It’s all a part of his abuso narcisistico<\/a> tattiche che iniziano subito.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, questa persona vuole che tu esponga le tue vulnerabilit\u00e0. Vuole conoscere tutti i vostri punti deboli per poterli usare contro di voi in seguito.<\/p>\n

However, it would be too weird if he asked you deeply personal questions right away \u2013 you\u2019d see through his intentions and his plan would fail at the first step.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he uses reverse psychology techniques on you. Instead of openly snooping around your life, he is the one who starts to confide in you first.<\/p>\n

Once he does this, you begin to trust him more. You feel like he\u2019s someone who will keep your secrets and won\u2019t take advantage of you letting him in.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, una persona con disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0 crea un'intimit\u00e0 artificiale.<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per bombardamento d'amore<\/a>. Finge di interessarsi a voi pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro prima di lui, quindi non avete altra scelta se non quella di ricambiare tutte queste emozioni.<\/p>\n

Di conseguenza, la maggior parte delle relazioni narcisistiche tossiche si muove ad una velocit\u00e0 enorme.<\/p>\n

Before you know it, you\u2019re already seriously involved with this person and basically, you don\u2019t even know when and how it happened.<\/p>\n

You feel incredibly close to your narcissist and get the impression that you\u2019ve found your long lost soulmate.<\/p>\n

You feel an emotional connection you\u2019ve never felt before and that you could trust this man with your life, even though things are nowhere near that.<\/p>\n

Identit\u00e0 inventata<\/h2>\n

\"narcisista<\/p>\n

Another one of the weird things narcissists do is pretend to be someone they\u2019re not. You see, deep down, every narcissistic person is perfectly aware of their true selves.<\/p>\n

In effetti, lottano con le insicurezze e raramente accettano la loro vera personalit\u00e0. Al contrario, fanno di tutto per nascondere le loro imperfezioni.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why a narcisista<\/a> si inventer\u00e0 una nuova identit\u00e0 per impressionare la sua vittima.<\/p>\n

Sa che non vi innamorereste mai dell'uomo che \u00e8 in realt\u00e0, quindi ha bisogno di impersonare qualcun altro solo per entrare nella vostra pelle.<\/p>\n

Fate attenzione perch\u00e9 di solito queste persone sono bugiarde compulsive, oltre a tutti gli altri disturbi mentali di cui soffrono.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, le loro vittime di solito impiegano molto tempo prima di venire a capo dei loro inganni.<\/p>\n

No, a person suffering from NPD won\u2019t give you a fake name. They\u2019ll probably dirvi la verit\u00e0<\/a> riguardo ad alcuni dati di base su di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

However, they\u2019ll completely disregard certain information they don\u2019t find appealing. They\u2019ll hide their failures and, most importantly, they\u2019ll do everything in their power for you not to see their dark side.<\/p>\n

When you first meet someone like this, you think that he is too good to be true. You can\u2019t believe that you\u2019re so lucky to cross paths with such a perfect person.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, a narcissist\u2019s personality is actually a blend of different people.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not rare for them to take over the things they like about their friend\u2019s and family\u2019s past and present them as their own personal history.<\/p>\n

The worst part about all this is that once you do find out that you\u2019ve been lied to, it\u2019s usually too late.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re already trapped in this narcissistic relationship and you love this person so much that you forgive them for their misdeeds from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Correlato: 52 cose manipolatorie che i narcisisti dicono durante una discussione<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Campagna diffamatoria<\/h2>\n

\"impiegati<\/p>\n

Una gran parte dell'offerta narcisistica risiede nel fatto che il narcisista si sente migliore del suo vittima<\/a> \u2013 doing everything in his power to make you feel like he is above you in all ways possible.<\/p>\n

In sostanza, ci\u00f2 che queste persone cercano \u00e8 l'approvazione. Hanno bisogno che voi li idealizziate e, per riuscirci, devono prima mettervi in difficolt\u00e0, perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per farvi stare al di sotto di loro.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why they often do something called a smear campaign, spreading negative propaganda about you just to ruin your reputation \u2013 yet another one of the things weird things narcissists do.<\/p>\n

