{"id":8860,"date":"2020-06-21T12:20:07","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T12:20:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8860"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:12:41","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:12:41","slug":"la-lettera-sente-che-non-interessa-a-nessuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-lettera-sente-che-non-interessa-a-nessuno\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera per voi quando sentite che non importa a nessuno"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ci si alza al mattino non perch\u00e9 non si vede l'ora di vedere cosa ci riserva la giornata successiva, ma perch\u00e9 si deve.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t look forward to seeing people and you\u2019re not looking forward to new mornings and days because you forgot how amazing feels.<\/p>\n

Even if something amazing happens, you probably wouldn\u2019t be able to notice it. Because you\u2019re too busy feeling alone.<\/p>\n

Dal momento in cui aprite gli occhi, questa sensazione vi travolge. Ti svegli con un sussurro nell'orecchio che ti dice che non importa a nessuno.<\/p>\n

It tells you how you need to say, \u201cI\u2019m fine,\u201d whenever someone asks you how you’ve been or how you shouldn\u2019t tell others about your issues because nobody really cares.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

You get up, strip off your clothes and get under the shower. You let the water roll down your face while you continue thinking that there isn\u2019t a person in this world who could understand you.<\/p>\n

You feel like you’re the only one, like you\u2019re alone. So you end up getting out of that shower feeling tired even before your day started, but you somehow resist the urge to crawl back to your bed.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 davvero questa la vita che volete avere? \u00c8 davvero cos\u00ec che volete vivere? Vi sentite stanchi, vi sentite come se a nessuno importasse, come se nessuno capisse?<\/p>\n

Aren\u2019t you tired of feeling tired? Aren\u2019t you tired of constantly bringing yourself down?<\/strong><\/p>\n

At one point you’ll have to snap out of it. At one point you’ll have to find the strength to impedirsi di essere tossici.<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the toxic one here.<\/a> You\u2019re hurting yourself. And you need to stop.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You have to stop hurting yourself and decide to take care of yourself for a change. Because if you don\u2019t do it, nobody else will be able to help you.<\/p>\n

Da qualche parte lungo la strada, nel comfort del vostro letto, avete dimenticato quanto possa essere bello e riscaldante avere qualcuno che si preoccupa davvero.<\/p>\n

Avete dimenticato come ci si sente a non sentirsi soli, come ci si sente a guardare avanti a un nuovo giorno e alle nuove cose straordinarie che la vita pu\u00f2 darvi.<\/p>\n

You might be unable to see it now, but this feeling of loneliness doesn\u2019t come when nobody cares. It comes when the person you care utterly about doesn\u2019t really care about you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t an uglier feeling than to see that the person you\u2019d do anything for wouldn\u2019t even do half of the things you\u2019re ready to do.<\/p>\n

Only then your self-doubt starts and once that avalanche has been started, it won\u2019t take long until it buries you.<\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

You start feeling like you\u2019re not good enough. You start thinking how you can\u2019t do a single thing right and you start hating yourself and your life for not being lovable.<\/p>\n

Ma la cosa peggiore \u00e8 che si inizia a pensare che non importi a nessuno. E si fa tutto da soli.<\/p>\n

Invece di incolpare la persona giusta, si finisce per attribuire tutte le azioni sbagliate di una singola persona a tutte le altre persone della propria vita. E lentamente iniziate ad allontanare le persone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because of this one person who did you wrong, who didn\u2019t reciprocate your feelings, you end up thinking that we\u2019re all the same. But we\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just temporarily blinded by emotions, but once you\u2019re okay, you\u2019ll see you\u2019ve been projecting the insecurities of one person onto all the people around you. And that\u2019s what you shouldn\u2019t have done.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Quindi, domani, quando aprirete gli occhi, decidete di guardare davvero avanti a quel giorno. Sorridete prima di alzarvi dal letto e, mentre vi spogliate per fare la doccia, iniziate a cantare.<\/p>\n

And then continue singing. And then get out of the shower and play some music. Let it be a song you\u2019ll continue playing in your head.<\/p>\n

Il giorno dopo, fate la stessa cosa. E il giorno dopo e quello dopo ancora.<\/p>\n

Sorridete alla vostra fede e date il benvenuto al nuovo giorno con una canzone, pronti a vedere tutte le cose straordinarie che vi colpiranno quel giorno.<\/p>\n

Per quanto riguarda the person who doesn’t care about you<\/a> and because of whom you started feeling unlovable and unworthy and not good enough of others’ attention, well, there is only one thing you could do and that\u2019s to walk away.<\/p>\n

Even when it might be hard to do it, even if you don\u2019t want to hear it now, it\u2019s the truth and I\u2019m gonna drop it right here-sometimes you have to be your own hero and guard your own heart because a person you utterly care about doesn\u2019t care about you at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Allo scrittore pieno di esitazioni<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Darling, you\u2019re the only one in charge of your life and if you don\u2019t love it, how do you expect anyone else to love you?<\/p>\n

Whatever disturbs your peace, whoever makes you feel unimportant, unworthy or miserable- then they don\u2019t deserve you and you\u2019re allowed to walk away.<\/p>\n

Once you walk away from such darkness, you\u2019ll come to a daylight and you\u2019ll be able to clearly see that there are people who truly care about you.<\/p>\n

There are people who want to know how your day was, who\u2019d like to go to the movies with you and who\u2019d enjoy grabbing a beer at the bar with you.<\/p>\n

Allontanatevi da tutto ci\u00f2 che vi fa sentire infelici. Smettete di allontanare le persone buone. Imparate a innamorarvi di nuovo della vostra vita. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Prendetevi cura di voi stessi. Prendetevi cura della vostra felicit\u00e0. Quando vi prendete cura di voi, tutti gli altri tendono a seguirvi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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