Ti addolora vederlo girare in tondo facendo del male a se stesso e a te.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019ve tried over and over again but nothing\u2019s ever happened.<\/p>\n It\u2019s soul-crushing to know that you can\u2019t help or change the person you love.<\/strong><\/p>\n The same person who doesn\u2019t love himself because he chooses destructive behavior instead of healing.<\/p>\n Gli esseri umani hanno una natura che crea dipendenza. Per alcune persone, anche la negativit\u00e0 crea dipendenza.<\/strong><\/p>\n Negativity comes in many shapes and forms. Sometimes it\u2019s toxic behavior, sometimes it is constantly criticizing, sometimes it\u2019s thoughts of despair.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, there\u2019s just so much you can do.<\/p>\n What\u2019s worse, often you want to help him but he refuses and hurts you in the process.<\/p>\n That\u2019s when you know that the wounds are too deep and you\u2019re neither a doctor nor a psychologist.<\/p>\n I\u2019m almost sure you\u2019ve done everything there is to change the situation but you\u2019ve failed every single time.<\/strong><\/p>\n Anche quando si pensava che le cose andassero meglio, si \u00e8 scoperto che era solo una cosa temporanea.<\/p>\n That\u2019s no way to live.<\/p>\n Per fare progressi, la prima persona che deve impegnarsi \u00e8 lui, non voi.<\/p>\n Constantly thinking about the well-being of another person makes us miserable in the end because we don\u2019t have time for ourselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n Non si pu\u00f2 ottenere nulla da due persone squilibrate che cercano di mantenere viva una relazione.<\/p>\n If there\u2019s nothing to give \u2013 it\u2019s not a relationship.<\/p>\n By holding onto something that\u2019s already dead you\u2019re stopping yourself from experiencing happiness. Don\u2019t let it slip through your fingers.<\/strong><\/p>\n La felicit\u00e0 favorisce i coraggiosi.<\/strong> Siate coraggiosi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n He won\u2019t change. You won\u2019t change that fact.<\/p>\n It\u2019s better to move on and let him fight his own battles. In the end, he has to help himself.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sometimes the problem is exactly the fact that you let him count on you all the time. That\u2019s a sign of a dependent relationship \u2013 and that leads nowhere.<\/p>\n In order to make a change in life, everyone has to give up something. If he\u2019s not ready now, he might never be.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t sit and wait for better days. Why should you when you can actively live them?<\/strong><\/p>\n Sometimes life isn\u2019t a wild sea that throws you around, sometimes it\u2019s just your emotions you haven\u2019t learned to control.<\/strong><\/p>\n Not everything is possible to control \u2013 but with a strong will, it\u2019s possible to optimize almost everything in your life including feelings and relationships.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t rob yourself of happiness. Let go of what refuses to change. Don\u2019t be the victim of circumstances and other people\u2019s decisions.<\/strong><\/p>\n Not everything is as it seems now. You will move on. Things will get better. You\u2019ll meet new people and life will go on.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t do the same thing he\u2019s doing \u2013 don\u2019t be afraid to make a change. Step into your power and decide how you want to live your life.<\/p>\n La prima cosa da fare \u00e8 smettere di incolpare se stessi per le colpe degli altri.<\/strong><\/p>\n La seconda cosa \u00e8 credere di poter fare meglio.<\/p>\n You can do what you set your mind to. Learn from other people\u2019s mistakes and don\u2019t give up.<\/strong><\/p>\n L'unica cosa che impedisce a una persona di crescere \u00e8 l'incapacit\u00e0 di adattarsi e di cambiare, unita a una bassa autostima.<\/p>\n Tutte queste cose sono risolvibili se lo si vuole.<\/p>\n Nel momento in cui si realizza questo, ci si libera.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIf you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.\u201d<\/em> \u2013 Maya Angelou<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve ever been in this situation you know how hard it is. You spend so much time together, you know the deepest part of each other, but something isn\u2019t right and you just can\u2019t ignore it anymore. 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