Il narcisista parler\u00e0 male di voi ai vostri amici, familiari e colleghi. Far\u00e0 del suo meglio affinch\u00e9 tutti loro perdano il rispetto per voi.<\/p>\n

Durante questo periodo, user\u00e0 bugie e manipolazioni. Diffonder\u00e0 sapientemente voci su di voi, con l'obiettivo finale di far s\u00ec che gli altri pensino male di voi.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, una persona narcisista distrugge la vostra credibilit\u00e0. Le persone smettono di considerarla affidabile e la sua parola perde tutto il suo peso.<\/p>\n

Consequently, even when you try looking for help from others \u2013 once you try escaping this mental prison he\u2019s put you in \u2013 you keep finding shut doors.<\/p>\n

Even when you try telling people that he\u2019s an abuser, nobody actually believes you since their opinion of you is already tainted.<\/p>\n

In fin dei conti, non avete nessun altro a cui rivolgervi se non il vostro narcisista. E questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che ha sempre voluto ottenere.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, questo \u00e8 il suo modo di impedirvi di fare progressi nella vita. Un modo per esercitare il suo controllo su di voi.<\/p>\n

After all, how can you hope of getting the promotion you need so you could gain your financial independence if your partner\u2019s made sure your boss and coworkers consider you irresponsible or even a thief?<\/p>\n

How do you expect your friends to give you a shelter once you finally decide to leave him and go no contact if your partner\u2019s made sure they consider you a liar or abuser?<\/p>\n

Come si pu\u00f2 iniziare il processo di recupero dall'abuso narcisistico<\/a> se non hai nessuno che ti aiuti?<\/p>\n

Rancore<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it, all of us are resentful from time to time. Some things seem completely irrelevant, but you can\u2019t force yourself to forget them or to forgive the ones who did you harm.<\/p>\n

Detto questo, i narcisisti sono campioni di rancore<\/a>. They have a memory of an elephant and never forget something that\u2019s hurt them, even if they act like they accept someone\u2019s apology.<\/p>\n

In fact, the problem is that a narcissist\u2019s ego rarely allows him to show anyone that he is heartbroken or emotionally damaged. He will often act like someone hurting him isn\u2019t such a big deal.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, si comporter\u00e0 in questo modo solo all'inizio. Al contrario, non appena sorge il primo disaccordo, si assicura di menzionare qualcosa del passato e di riaprire vecchie ferite.<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per le relazioni sentimentali. Una persona narcisista \u00e8 pronta a maltrattare il proprio partner per anni per qualcosa che hanno fatto secoli fa.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che litigherete vi rinfaccer\u00e0 alcune cose che eravate sicuri fossero acqua passata.<\/p>\n

This man has no capacity for forgiveness. He doesn\u2019t accept apologies and always remembers every time his feelings got hurt.<\/p>\n

Due pesi e due misure<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

On the other hand, a narcissist will rarely remember the things he\u2019s done to his victims, which is also a red flag that you’re dealing with a sociopatico<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Questo tipo di persone di solito ha due pesi e due misure. Hanno una serie di regole per le loro vittime, un'altra per il resto del mondo e una terza per loro stessi.<\/p>\n

Il narcisista si considera un privilegiato. \u00c8 il migliore tra i migliori e una creatura donata da Dio.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, gli \u00e8 permesso di comportarsi come vuole. Ha il diritto di fare certe cose che nessun altro fa.<\/p>\n

Questa persona si vede come un re, mentre tutti gli altri sono solo suoi servitori. Il mondo gira intorno a lui.<\/p>\n

These people lack empathy and think they have the full right to do whatever they want, without taking other people\u2019s opinions or feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

Non solo, a causa della sua mancanza di empatia, un narcisista riesce sempre a giustificare le sue cattive azioni.<\/p>\n

