{"id":88540,"date":"2020-08-14T07:04:58","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T07:04:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88540"},"modified":"2022-01-24T19:34:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T19:34:45","slug":"vita-dopo-il-divorzio-per-gli-uomini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vita-dopo-il-divorzio-per-gli-uomini\/","title":{"rendered":"Cosa significa continuare la propria vita dopo il divorzio per gli uomini"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando due persone divorziano, tutti si dispiacciono per la moglie e spesso nessuno si chiede come stia il marito. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all have this misconception that it’s easier for men to deal with a divorce than women. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

There are so many things that people don’t know about <\/span>vita dopo il divorzio<\/span><\/a> for men. Many people aren’t even aware of how divorce affects us also; it changes our lives completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siete qui a leggere questo articolo perch\u00e9 il vostro matrimonio \u00e8 finito o forse avete appena iniziato la <\/span>processo di divorzio<\/span>? It doesn’t matter either way. Welcome to the club, you are not alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

The situation is confusing, to say the least. You’re a <\/span>uomo single<\/span> di nuovo, ma hai persino dimenticato come si fa a essere single. <\/span>Everything you once called ‘ours’ now has to be split into ‘yours’ and ‘hers’. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You’re aware that so many things have changed. These are <\/span>tempi difficili<\/span> e voi <\/span>bisogno di tempo<\/span> per organizzare i propri pensieri e sentimenti. <\/span><\/p>\n

In primo luogo, \u00e8 necessario un po' di tempo per <\/span>processo di lutto<\/span> and then you need to accept what happened and leave it in the past. You’ll have to snap out of it and learn to live after your divorce.  <\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante da sapere \u00e8 cosa aspettarsi dal vostro <\/span>nuova vita<\/span>, il vostro <\/span>dopo il divorzio<\/span> vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cosa ci si pu\u00f2 aspettare da essa?<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Il divorzio \u00e8 davvero un momento difficile<\/span> tempo<\/span> for all people. You have to be aware that it brings so many new things into your life that’ll change it completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ci sono cos\u00ec tante cose che si possono <\/span>aspettarsi da un divorzio<\/span><\/a>. Predictable, unpredictable, beautiful, terrible things\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Here are some things and feelings you’ll most definitely experience after your divorce. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll feel like you’re left all alone<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You’ll think that you’re the only one who cares about your divorce and you\u2019ll see that you’re your own biggest support. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll lose so many friends, especially if you were the one who made a mistake which was the reason for your divorce. Your friends will turn their backs on you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se il vostro divorzio si fa brutto, vostra moglie vorr\u00e0 parlare con voi solo di <\/span>mantenimento dei figli<\/span> in presenza dei suoi avvocati. <\/span><\/p>\n

After some time, you’ll be sitting all alone in your new apartment and you’ll realize that you’re all alone in all of it. You’ll understand that you’re the only person who is there for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll spend so much money and time on the divorce process<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Sometimes, ex-partners can’t agree on money or dividing property or the most painful part if you have kids\u2014<\/span>custodia dei figli<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se voi e il vostro <\/span>ex moglie<\/span> have an agreed divorce, it’ll still cost you so much money, as you\u2019ll have to pay your <\/span>avvocato divorzista<\/span> e alcune spese legali.<\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa migliore sarebbe se riusciste a risolvere il divorzio in via extragiudiziale. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Se potete essere d'accordo su tutto, ma <\/span>custodia dei figli<\/span>, then you’ll have to hire a <\/span>diritto di famiglia<\/span> lawyer and it’ll cost you even more. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 possibile concordare<\/span> custodia fisica congiunta.<\/b> This is when both parents have legal custody but one has to be the child’s primary caretaker and that’s usually the mother. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll have the same responsibilities, you’ll be able to see your kids whenever you want to, but still, they will live with their mother and you’ll have to pay <\/span>alimenti<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Il divorzio si ripercuoter\u00e0 anche sui vostri figli<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 un dato di fatto, se avete dei figli insieme. Non importa se voi e il vostro <\/span>ex moglie<\/span> amici rimasti, i vostri <\/span>i bambini si sentiranno<\/span><\/a> the consequences too. They’ll also realize that everything has changed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you have joint custody, it won’t be the same for them. They’ll feel that something is missing. <\/span><\/p>\n

After some time, you or your ex-partner (or possibly both of you) will find a new partner and it’ll be difficult for them to accept it. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have to show your kids understanding, especially if they’re teenagers, as it\u2019s also a <\/span>momento difficile<\/span> per loro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se voi e il vostro ex avete dei disaccordi, cercate di non litigare davanti ai bambini. <\/span>Lascia conseguenze significative sulla loro <\/i><\/b>salute mentale<\/i><\/b>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Both of you have to sit down and talk to your kids about it. Tell them everything they need to know and tell them that even though you have decided to separate, they’ll still be your priority. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll have to pay alimony to your ex-wife<\/h2>\n

