{"id":88841,"date":"2020-09-08T07:23:09","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88841"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:01:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:01:31","slug":"appuntamenti-che-ti-fanno-sembrare-disperato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/appuntamenti-che-ti-fanno-sembrare-disperato\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cose che fai negli appuntamenti e che ti fanno sembrare disperato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il trucco del comportamento disperato \u00e8 che la persona che lo mette in atto \u00e8 l'ultima a notarne i sintomi.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re actually behaving this way unconsciously \u2013 you hold on to the other person in an attempt to keep him around.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re in fact achieving just the opposite: You\u2019re allowing him to darvi per scontati<\/a>, you\u2019re giving him clearance to treat you the way he wants, and consequently, you\u2019re chasing him away.<\/p>\n

Quali sono esattamente le cose che fate negli appuntamenti, senza nemmeno esserne consapevoli, che vi fanno sembrare disperati?<\/p>\n

Raggiungere sempre per primi<\/h2>\n

\"angolo<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest. What would your relationship look like if you weren\u2019t the one pulling all the strings? Would you ever even hear from your boyfriend, if you weren\u2019t the one initiating everything?<\/p>\n

You might be satisfied with the fact that this guy almost always responds to your texts, but the truth is that you\u2019re the one who reaches out to him every time.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one texting him, calling him, and asking him out. The one who keeps suggesting activities together and puts an effort into making your time together as interesting as possible.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that you don\u2019t hesitate to double or triple text him when he ignores your initial text.<\/p>\n

In pratica, tutta la vostra relazione si basa sul fatto che tu lo insegui e lui accetta di incontrarti di tanto in tanto.<\/p>\n

For a change, try this experiment. Don\u2019t reach out to him first for a couple of days.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not suggesting you to do this to make him afraid of losing you.<\/p>\n

I just want you to see whether he\u2019ll notice your absence and be the one to initiate contact, or your relationship will fizzle without your initiative.<\/p>\n

Dare infinite seconde possibilit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Un'altra cosa che ti fa sembrare disperato in una relazione \u00e8 dare a tutti quei seconde opportunit\u00e0<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Every time your partner makes a mistake he is without a doubt responsible for, you can\u2019t wait to forgive him.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even have to offer you a proper apology \u2013 you\u2019ll find an excuse for his behavior. The truth is you want to forgive him even when he doesn\u2019t say he\u2019s sorry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So you look for hints of his regret and absolve him of his sins. You pretend that something he did didn\u2019t hurt you that much and that everything is fine, even when it clearly isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that this behavior doesn\u2019t go unnoticed. In fact, by doing this, you\u2019re only giving this man the green light to keep on harming you, without any consequences.<\/p>\n

Attivit\u00e0 sui social media<\/h2>\n

\"persona<\/p>\n

Molte persone vi diranno che i social media non significano nulla quando si tratta di relazioni sentimentali.<\/p>\n

After all, there are many couples who don\u2019t promote their love on social media yet have the happiest romances in real life.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, che vi piaccia o meno ammetterlo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che una grossa fetta degli appuntamenti moderni ruota attorno ai social media.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 proprio per questo che la vostra attivit\u00e0 l\u00ec pu\u00f2 essere un indicatore del vostro comportamento disperato.<\/p>\n

Basta confrontare il modo in cui vi comportate voi e il vostro partner.<\/p>\n

Just to be clear, we\u2019re not talking about a man who simply doesn\u2019t use either of the social platforms or is nothing but a passive bystander.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re talking about a guy who posts Instagram and Snapchat stories. A man who follows a bunch of girls and is clearly concerned about his social media reputation.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re nowhere to be found on his profiles. It\u2019s like he ignores your existence and doesn\u2019t give a damn about whatever you might be doing there.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Voi, invece, siete i primi a guardare le sue storie, mettete like e commentate tutti i suoi aggiornamenti di stato e le sue foto, e tutto ci\u00f2 che postate \u00e8 rivolto a lui.<\/p>\n

Eccessivamente disponibile<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

One of the most obvious signs that you come across as desperate is the fact that you\u2019re always available. You don\u2019t know how to say \u201cno\u201d and you\u2019re ready to move mountains just to see or please this man.<\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not saying that you should engage in giochi mentali<\/a> and tell him that you\u2019re busy when you\u2019re actually not.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you to play hard to get and reschedule your plans at the last minute just to mess with his head.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, you shouldn\u2019t show him that he can always have you at his disposal either<\/strong>. As soon as this man moves an inch towards you, you\u2019re ready to run into his arms.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who finds time to see him, can fit him into your schedule, and cancels plans for his sake. Conversely, he never returns the favor and keeps on treating you as his last resort.<\/p>\n

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The trick about desperate behavior is that the person doing it is the last to notice the symptoms. You\u2019re actually behaving this way unconsciously \u2013 you hold on to the other person in an attempt to keep him around. However, you\u2019re in fact achieving just the opposite: You\u2019re allowing him to take you for granted,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":98035,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Things-You-Do-In-Dating-That-Make-You-Look-Desperate.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88841","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88841"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88841\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163615,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88841\/revisions\/163615"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88841"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88841"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88841"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}