He finds excuses for his toxic behavior and doesn\u2019t have trouble forgiving himself, since he doesn’t have the ability to observe things from your point of view.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, si aspetta che anche il resto del mondo sia tollerante nei confronti delle sue azioni. Secondo lui, qualsiasi cosa faccia, merita sempre una grazia.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, he is extremely judgmental when it comes to others \u2013 especially when it comes to his romantic partner.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che fate viene osservato al microscopio. Ogni vostro errore viene sezionato, discusso e analizzato fino in fondo.<\/p>\n

This man holds you accountable for all the wrong choices you\u2019ve ever made. On the other hand, if he happens to do exactly the same thing, he doesn\u2019t go so hard on himself.<\/p>\n

Infatti, si aspetta comprensione e gentilezza, nonostante lui non dia mai lo stesso in cambio.<\/p>\n

Essere un camaleonte<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Another one of the weird things narcissists are capable of is to transform into whoever they want. And no, I\u2019m not talking about this in a good way.<\/p>\n

Of course, one\u2019s adaption skills are quite significant \u2013 they give you the possibility of hanging out with different people and chase away one\u2019s fears.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that most of the people with NDP are actually skilled actors, which can be extremely dangerous for your relationship.<\/p>\n

After all, whenever you hear about cases of domestic violence, you think of yourself \u2013 that the abuser seemed like a nice guy and you can\u2019t believe the accusations against him.<\/p>\n

You wonder how this sociopath in disguise tricked the entire world into considering him a high-value man, even though he can\u2019t be further from one.<\/p>\n

Well, narcissists are usually chameleons. They don\u2019t go around acting like abusatori<\/a> since they\u2019re extremely careful about their reputation and the public image they present.<\/p>\n

Instead, at first sight, these people are usually perceived as the kindest and the most polite human beings you\u2019ve ever met.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re masters at putting on a mask of a decent man and pretending to be someone they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

However, when they come home, they usually turn into real-life beasts. A narcissist knows that his victim is head over heels for him so he doesn\u2019t have any more need for false pretenses.<\/p>\n

Now, he is safe to show you his worst sides. Nobody could ever connect these two personalities with each other \u2013 and there is exactly where lies their magical ability.<\/p>\n

You know how there are some parts of you you simply can\u2019t hide, even if you tried? Some aspects of your personality that always swim to the surface and you can\u2019t control it?<\/p>\n

Well, that is where you\u2019re similar to the rest of the world.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, mentre il narcisista cerca di conquistarvi, ha un senso di autocontrollo cos\u00ec forte che pu\u00f2 nascondere tutto ci\u00f2 che vuole di s\u00e9 e reinventare la sua persona.<\/p>\n

Annullare l'altra persona<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Come \u00e8 gi\u00e0 stato detto, un altro dei sintomi del loro disturbo \u00e8 che i narcisisti si considerano la cosa pi\u00f9 importante al mondo.<\/p>\n

Si aspettano che gli altri vedano e sappiano quanto sono speciali e unici.<\/p>\n

According to them, the entire universe revolves around them. They\u2019re always the number one priority and everyone else comes behind them.<\/p>\n

Sebbene possa sembrare solo un caso di alta autostima, in realt\u00e0 \u00e8 una parte del loro disturbo mentale e un tratto che causa problemi in tutte le loro relazioni, comprese quelle sentimentali.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that when you\u2019re in an relazione abusiva<\/a> con qualcuno che soffre di NPD, si cessa di esistere come il proprio vero s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

According to his views, you\u2019re no longer an individual with your own personality, best friends, family, interests, dreams, fears, hopes\u2026<\/p>\n

Invece, il vostro unico ruolo in questo mondo \u00e8 quello di partner romantico. Siete state mandate in questo mondo per compiacerlo e come strumento per fargli ottenere ci\u00f2 che vuole.<\/p>\n

Il punto \u00e8 che questo tipo di persona non riconoscer\u00e0 mai voi o le vostre emozioni, che \u00e8 anche una forma di abuso narcisistico<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quando c'\u00e8 qualcosa che ti riguarda, lui ha qualcosa di pi\u00f9 importante a cui tutti devono prestare attenzione.<\/p>\n

