{"id":88874,"date":"2020-09-08T07:26:52","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:26:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88874"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:00:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:00:43","slug":"una-pausa-equivale-alla-fine-di-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-pausa-equivale-alla-fine-di-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"4 motivi per cui prendersi una pausa equivale alla fine di una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lately, taking a break from a relationship has become a common practice for couples. This way, technically you haven\u2019t ended your relationship but you\u2019re not a couple anymore either.<\/p>\n

But, is it really possible to just \u201ctake a break\u201d? Let\u2019s hear what the experts have to say about the subject.<\/p>\n

Lontano dagli occhi lontano dal cuore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard the saying \u201cout of sight, out of mind\u201d. Well, let me tell you that this kind of saying actually is more than just an empty phrase.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, ci sono situazioni in cui l'assenza fa crescere il cuore. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, c'\u00e8 una differenza tra la scelta di stare lontano dalla persona amata e l'obbligo di vivere in queste condizioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that there is a huge possibility that you and your partner will disinnamorarsi<\/a> con l'altro durante questo periodo.<\/p>\n

Sono rare le coppie che usano questo periodo per riconsiderare la loro relazione e riflettere. In realt\u00e0, la maggior parte finisce per scoprire quanto sia straordinaria la propria vita da single.<\/p>\n

Not only that: the time apart will give you both a chance to meet someone else. You don\u2019t have to actually start a new relationship but you will certainly act like you\u2019re single.<\/p>\n

If nothing else, you\u2019ll probably end up flirting with another person. Of course, this increases the risk of this person fascinating you and erasing your boyfriend from your mind.<\/p>\n

Problemi post-rottura in paradiso<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Anche se voi e il vostro partner sopravvivete alla rottura e decidete di ricominciare, sarebbe troppo ottimistico aspettarsi la perfezione nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

In fact, it is likely that you\u2019ll have to face numerous post-break troubles.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, there will be some inevitable trust issues you won\u2019t be able to escape.<\/p>\n

What did you both do while you weren\u2019t together? How can you trust that you both remained faithful during this break?<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you agreed to act like you were single while you weren\u2019t together, don\u2019t think that you\u2019ll be able to ignore this fact once you reconcile.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll want to know who your partner dated. Did he sleep with other girls? Most importantly: did he start feeling something for them?<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes, you\u2019ll wonder whether the love he feels for you is even real. If you spent all of your time apart mancando di lui<\/a>Come ha potuto dimenticarsi di te con tanta facilit\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Running away from the problem doesn\u2019t get you anywhere<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here: when you\u2019re taking a break in your relationship, you\u2019re actually running away from each other.<\/p>\n

You and your boyfriend clearly don\u2019t have the capacity to resolve your problems otherwise you would stay together until you find a solution.<\/p>\n

Instead, you shut your eyes, bury your issues, and expect them to magically go away after some time. I\u2019m sorry \u2013 but how exactly do you expect this to work?<\/p>\n

So che pensate che il tempo vi porter\u00e0 una certa chiarezza. Pensate che vi dar\u00e0 la possibilit\u00e0 di cambiare prospettiva.<\/p>\n

La vedete come un'opportunit\u00e0 per calmare le passioni. Un'opportunit\u00e0 per riflettere e prendere la decisione giusta senza che le emozioni si intromettano.<\/p>\n

However, the bottom line is that these are all empty excuses. What you\u2019re actually doing is running away from the problem and hoping it won\u2019t chase you any further.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I hate to be the one to break your heart but this approach won\u2019t get you anywhere. Your issues and dilemmas will still be there afterward and they can\u2019t be solved without healthy communication.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s an empty excuse<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In fin dei conti, le rotture delle relazioni spesso non sono altro che scuse. Di solito, la persona che chiede una pausa ha gi\u00e0 capito tutto.<\/p>\n

Se \u00e8 il vostro ragazzo a iniziare questo cambiamento, nella maggior parte dei casi significa che ha solo paura di dirvi la verit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe he is afraid of how you\u2019ll react and is scared of crushing your heart, so he\u2019s masking his real intentions by asking for a break.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, maybe he is the one who can\u2019t accept that the end is near. It is possible that it\u2019s easier for him to suggest taking a break than actually rottura<\/a> con voi.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, tutto questo \u00e8 una questione di terminologia e di teoria. Ci sono alcune differenze tra le interpretazioni, ma i significati sono gli stessi.<\/p>\n

\"Prendersi<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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