{"id":8750,"date":"2020-12-01T13:46:44","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T13:46:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8750"},"modified":"2022-01-28T11:51:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T11:51:05","slug":"non-inseguire-se-non-sei-pronto-a-catturare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-inseguire-se-non-sei-pronto-a-catturare\/","title":{"rendered":"Non inseguirmi se non sei pronto a prendermi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tutti gli SMS, i video e le telefonate hanno un grande significato per me. \u00c8 vero, ma non significano nulla se per te sono un gioco.<\/p>\n<p>Continui a dirmi quanto sono speciale, straordinaria e intelligente. Vorrei davvero crederci, ma non mi avete ancora dimostrato che lo sono.<\/p>\n<p>Non hai ancora guadagnato la mia fiducia che non te ne andrai come tutti gli altri ragazzi. Devo essere sicura che <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/anonymous\/2016\/11\/my-love-you-are-worth-fighting-for\/\" rel=\"noopener\">sei degno del mio amore.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need you to be a stop along the way, I don\u2019t need another short affair. <strong>I\u2019m ready to reach my destination and I\u2019m ready for you to be it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But I don\u2019t think I can handle another playful game with my heart and my feelings. I don\u2019t think I\u2019ll survive another disappointment.<\/p>\n<p>E mi merito qualcuno che mi tenga a cuore e mi ami. Merito di qualcuno che mi prenda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121959 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"una giovane coppia di innamorati che si abbraccia all&#039;aperto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-young-loving-couple-hugging-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, please, stop making me fall in love. Stop promising me fairy tales and happy endings, stop making me believe that we have something, if we have nothing. I\u2019m just a human being.<\/p>\n<p>I have hopes, I have dreams and I have feelings. Feelings that are not yours to play with. I have been broken many times and I don\u2019t need you to drop me as well and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-lhai-solo-spezzata\/\">break what\u2019s left of me<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno che tu mi stringa forte, che mi aiuti a incollare tutti questi pezzi insieme.<\/p>\n<p>You see, I\u2019ve been through a lot; I\u2019ve been bended to breaking point, I have been manipulated, cheated on and intoxicated by people I believed were all the right one.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ho un sacco di bagagli con me, sogni e speranze infranti, ossa rotte e un cuore segnato.<\/strong> E mi rendo conto che questo vi terrorizza.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, per favore, comprendetemi quando vi chiedo di andarvene, perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/117800-7-signs-youre-not-ready-for-a-relationship-any-time-soon\" rel=\"noopener\">I don\u2019t know if you\u2019re ready for all of this.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121962 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo e una bionda si lasciano su una panchina del parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-blonde-break-up-on-a-park-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I understand that sometimes, no matter how much you love someone, they just can&#8217;t love you back in the same way. Being in a such relationship is way lonelier than being alone.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t turn out to be another cup of loneliness in my life. I wish you would leave now, before I fall for you completely. Before I give in to you all the way. I\u2019d understand if you did.<\/p>\n<p>Ma tu continui a inseguirmi. Continui a promettermi anni di amore, per poi andartene la settimana successiva e tornare dopo un mese. Mi prometti tutto il tuo sostegno, <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/marisa-donnelly\/2016\/07\/i-forgive-you-for-leaving-me-when-i-needed-you-the-most\/\" rel=\"noopener\">solo per lasciarmi in sospeso quando ho pi\u00f9 bisogno di te.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t do this anymore. So, please, stop chasing me unless you\u2019re ready to catch me. I can\u2019t keep fighting for us, when it feels like I\u2019m the only one fighting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I can\u2019t keep walking in circles around all those damn walls you built in the hope that you\u2019d let me in. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>At some point, you have to make a decision, because walls don&#8217;t keep other people out, they fence you in.<\/strong> Ti ho lasciato entrare, perch\u00e9 mi sembrava giusto. Quando farai lo stesso?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121966 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dont-Chase-Me-Unless-Youre-Ready-To-Catch-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non inseguirmi se non sei pronto a prendermi\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dont-Chase-Me-Unless-Youre-Ready-To-Catch-Me-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dont-Chase-Me-Unless-Youre-Ready-To-Catch-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dont-Chase-Me-Unless-Youre-Ready-To-Catch-Me-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dont-Chase-Me-Unless-Youre-Ready-To-Catch-Me-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dont-Chase-Me-Unless-Youre-Ready-To-Catch-Me-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All those text messages, all those video and phone calls, they mean a great deal to me. They do, it\u2019s just they mean nothing if they\u2019re a game to you. You keep telling me how special, amazing and smart I am. I really want to believe that, but you have yet to prove to me&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121952,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dont-Chase-Me-Unless-Youre-Ready-To-Catch-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8750","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8750"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8750\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121952"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8750"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8750"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8750"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}