For example, when you talk to this person about your problems or tell him you\u2019re feeling bad, he\u2019ll never put any energy in trying to help you.<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll immediately turn the tables and make it all about him. He\u2019ll start talking about a similar situation he was once in, or connect what you\u2019re going through with something he experienced.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, il punto \u00e8 che egli annulla la sua vittima. Cerca di cancellare la loro individualit\u00e0 e il suo obiettivo finale \u00e8 il loro omicidio spirituale.<\/p>\n

Stalking e spionaggio<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 inquietante dell'essere coinvolti con un narcisista \u00e8 la sua possessivo<\/a> e la natura gelosa.<\/p>\n

And we\u2019re not talking of the normal jealous because someone cares for you a lot and obviously can\u2019t stay immune to picturing you next to someone else.<\/p>\n

Con una personalit\u00e0 narcisistica, la gelosia fa parte del loro disturbo e di solito va oltre la vostra comprensione.<\/p>\n

Il nucleo del loro comportamento possessivo risiede in due cose principali: il desiderio di controllo e i problemi di fiducia.<\/p>\n

Prima di tutto, queste persone hanno un bisogno incontrollabile di avere sempre il controllo su tutti gli aspetti della loro e della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

They deny your right to privacy and things as boundaries and personal space don\u2019t exist for them.<\/p>\n

Secondly, we all think that the rest of the world is just like us. Therefore, a narcissist knowing that he can\u2019t be trusted, expects everyone else, including you to be the same.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he usually engages in things such as spying and stalking. Yes, you heard it right: This is not just something you only see in the movies.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Un narcisista dettagliato sceglie la sua potenziale vittima molto prima di avvicinarla per la prima volta.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll spend some time stalking her and trying to collect as much information about her as possible.<\/p>\n

Lo stalking continua anche dopo la rottura. Segue ogni vostra mossa, \u00e8 ossessionato dai vostri post sui social media e infastidisce persino le persone pi\u00f9 care.<\/p>\n

When it comes to spying, it usually takes place during your narcissistic relationship and often includes techniques and equipment you don\u2019t even know exist.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised if you find out that your narcissistic partner has put cameras all around your apartment or found a way to listen in on your phone conversations.<\/p>\n

These are the people who will hack your social media profiles, snoop through your phone while you\u2019re sleeping, or even get someone to intentionally flirt with you just to check your fidelity.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that you don\u2019t have to give your narcissist a reason to doubt you in order for him to start behaving like this. It\u2019s just a part of who he is and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Identificazione proiettiva<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un tratto comune della personalit\u00e0 narcisistica si chiama proiezione. In effetti, l'identificazione proiettiva \u00e8 il loro meccanismo di difesa numero uno.<\/p>\n

No, they don\u2019t use this projection as a way to defend themselves from you since you\u2019re not the one attacking them.<\/p>\n

Invece, la usano per proteggersi dai propri impulsi e dalle parti nascoste del loro carattere.<\/p>\n

A un certo livello della loro coscienza, i narcisisti sanno chi sono. Sanno di avere almeno alcune parti negative della loro personalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

However, they do their best to escape those aspects of themselves. In fact, they repress it to the point that they start pretending that they\u2019re not there.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, il problema sorge quando una persona narcisista inizia ad accusare la sua vittima di avere quegli impulsi che cerca di nascondere su di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Quando un narcisista proietta le sue cattive qualit\u00e0 su qualcun altro e inizia a odiarlo per avere questi tratti immaginari.<\/p>\n

Basically, if your narcissist is an abuser, this is something he can\u2019t accept about himself.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, \u00e8 probabile che vi accusi di essere violenti, anche se \u00e8 l'unico a mostrare tendenze violente nel suo comportamento.<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per la fedelt\u00e0. Se il narcisista \u00e8 infedele<\/a>, it\u2019s not uncommon for him to accuse you of the same. If he hates himself or you, he\u2019ll constantly accuse you of hating him, and so on.<\/p>\n

Il gioco delle colpe<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Un'altra delle cose strane che i narcisisti sanno fare cos\u00ec bene \u00e8 il gioco della colpa.<\/p>\n

