{"id":88805,"date":"2020-09-08T07:52:46","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:52:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88805"},"modified":"2022-02-26T12:11:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T12:11:01","slug":"donne-con-le-pareti-piu-alte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/donne-con-le-pareti-piu-alte\/","title":{"rendered":"Le donne con i muri pi\u00f9 alti hanno l'amore pi\u00f9 profondo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i> \u2018The women with the highest walls have the deepest love.\u2019<\/i> \u2013 R.H. Sin<\/p>\n<p><b>Alcune donne amano troppo. Purtroppo, spesso finiscono per essere ferite per lo stesso motivo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s when they build up a wall around their heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Once you experience pain so deep that it paralyzes you, it\u2019s not easy to love again. You start equating love with pain.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Love is complicated. It\u2019s messy. It\u2019s unpredictable. It\u2019s not as safe as we want it to be. It\u2019s not how you imagine it to be in your head.<\/p>\n<p>The feelings you feel when you\u2019re falling in love fade away quickly and you\u2019re left with an unperfect person you decide to love anyway.<\/p>\n<p><b>That\u2019s the secret to loving deep: <\/b><b><i>Tu ami comunque<\/i><\/b><b>. <\/b><b><i>Si ama nonostante e non perch\u00e9<\/i><\/b><b>. <\/b><b><i>Tu ami sempre<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-88810 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/couple-holding-hands-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna e uomo sorridenti che si tengono per mano all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/couple-holding-hands-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/couple-holding-hands-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/couple-holding-hands-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what these kinds of women know intuitively.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t understand why so many people remain blind when it comes to realistic, everyday aspects of love. We all know that\u2019s an inevitable part of life.<\/p>\n<p>The ugly stuff, the boring stuff, the irritating stuff. That\u2019s exactly when we need to love the hardest, not walk away.<\/p>\n<p>Tutti sono ossessionati da ci\u00f2 che vogliono specificamente dal loro amante, ma non riescono a capire che una relazione richiede due persone felici.<\/p>\n<p><b>L'amore richiede coraggio. Ci vuole pazienza e lealt\u00e0. Ci vuole la noncuranza per le piccole cose <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-cose-che-le-donne-trovano-estremamente-fastidiose-per-gli-uomini\/\">cose fastidiose<\/a> o cosa <\/b><b><i>voi <\/i><\/b><b>vogliono sempre.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Senza queste cose, nessun amore pu\u00f2 sopravvivere, perch\u00e9 l'amore non \u00e8 una fantasia inventata nella vostra testa.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>The problem is when you know all these things and can\u2019t find someone whose energy will match yours, whose love will match yours, whose commitment will match yours.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-97577 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"donna con occhiali da vista in piedi sul tetto\" width=\"900\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop.jpg 900w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop-300x178.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop-768x456.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop-150x89.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ancora peggio \u00e8 quando si pensa di aver trovato una persona che lo faccia e invece si scopre che ti sta solo usando e che d\u00e0 per scontato tutto quello che gli dai.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo un po' di tempo, si \u00e8 emotivamente svuotati. <b>Loro vanno avanti e voi rimanete con il vostro <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/superare-il-crepacuore\/\"><b>cuore vuoto<\/b><\/a><b> e l'anima schiacciata.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>L'unico modo in cui il cuore pu\u00f2 proteggersi dal bruciare di nuovo \u00e8 quello di erigere barricate.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Per sopravvivere, il cuore si chiude in se stesso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Purtroppo, questo significa che si smette di essere la persona che si era prima. Dopo tutto, il nostro cuore e le nostre emozioni sono una parte importante di noi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Si inizia a vedere le persone in modo diverso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You realize that not everyone has your best interests at heart . Not everyone really knows how to love. Not everyone is willing to do what you\u2019re willing to do.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-88812 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-glass-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna con occhiali da vista in piedi vicino a una vetrata\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-glass-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-glass-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-glass-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It makes you sad but you know you can\u2019t change the world. You know you can\u2019t even change one person who supposedly loves you.<\/p>\n<p><b>La cosa pi\u00f9 ironica di tutte \u00e8 che agli altri sembrate freddi. <\/b> Now, that\u2019s where life shows how humorously cynical it can be.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 l'esatto motivo per cui gli uomini dovrebbero dare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/bellezza-custodita-ragazza-caduta\/\"> ragazze sorvegliate<\/a> a chance; girls who are quiet and don\u2019t care about attention. <b>Le loro mura non sono altro che la protezione di qualcosa di prezioso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Un cuore puro deve essere protetto.<\/b> Le donne che hanno un muro intorno al loro cuore puro sono quelle che amano pi\u00f9 profondamente proprio per questo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Non dimenticate mai questo aspetto di voi stessi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tu <i> dovrebbe <\/i> protect yourself, just don\u2019t fall into the trap of self-deprecation. <b>It\u2019s NOT your fault someone else is not ready to love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-88813 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top bianco seduta a terra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not your fault you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t stop believing that people like you exist. Don\u2019t stop believing that there\u2019s a man who can match your love and dedication, because there is.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t close off in a sense that you don\u2019t let your personality shine through. Be careful but not fearful.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Continuate ad amare come fate, basta che troviate le persone giuste a cui dare il vostro amore. <b>Chi ama ferocemente non ha paura.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>One day when you\u2019re ready, those walls won\u2019t be needed. You\u2019re going to realize your heart can\u2019t really be broken because your love is just too deep.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s like picking a flower but knowing its roots still remain beneath.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Quel fiore sei tu.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t be afraid but grow fiercely and gently like a flower with good roots\u2014again and again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90087 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Le donne con i muri pi\u00f9 alti hanno l&#039;amore pi\u00f9 profondo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018The women with the highest walls have the deepest love.\u2019 \u2013 R.H. Sin Some women love too much. Sadly, they often end up hurt for the same reason. That\u2019s when they build up a wall around their heart. Once you experience pain so deep that it paralyzes you, it\u2019s not easy to love again. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":88808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88805"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88805\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88808"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}