{"id":87327,"date":"2020-08-13T20:51:24","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:51:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=87327"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:35:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:35:28","slug":"la-mia-anima-merita-la-pace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-mia-anima-merita-la-pace\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti perdono perch\u00e9 la mia anima merita la pace"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Come si fa a perdonare qualcuno che ha preso tutto il tuo amore e poi lo ha usato contro di te?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo tipo di tradimento \u00e8 qualcosa che ti segna per tutta la vita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ero ingenua, ma amavo con tutto il cuore. Non ho mai pensato alle cose che mi dicevi perch\u00e9 ero cos\u00ec infatuata.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I was wrong to do so, but I couldn\u2019t resist the way you made me feel. I thought we had something special, but I guess it was just another game for you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019ll never understand people who play with other people\u2019s emotions like it\u2019s just something harmless.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019ll never understand that something that means the world to one person is just a fling for another.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-87330 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-lying-on-plank.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top nero sdraiata su tavola marrone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-lying-on-plank.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-lying-on-plank-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-lying-on-plank-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sei stata la prima persona che ho lasciato entrare nel mio cuore. Lo stesso cuore che aveva paura di far entrare qualcuno dopo di te.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The same heart that was broken into a million pieces because you couldn\u2019t be the man you said you were.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The whole thing caused me deep pain and I didn\u2019t understand what was happening to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il mio mondo \u00e8 stato distrutto e tutto ci\u00f2 che sapevo ha smesso di avere senso.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ero innamorato di un <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/i-veri-uomini-proteggono-le-loro-donne-non-le-maltrattano\/\"><b>uomo che ha abusato di me<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Looking back, I don\u2019t understand why I didn\u2019t see it right away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Le donne innamorate possono essere cos\u00ec cieche. Tolleriamo cos\u00ec tanto e troviamo scuse fino a diventare deliranti. Tutto in nome dell'amore.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only years after do we realize how wrong everything was but by then it\u2019s too late.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Purtroppo ci sono tante persone che scambiano l'infatuazione e la passione per amore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-87331 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-12.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi all&#039;aperto durante il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-12.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-12-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoor-12-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. Love isn\u2019t possessive like you were and it doesn\u2019t make demands like you did.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Mi hai fatto credere che i pezzi del cosiddetto amore che mi hai dato fossero il tutto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Mi hai fatto credere che il dolore deve far parte dell'amore. Quanto \u00e8 assurdo?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ora le cose sono diverse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'illusione \u00e8 finita e finalmente vedo le cose come sono.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019re not some extraordinary being that found his way to my life through mysterious ways as I believed before. No.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019re just a hurt man with no capacity to love because you can\u2019t love yourself. You\u2019re the one who\u2019s lost.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s not my fault. It never was. I can\u2019t help you if you can\u2019t help yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-87332 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-grass-field-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con cappello nero in piedi su un prato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-grass-field-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-grass-field-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-grass-field-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>That\u2019s the lesson I choose to learn from you: To <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/amore-sufficiente-per-noi\/\"><b>amare me stesso<\/b><\/a><b>. Non permettere a nessuno e a niente di cambiarlo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Per farlo, prima devo perdonare.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Devo perdonare me stessa per averti permesso di giocare con il mio cuore e devo perdonare te per guarire quello stesso cuore spezzato.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho bisogno di perdonarti per essere finalmente in pace, perch\u00e9 me lo merito.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Merito di sentirmi in pace e di andare avanti con la mia vita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Merito di guarire.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Merito di sentirmi di nuovo completa e di accogliere qualcosa di nuovo e migliore nella mia vita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m ready for it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-87333 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-20.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta su una roccia grigia che guarda la montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-20.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-20-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-rock-20-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tutte le cose che mi sono successe avranno un senso alla fine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t have it all figured out, but I\u2019m not scared.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All I know is that I\u2019m finally taking control of my own life. <\/span><b>I have the strength to move on and I\u2019m not letting this feeling slip away.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nobody has the control of my heart but me and for once I\u2019m happy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m happy you didn\u2019t turn me into something I\u2019m not.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m happy I chose to listen to myself in the end.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now I know what love isn\u2019t and for that I\u2019m grateful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From now on \u2013 only <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/true-love\/coupled-up\/9-segni-di-vero-amore-uomo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amore vero <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">volont\u00e0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> raggiungere il mio cuore. Solo l'uomo che mi accetta cos\u00ec come sono e mi custodisce sentir\u00e0 la grandezza del mio amore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I was always a lover and now I know I\u2019m a fighter, too \u2013&nbsp; because I saved myself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-87695 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/I-Forgive-You-Because-My-Soul-Deserves-Peace-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ti perdono perch\u00e9 la mia anima merita la pace\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/I-Forgive-You-Because-My-Soul-Deserves-Peace-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/I-Forgive-You-Because-My-Soul-Deserves-Peace-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/I-Forgive-You-Because-My-Soul-Deserves-Peace-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/I-Forgive-You-Because-My-Soul-Deserves-Peace-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do you forgive someone who took all your love and then used it against you? That kind of betrayal is something that scars you for life. I was naive but I loved with all my heart. I never second-guessed the things you said to me because I was so infatuated. I was wrong to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":87329,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-87327","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/I-Forgive-You-Because-My-Soul-Deserves-Peace.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87327","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=87327"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87327\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/87329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=87327"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=87327"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=87327"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}