A big problem with these people is that they literally have no sense of responsibility, which is also a red flag that you’re dealing with a psicopatico<\/a>.<\/p>\n

According to them, they\u2019re never guilty for anything happening to them or around them.<\/p>\n

In fact, when they\u2019re in a relationship, the other person is always responsible for everything going downhill, while they\u2019re the ones who should be praised for the relationship\u2019s successes.<\/p>\n

Narcissists don\u2019t know how to apologize sincerely.<\/p>\n

In fact, even when they at some point act like they\u2019re ready to take responsibility, they turn the tables soon enough and make you look like the bad guy in the story.<\/p>\n

Anche se un narcisista ottiene fisicamente violento<\/a> with you and has no other way of getting back into your life but to own up to his mistakes and promise he\u2019ll never repeat them again, don\u2019t expect to get a real apology.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll probably try to blame you for provoking him. You were either too loud, you didn\u2019t know when to stop arguing, or you told him something you knew would trigger him.<\/p>\n

The same goes for infidelity as well. Even if you catch him red-handed and he has no other choice but to admit his error, he\u2019ll use reverse psychology and make you guilty for his actions.<\/p>\n

He might tell you that he had doubts about your fidelity or that you weren\u2019t giving him enough attention. Practically, either way, you made him do it.<\/p>\n

A narcissist has this need to always be the victim of every possible situation. He\u2019s not mature enough to stand any kind of judgment or to take responsibility for his actions.<\/p>\n

Instead, for him, it\u2019s much easier to shift the blame to others and pretends to be perfect.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, il problema \u00e8 che dopo un po' la sua vittima inizia a credergli.<\/p>\n

He brainwashes you into thinking that you\u2019re always the only one guilty, which makes it almost impossible for you to leave the cage he\u2019s put you in.<\/p>\n

Ricatto emotivo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Narcissists are the biggest blackmailers in this world. No, they\u2019re not the ones who will kidnap your loved one and ask for ransom (although you shouldn\u2019t put it past them.)<\/p>\n

Ogni narcisista usa ricatto emotivo<\/a> come strumento di successo contro la sua vittima. Sapete gi\u00e0 che scelgono chi attaccare con molta attenzione e scrutano le loro vittime prima di avvicinarle.<\/p>\n

Well, it\u2019s quite unlikely that a narcissist will pick a heartless victim with a lack of empathy. They don\u2019t choose selfish people with high self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Instead, they\u2019ll always focus on empaths with insecurity problems. Therefore, if a narcissist is involved with you, he is perfectly aware that you\u2019re an emotional person who is mostly led by her feelings.<\/p>\n

So, he uses this trait of yours against you. He threatens you, has anger outbursts, and does everything in his power to intimidate you every time he doesn\u2019t get his way.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you start to feel fear, obligation, and guilt \u2013 often referred to as FOG.<\/p>\n

No, this man doesn\u2019t care that you\u2019re no longer with him out of your sincere love for him, he uses FOG to manipulate you into staying with him.<\/p>\n

Emotional blackmail doesn\u2019t only happen when you try leaving your narcissist.<\/p>\n

\"vetro<\/p>\n

Vi ricatta anche quando decidete di condividere la vostra versione della storia con qualcuno nel tentativo di liberarvi dalle sue catene.<\/p>\n

Le minacce sono diverse da persona a persona.<\/p>\n

While some narcissists tell you that they\u2019ll turn your life into a living hell if you don\u2019t do what they say, some threaten to make a huge scandal or drama and embarrass you in front of everyone.<\/p>\n

Ci sono anche quelli con strategie di ricatto pi\u00f9 serie. Quelli che minacciano di farvi del male fisico se li lasciate o promettono di farsi del male se ve ne andate.<\/p>\n

Naturally, when this group is in question, you can\u2019t help but feel FOG.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re afraid that your narcissist will turn his threats into reality, you feel obliged to be with him since you\u2019re the only one who can prevent him from doing something bad, and at the end of the day, the overwhelming guilt prevents you from turning your back on him.<\/p>\n

Consciously, you know that he wouldn\u2019t do anything to hurt himself. However, there is always that tiny voice in the back of your head, wondering: \u201cWhat if he really goes through with it?\u201d<\/p>\n