\"banconote<\/p>\n

La madre ottiene la custodia e il padre paga <\/span>alimenti<\/span> \u00e8 lo scenario pi\u00f9 comune, quindi bisogna essere preparati. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 consigliabile rivolgersi a un <\/span>diritto di famiglia<\/span> lawyer about it. Of course, they’re your children and you are obligated to provide for them but you aren’t necessarily obligated to provide for your <\/span>ex moglie<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Alcuni dei vostri amici comuni si schiereranno<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Your friends will blame one of you for your divorce. They’ll try to find out what the reason for it was or who’s guilty for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Naturalmente, nella maggior parte dei casi, si d\u00e0 la colpa al marito<\/i><\/b>.<\/b> Pensano che abbia fatto qualcosa, come tradire o trascurare la moglie, e che questo sia il motivo del divorzio. <\/span><\/p>\n

They’ll choose one side because it’ll be uncomfortable for them to continue to hang out with both of you. Again, in most cases, they will usually feel sorry for the wife so they choose her side. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll see how you’ll be disappointed in so many people after your divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n

Many of those people who pretended to be your best friends for so long won’t be there for you, in one of the most <\/span>tempi difficili<\/span> della vostra vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

That can be a good thing, however, because you know how people say, \u2018<\/span>A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out\u2019.<\/b><\/p>\n

Your feelings won’t go away immediately<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If you aren’t the one who suggested the divorce and you still have feelings for your partner, you have to be aware that those feelings can’t go away overnight.<\/span><\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be easy to cope with the divorce but you’ll also have to find a way to deal with it in the healthiest way possible. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t let anyone feel sorry for you. You have to be brave and strong. It’ll all pass; you just need to give yourself some time. You have to go through <\/span>recupero del divorzio<\/span> e dovete pensare alla vostra <\/span>benessere<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, you are divorcing your wife even though you still love you? So what? Trust me, you aren’t the first man who had to go through this and <\/span>it’s not the end of the world.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I vostri veri amici e <\/span>membri della famiglia<\/span> vi dar\u00e0 <\/span>supporto emotivo<\/span> and you’ll get through it sooner than you think. <\/span><\/p>\n

Come <\/b>affrontare il divorzio<\/b>? <\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Trovare un modo per riuscire a fare da co-genitori con la propria ex moglie<\/h2>\n

\"padre<\/p>\n

La cosa migliore per voi e per i vostri figli sarebbe trovare un modo per concordare facilmente le cose e avere un rapporto di co-genitorialit\u00e0 di successo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to show your kids that the relationship between you two doesn’t affect your relationship with them. <\/span>Devono sapere che entrambi sarete sempre presenti per loro, qualunque cosa accada. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Talk to them more about it. Let them ask you everything they want to know. Maybe they won’t accept it in the beginning but you’ll have to be patient and let them understand and accept the new situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trovare e unirsi a un gruppo di sostegno<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

Il divorzio pu\u00f2 essere molto pi\u00f9 duro per gli uomini che per le donne.<\/span><\/p>\n

Women tend to have so many friends and they’re all there for them in such times and they have <\/span>women’s<\/span> gruppi di sostegno<\/span>,<\/span> che rende le cose pi\u00f9 facili anche per loro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Men don’t like to share their feelings with other people so much. We like to keep that to ourselves because we always pretend we’re tough and strong. <\/span><\/p>\n

Credetemi, non c'\u00e8 niente di male nel mostrare le proprie emozioni, nel mostrare che anche voi siete vulnerabili o che anche voi soffrite.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nessuno penser\u00e0 male di voi per questo motivo. Al contrario, le persone vi apprezzeranno di pi\u00f9 perch\u00e9 siete stati onesti. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 inoltre possibile trovare alcuni <\/span>gruppi di sostegno<\/span> for divorced men, as it would be helpful to hear other men’s experiences. <\/span>Diventa molto pi\u00f9 facile quando si ha qualcuno con cui condividere il proprio dolore. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Lavorare sulla propria autostima<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Men’s health<\/span> pu\u00f2 soffrire molto a causa di tutto lo stress e dei problemi che affrontiamo dopo un divorzio. Dovete sapere che <\/span>il tuo <\/span>salute mentale<\/span><\/a> influisce notevolmente sul vostro <\/span>salute fisica<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel depressed for a long time, you won’t be able to eat well or sleep well.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you’ll even try to drown your sorrows in alcohol or some other things you think might help you but these are unhealthy things which will leave some negative consequences on your physical health, which is not a healthy way to deal with your <\/span>dopo il divorzio<\/span> lotte. <\/span><\/p>\n

Avere un po' di <\/span>rispetto di s\u00e9<\/span>Non solo per voi, ma se avete dei figli, anche per loro. Dovete essere forti per loro.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Lavorate sul vostro <\/span>autostima<\/span> and self-confidence. This is only a temporary situation, it\u2019ll pass and you have to continue with your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Uscire con i vecchi amici<\/h2>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

Chiamate alcuni dei vostri <\/span>vecchi amici<\/span> e chiedere loro di uscire. Apritevi con loro e raccontate le cose che vi preoccupano. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid or ashamed to talk to them about how you feel. They are your friends and they want to be there for you and maybe they’ll give you some helpful advice. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get involved in short-term relationships<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

