{"id":87405,"date":"2020-09-08T06:42:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T06:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=87405"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:10:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:10:07","slug":"il-vero-amore-non-scappa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-vero-amore-non-scappa\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ti inseguir\u00f2 perch\u00e9 il vero amore non scappa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 semplice. Quelli che ci vogliono resteranno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non solo resteranno, ma si impegneranno continuamente per farci sentire desiderati e amati.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni sono complicate, ma almeno una cosa \u00e8 chiara: se si ama una persona, ci si assicura che lo sappia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you need to chase a man to prove something to him, then you\u2019re better off without him. It\u2019s painful, but it\u2019s the truth.<\/p>\n

I already made this mistake and now I\u2019m set on never making it again.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why I ever thought that was a good idea; I guess I was infatuated. Believe me, it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

L'impulso che sentite di mandargli un messaggio o di chiamarlo deve essere sostituito da qualcos'altro.<\/p>\n

Ora ho qualcosa da dirgli, per sfogarmi.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Il mio quasi amore, o quello che diavolo eri,<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve my care, my attention, or my love. I tried so hard to reach your heart but you wouldn\u2019t let me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know what made you close off \u2013 I was a safe place, a person you could trust.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not mad at you for that. I\u2019m mad you never made things clear. You treated me like an option and that\u2019s pure disrespect.<\/p>\n

Vorrei che tu sapessi quanto mi sono sentito sminuito. Soprattutto dopo aver riversato tutta la mia attenzione, speranza e amore su di te.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I could have saved that for someone else who actually cared. I lost my energy and my time \u2013 for what? A man who couldn\u2019t make a simple decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know what\u2019s happening in your head because you never say anything and I can\u2019t read your mind, so I guess you simply do not care.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

That hurts me to the core of my being \u2013 but enough is enough.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done being someone\u2019s maybe and sometimes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done disrespecting myself for the sake of something that isn\u2019t even love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

True love doesn\u2019t leave you hanging. It doesn\u2019t make you spend your nights crying and wondering about what you possibly could have done wrong.<\/p>\n

I did nothing wrong at all \u2013 except make you my priority.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Life\u2019s too short for waiting on a call that might never happen.<\/p>\n

Life\u2019s too short for accepting less than you deserve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You taught me that and I won\u2019t even say thank you because you wouldn\u2019t get it.<\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

You\u2019re clueless of what\u2019s valuable and what matters. You chase only temporary things that give you nothing but disappointment yet you\u2019re too blind to see it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re only deepening your wound.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Too bad I didn\u2019t see that earlier. I should\u2019ve known by the way you acted with me in public or the way you took way too much time to respond to a simple message.<\/p>\n

Trovavo sempre il modo di giustificarti, ma ora so che era una cosa stupida da fare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019re grown people who are capable of making decisions. If you wanted to let me know what you want, you would\u2019ve done so.<\/p>\n

Luckily, I don\u2019t shy away from making decisions. That\u2019s why I\u2019ve decided to put my values, goals, and dreams first.<\/p>\n

And I won\u2019t put up with anything less.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t even want much besides respect and love, but first, I need to give these to myself.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve decided to respect myself and that\u2019s exactly why I\u2019ve stopped chasing you. I deserve better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Merito di un uomo con intenzioni chiare e determinazione. Un uomo che mi mostri cos'\u00e8 il vero amore.<\/p>\n

He exists and he\u2019s waiting for me. This is my first step to my new self.<\/p>\n

Un nuovo amore far\u00e0 sembrare tutto il resto lontano e senza importanza. Compreso voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I hope that someday you will realize what you\u2019ve missed, but until then, there\u2019s a long way to go.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, I will learn to enjoy everything that life prepares for me and never waste a minute waiting for a man who doesn\u2019t see what\u2019s inside of me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have to prove myself to anyone. Those who deserve me see my true nature and allow me to be me.<\/p>\n

I deserve to be who I am without fearing that someone will get bored of me or I won\u2019t be good enough.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m always good enough because the love I give is true.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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It\u2019s simple. The ones that want us will stay. Not only they will stay, but they will make a continuous effort to make us feel wanted and loved. Relationships are complicated, but at least one thing about them is clear: If you love a person, you make damn sure they know it. If you need…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":98025,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-87405","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/I-Wont-Chase-You-Because-True-Love-Doesnt-Run-Away.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87405","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=87405"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87405\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=87405"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=87405"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=87405"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}