You know you couldn\u2019t live with such a huge responsibility \u2013 you\u2019d still consider yourself guilty for his actions, instead of realizing that this is a person who has a personality disorder and needs help.<\/p>\n

Sabotaggio<\/h2>\n

\"stress<\/p>\n

Quando si guardano le favole o le telenovele smielate, si vede che il cattivo \u00e8 pronto a fare qualsiasi cosa pur di creare un problema al protagonista.<\/p>\n

Si nascondono alle loro spalle e ricorrono all'inimmaginabile.<\/p>\n

Of course, you assume that this only happens in the movies. After all, who would go that far and through all of that trouble just to ruin another person\u2019s life?<\/p>\n

Ebbene, quando si ha a che fare con una persona che soffre di disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0, ci si accorge che tutti questi intrighi sono in realt\u00e0 piuttosto realistici.<\/p>\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che i narcisisti spesso si comportano come i cattivi dei film. Fingono di amarvi, ma in realt\u00e0 fanno di tutto per sabotarvi in tutti i modi possibili.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll give their best to destroy all of your other healthy relationships. They will spread gossip about you to your best friends, play double games, and lie in every chance they get.<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per il lavoro.<\/p>\n

Il vostro partner narcisista \u00e8 capace di nascondervi la posta importante, di rompere letteralmente il computer che vi serve per il vostro progetto o di chiamare anonimamente il vostro datore di lavoro per lamentarsi del vostro lavoro.<\/p>\n

Credetemi, la matrigna cattiva di tutte le favole non ha nulla da invidiare a un narcisista determinato a sabotare la sua vittima.<\/p>\n

However, he doesn\u2019t do this only when you try to go nessun contatto<\/a> e lasciarlo.<\/p>\n

In fact, a narcissist behaves like this during your relationship since it\u2019s his way of forming stronger emotional codependency.<\/p>\n

Illuminazione a gas<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

Gaslighting is one of those weird things narcissists (and other people) do that you\u2019ve probably heard of.<\/p>\n

Per farla breve, gaslighting<\/a> significa giocare con la vostra testa e la vostra salute mentale, cosa che i narcisisti si divertono a fare e che \u00e8 un altro dei sintomi del loro disturbo.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a tactic every narcissistic person uses in attempts to control your world.<\/p>\n

You see, for a sociopath like this, it\u2019s not enough to have absolute control over everything going on around you, he wants to be in charge of all events taking place inside of you as well.<\/p>\n

Quando ti illumina, il narcisista ti fa il lavaggio del cervello per farti credere a lui pi\u00f9 di quanto tu creda ai tuoi occhi, alle tue orecchie e ai tuoi istinti.<\/p>\n

Ti fa credere che la sua percezione della realt\u00e0 sia l'unica di cui ti devi fidare e che devi seguire.<\/p>\n

For example, when you\u2019re being gaslighted, your abuser will often accuse you of imagining things, for overreacting or exaggerating, which of course impacts your mental health.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

However, the suffering doesn\u2019t end there. In fact, he will probably try to convince you that some things didn\u2019t happen the way they did, even though you were there to experience them.<\/p>\n

Un narcisista maligno distorce i fatti e li interpreta nel modo a lui pi\u00f9 congeniale.<\/p>\n

This is especially true when it comes to you complaining about the treatment you\u2019ve been getting in your toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you’re not in an abusive relationship, you\u2019re being too sensitive, or you\u2019re too weak. He is not unfaithful, you\u2019re the one who is overly paranoid or jealous.<\/p>\n

Naturally, at first, you don\u2019t believe him. However, after a while, your narcissist skilfully manages to distort your reality.<\/p>\n

Dopo un po' di tempo, iniziate a sentirvi persi e a chiedervi se siete davvero voi i pazzi.<\/p>\n

Con il gaslighting delle loro vittime, i narcisisti fanno del loro meglio per esaurirle mentalmente fino al punto in cui non hanno pi\u00f9 la forza di affrontarle.<\/p>\n

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