All'inizio si potrebbe pensare che essere coinvolti in <\/span>a breve termine<\/span> relazioni vi aiuter\u00e0 a dimenticare i sentimenti che provate per il vostro <\/span>ex moglie<\/span> but it won’t. <\/span><\/p>\n

La prima volta<\/span> you try it, you might like it and think that it’s helping you but when you get tired of it, when you realize that it’s all false, it’ll make you think of your marriage and you’ll be depressed again once you understand that it was the real thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong; you should give yourself a chance with dating again and you should start a <\/span>nuova relazione<\/span> con qualcuno.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that should be only once you feel you’re ready for dating again and once you meet someone new whom you like. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trovare qualcosa che distolga la mente dal divorzio<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Uscire, fare esercizio fisico, trovare un nuovo hobby, fare yoga o meditazione, arredare la nuova casa per creare una caverna per uomini. <\/span><\/p>\n

Step out of your comfort zone and do something new. Do some things you’ve always wanted to but didn’t have time for because of so many obligations. <\/span><\/p>\n

Do some things you really enjoy. Travel and visit some places you’ve always wanted to visit. Do whatever you think will help you to take your mind off the divorce and your <\/span>dopo il divorzio<\/span> lotte. <\/span><\/p>\n

6 errori pi\u00f9 comuni <\/b>uomini dopo il divorzio<\/b> <\/b><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Ricominciare ad uscire troppo presto<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Smettete di cercare di rifare il nodo troppo in fretta. Siete appena usciti da una relazione seria, quindi perch\u00e9 non godervi ora la vostra vita da single?<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to be sure that you’re completely over your ex-spouse. You can’t<\/span> iniziare a frequentare<\/span><\/a> se provi ancora qualcosa per lei. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete concedervi un po' di tempo e dedicarvi al vostro rapporto con voi stessi, perch\u00e9 questo vi aiuter\u00e0 molto una volta tornati al gioco degli appuntamenti.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll feel more confident and you won’t be afraid to give someone new a chance to enter your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Finire in una situazione autodistruttiva<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Purtroppo, molti uomini finiscono in un <\/span>autodistruttivo<\/span> situation because they don’t see another way out of their current situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Drinking, using pills and other addictions won’t help you at all and will only ruin your life completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your divorce happened for a reason, probably because you weren’t happy in your marriage. You should see your divorce as your chance to find love and someone who’ll make you happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t ruin that chance because you may not get another one. <\/span><\/p>\n

Isolarsi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It’s okay if you don’t want to talk to your friends or <\/span>membri della famiglia<\/span> sui vostri sentimenti<\/span>. However, you don’t have to completely isolate yourself from them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ci sono tante altre cose di cui potete parlare. Andate a trovarli o invitateli a venire a trovarvi nella vostra nuova casa. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, bottling up your emotions isn’t healthy. If you can’t talk about them with the people close to you, then seek professional help and talk about it to them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un terapeuta professionista pu\u00f2 anche aiutarvi a trovare un modo per affrontare il divorzio in modo sano. <\/span><\/p>\n

Far scegliere ai figli una parte<\/h2>\n

\"padre<\/p>\n

Leave the kids out of it, don\u2019t drag them into your marital problems as they will suffer enough once they find out their parents are divorcing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Purtroppo, <\/span>dopo un divorzio, <\/span>pi\u00f9 <\/span>uomini <\/span> far scegliere ai loro figli da che parte stare. Vogliono che i figli scelgano loro e vadano a vivere con loro. So che tutti vorremmo portare i nostri figli con noi, ma non \u00e8 questo il modo di farlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Parlare male del proprio ex<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 probabilmente l'errore pi\u00f9 grande che un uomo possa commettere dopo la fine del suo matrimonio, soprattutto se sono coinvolti dei bambini. <\/span><\/p>\n

Avete condiviso una parte della vostra vita insieme, avete tanti ricordi e vi siete amati un tempo. Per questo motivo, dovreste rimanere amici del vostro ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Talking trash about your ex will say more about you than her. Don’t try to turn your family or friends against her. Trust me, it won’t bring you any good and you’ll only feel worse. <\/span><\/p>\n

Spiare il proprio ex<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Avete scelto di prendere strade diverse e non avete pi\u00f9 il diritto di essere coinvolti nella sua vita sentimentale. Entrambi avete il diritto di frequentare chi volete. <\/span><\/p>\n

You shouldn’t spy on them because once you see them with someone else (and you will after some time), it’ll only make you feel more sad and depressed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your dating life doesn’t depend on hers. You should start dating whenever you feel ready for that and don’t feel bad if you find someone before your ex does. <\/span><\/p>\n

Penso davvero che la vita dopo <\/span>divorzio per gli uomini<\/span><\/a> \u00e8 altrettanto difficile che per le donne. Tuttavia, dobbiamo riuscire ad affrontarla e a continuare la nostra vita.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n

Troppe persone dipendono da noi e non dobbiamo deluderle. Ricordate che c'\u00e8 una vita meravigliosa che ci aspetta dopo aver attraversato i momenti dolorosi del divorzio.<\/span><\/p>\n

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