{"id":88334,"date":"2020-08-14T08:00:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88334"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:55:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:55:16","slug":"ho-fatto-il-filo-al-mio-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ho-fatto-il-filo-al-mio-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Ho cercato il mio ex e ho scoperto cose inaspettate"},"content":{"rendered":"

I didn’t know how to approach my ex and I thought that contacting him from my fake social media account was my only way<\/strong><\/em> per capire perch\u00e9 mi ha lasciato.<\/p>\n

I just couldn\u2019t come to terms with the break-up.<\/p>\n

Volevo sapere se si sarebbe messo subito con un'altra o se non aveva ancora dimenticato me. La rottura mi ha lasciato la testa piena di domande e la cosa peggiore \u00e8 che lo volevo indietro.<\/p>\n

As it turns out, this wasn\u2019t one of my best or most sane ideas. I found out some unexpected and unpleasant things.<\/p>\n

Per esperienza personale, fare il catfishing al proprio ex non \u00e8 mai il modo giusto per riconciliarsi o scoprire il vero motivo della rottura<\/strong><\/em>. You shouldn’t even think about trying it.<\/p>\n

It won’t do you any good. It may only cause you more pain.<\/p>\n

Vedete, quando il mio ex mi ha lasciata, sono rimasta con alcuni lotte post-rottura<\/a>. Questa \u00e8 la mia storia di catfishing nei confronti del mio ex.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t worth the effort<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It really wasn’t. It only helped me realize that man wasn\u2019t in love with me anymore and as time passed by, I realized that I also didn\u2019t love him the same way I did before.<\/p>\n

We broke up. He became my ex, a part of my past and that’s exactly where I should leave him, in the past.<\/p>\n

It’s so hard to pretend that you are someone else<\/h2>\n

Onestamente, ammiro le persone che fingono sempre di essere qualcun altro solo per compiacere gli altri o per piacere agli altri.<\/p>\n

I have always been my true self. This is the first time I had to lie and pretend that I was someone else. It’s so hard.<\/p>\n

It’s so hard to remember all those lies and you’re afraid of being caught all the time.<\/p>\n

Gli incontri online non sono mai sicuri<\/h2>\n

\"persona<\/p>\n

This time it was safe because I really didn’t have any bad intentions. I didn’t want to hurt my ex, I just wanted to find out some things that were bothering me after the break-up.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, mi ha fatto riflettere. Quanti profili falsi esistono? Quante persone mentono su se stesse solo per piacere agli altri o per innamorarsi di loro?<\/p>\n

Tutti noi dobbiamo stare pi\u00f9 attenti ai social media e a Internet.<\/strong> <\/em>You can never be sure who’s hiding behind someone’s profile.<\/p>\n

Lying is never a good way to achieve something…<\/h2>\n

Come ho gi\u00e0 detto, mentire su<\/a> myself was the hardest part for me. I’m truly not used to lying. It was so complicated for me and A volte mi perdevo completamente nelle mie stesse bugie.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Really, what was I thinking? That we\u2019d be chatting forever and that he\u2019d never ask me on a date? It’s so funny but in the beginning, I had the feeling like we were falling in love again.<\/p>\n

Il rapporto deve essere basato sulla fiducia<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I’m sure that trust is the foundation for every sincere relationship, that a relationship can’t survive without trust.<\/p>\n

Nothing is worth it if you have lost your partner’s trust.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I managed to get my ex to open up to me but I didn’t like what he had to say<\/h2>\n

Dopo aver chiacchierato per qualche tempo, il mio ex si \u00e8 aperto completamente con me. Gli ho chiesto del suo passato e delle sue precedenti relazioni.<\/p>\n

Mi disse che era stato innamorato una volta prima di me, veramente, follemente, incondizionatamente innamorato di una ragazza, ma che lei non aveva mai mostrato comprensione per lui e non gli aveva mai detto quanto fosse importante per lei.<\/p>\n

C'era un motivo per cui la nostra relazione \u00e8 finita e l'unica cosa giusta da fare era andare avanti.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Avrei dovuto accettare il fatto che abbiamo preso strade diverse. Avrei dovuto dare me stesso un po' di tempo<\/a> per guarire e poi andare avanti.<\/p>\n

We broke up and we stayed friends but now, my ex is angry at me and he doesn’t even want to keep in touch with me.<\/p>\n

Veramente, some things can’t be fixed<\/em><\/strong>Per quanto ci sforziamo, possiamo solo peggiorare le cose.<\/p>\n

Alla fine la verit\u00e0 viene sempre a galla<\/h2>\n

Eventually, my ex started doubting me and he asked around a little bit. He always knew I had a fake profile because I would play games on it and it didn’t take him long to put the pieces together.<\/p>\n

Sapeva da tempo che ero io e poi, nel bel mezzo di una conversazione, mi ha chiamato con il mio vero nome e mi ha chiesto perch\u00e9 lo stessi facendo.<\/p>\n

I sat frozen in front of my computer. I didn’t know what to do or what to answer with. I couldn’t understand what gave me away. Of course, I admitted that was me and explained why I did it.<\/p>\n

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