{"id":87090,"date":"2020-08-14T07:34:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T07:34:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=87090"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:57:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:57:38","slug":"le-confessioni-che-vorrei-fare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-confessioni-che-vorrei-fare\/","title":{"rendered":"7 confessioni sincere che vorrei poter fare al mio ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are things I\u2019d like to share with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/messages\/letters-for-him\/letter-ex-ill-never-send\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">il mio ex<\/a>, but I can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that I\u2019m not brave enough to tell him everything that\u2019s on my mind. It\u2019s just that I believe that him knowing about all this is unnecessary and can only cause me more pain.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe there will be time for a perfect closure where I\u2019ll be able to tell him everything, but for now, I\u2019ll open my heart and soul to you.<\/p>\n<p>This is what I\u2019d like to confess to him when the time is right:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Volevo che tu fossi ferito come lo sono stato io<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87106\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-with-red-top.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top rosso seduta sul davanzale della finestra che guarda il suo anello\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-with-red-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-with-red-top-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-with-red-top-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I sometimes pretended that I wanted nothing but the best for you, but I secretly wished that you\u2019d feel as heartbroken as I was.<\/p>\n<p>Era insopportabile per me pensare che tu stessi bene mentre io mi sentivo come se il mio mondo stesse per finire. Tutto faceva cos\u00ec male e speravo che anche tu ti sentissi cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that I usually like to see you in any pain, it\u2019s just that would have been proof for me that our love meant something to you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">On one level, I\u2019ll always be available to you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87109\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-in-red-cap.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna con berretto rosso seduta all&#039;interno di un caff\u00e8 che guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-in-red-cap.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-in-red-cap-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-in-red-cap-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll never again be available to you in the sense I was before, but there\u2019s a part of me that\u2019ll always be weak to your voice, appearance, smell\u2026 your existence.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll never be an irrelevant person for me, no matter how distant we\u2019ve grown and how many years might pass.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t be waiting for you, but I can\u2019t guarantee to myself that I\u2019d never get back together with you in certain circumstances.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">I\u2019m still not completely fine with us not being together<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87111\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/focused-face-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"volto concentrato di una donna confusa con una mano sulla testa\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/focused-face-of-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/focused-face-of-a-woman-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/focused-face-of-a-woman-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve moved on with my life, but it felt awful that our relationship ended and I never completely recovered from that.<\/p>\n<p>Abbiamo condiviso cos\u00ec tanto e per un po' ho creduto davvero che tu fossi quello giusto.<\/p>\n<p>Even after all this time apart, I\u2019m still not perfectly okay with not being by your side and being able to call myself your girlfriend.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Still, I think that we weren\u2019t meant to be<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87120\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-lying-down.jpg\" alt=\"donna sdraiata con in mano un cellulare nokia vecchio modello\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-lying-down.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-lying-down-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-lying-down-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even with that, I\u2019m almost certain that I was <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/e-per-questo-che-continui-a-tenerti-stretto-colui-che-non-era-destinato-ad-essere-tuo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mai destinato ad essere tuo<\/a> forever. There\u2019s something inside my head that tells me you were never the one for me.<\/p>\n<p>Quella voce a volte mi parlava anche quando stavamo insieme e io l'ho messa a tacere, e ora la uso come consolazione quando sto male per la nostra rottura.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t put a finger on what it was, but something was always missing.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">I don\u2019t really miss you, I miss me when I was with you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87128\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-black-dress.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito nero di fronte allo specchio con aria triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-black-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-black-dress-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-black-dress-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t really say that I miss having you in my life in a traditional way such as spending time together and doing all the things we did.<\/p>\n<p>What I miss most is the person I was when you were there. I was excited, cheerful, happy\u2026 You made me feel so many wonderful emotions and I miss them all.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mi ritrovo a pensare a te e lo detesto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87134\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-woman-facing-the-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"Donna pensierosa di fronte al computer portatile in ufficio di notte\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-woman-facing-the-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-woman-facing-the-laptop-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-woman-facing-the-laptop-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Penso a te in modo casuale e questo mi infastidisce. Questi pensieri appaiono dal nulla e mi turbano sempre.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t wish to forget about you, you played an important role in my life. Still, I wish I would think of you less often and not feel your presence all the time.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Spero sinceramente che troviate la felicit\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87141\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-wearing-bonnet.jpg\" alt=\"donna con cuffia che guarda la telecamera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-wearing-bonnet.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-wearing-bonnet-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-wearing-bonnet-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, after everything that happened between us in the past, I can honestly say I don\u2019t wish you any kind of misfortune or pain.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d be truly happy if I knew you\u2019d found <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/messages\/storie\/felicita-non-sentire-la-scelta\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">felicit\u00e0<\/a> in tutti gli aspetti della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t say that finding out you\u2019d found a perfect girl or got married wouldn\u2019t sting for a bit, but I believe that\u2019s perfectly normal.<\/p>\n<p><em>Spero sinceramente che tutti i sogni di cui mi hai parlato si avverino e che tu non dimentichi mai la ragazza con cui li hai condivisi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87148\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Honest-Confessions-I-Wish-I-Could-Make-To-My-Ex-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 confessioni sincere che vorrei poter fare al mio ex\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Honest-Confessions-I-Wish-I-Could-Make-To-My-Ex-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Honest-Confessions-I-Wish-I-Could-Make-To-My-Ex-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Honest-Confessions-I-Wish-I-Could-Make-To-My-Ex-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Honest-Confessions-I-Wish-I-Could-Make-To-My-Ex-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are things I\u2019d like to share with my ex, but I can\u2019t. It\u2019s not that I\u2019m not brave enough to tell him everything that\u2019s on my mind. It\u2019s just that I believe that him knowing about all this is unnecessary and can only cause me more pain. Maybe there will be time for a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":87144,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-87090","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Honest-Confessions-I-Wish-I-Could-Make-To-My-Ex.jpg",800,507,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87090","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=87090"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87090\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/87144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=87090"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=87090"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=87090"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}