{"id":88894,"date":"2020-09-08T07:28:49","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88894"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:58:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:58:21","slug":"luomo-non-sa-decidere-tra-te-e-unaltra-persona","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/luomo-non-sa-decidere-tra-te-e-unaltra-persona\/","title":{"rendered":"Se un uomo non riesce a decidere tra te e un'altra, lascia che sia lui a scegliere lei"},"content":{"rendered":"

Purtroppo, nel mondo degli appuntamenti di oggi, quando si inizia a frequentare qualcuno di nuovo, non \u00e8 raro che non si sappia quale sia la propria posizione.<\/p>\n

Vi state solo frequentando? Avete una relazione? Avete un rapporto esclusivo?<\/p>\n

Ci si aspetta di essere fedeli? O siete in una sorta di relazione aperta?<\/p>\n

So che sembra una cosa terribile, ma purtroppo \u00e8 cos\u00ec che vanno le cose. In realt\u00e0, \u00e8 cos\u00ec che funzionano le cose se si accettano queste condizioni.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not a smart-ass who\u2019s come to tell you what you should do with your life. However, I will ask you to always keep your dignity.<\/p>\n

I am here to beg you never to allow yourself to be one of a man\u2019s choices. No, being his prima scelta<\/a><\/span> isn\u2019t enough \u2013 you have to be his one and only choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not saying you two have to necessarily be in a committed, serious relationship right from the start. Nevertheless, him testing his chances with other girls besides you is not acceptable either.<\/p>\n

You know, guys often do this on purpose. He makes sure you know he\u2019s dating other women simultaneously, convinced that this makes him a big stud.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

He wants you to see that he\u2019s a catch and you have strong competition.<\/p>\n

Di conseguenza, \u00e8 necessario lottare per il suo amore<\/a> e attenzione, come se fosse una sorta di trofeo o premio da conquistare.<\/p>\n

Fortunatamente per questo tipo di uomo, molte ragazze partecipano a queste gare. Si vedono perdenti se si arrendono e lasciano l'oggetto del loro interesse a qualche altra ragazza.<\/p>\n

Per questo motivo, si oppongono. Vedono l'altra ragazza come la loro acerrima nemica e sono disposte a fare tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 in loro potere per sconfiggerla.<\/p>\n

Beh, lasciatemi dire una cosa. L'unico modo per uscire vincitori da questo scenario \u00e8 abbandonare subito l'incontro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, giving up on him doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ve lost. It means that you\u2019ve retreated gracefully.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make you weak, scared he\u2019ll choose this other girl over you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a sign that you\u2019re a donna che conosce il suo valore<\/a>. A woman who isn\u2019t willing to fight for a man who\u2019s not sure about her and not mature enough to make up his mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Letting your man pick another girl over you is a sign that you value your dignity over all else. It means that you haven\u2019t fallen into his trap and aren\u2019t prepared to feed his ego.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, trust me when I tell you that you doing this will hurt him more than anything. He won\u2019t be able to stand that you\u2019re the one who gave up on him.<\/p>\n

Anche se lui pensa di essere nella posizione di poter scegliere, voi avete preso la decisione al posto suo. Sei tu che hai scelto al posto suo e che hai scelto di allontanarti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Take yourself out of the running in time and show him that you\u2019re above all possible competition. The role of his girlfriend is not the jackpot and it\u2019s about time he realizes that.<\/p>\n

Un'altra cosa: Please don\u2019t hate on this other girl<\/strong>. Don\u2019t look for her flaws or compete with her, even if the competition is going on inside of your head.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t here to take your man away from you. Even if you let him be hers, she actually did you a favor and saved you a lot of misery.<\/p>\n

After all, she is probably in the same situation as you are. Both of you are his victims \u2013 puppets in his hands.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, \u00e8 lui l'unico colpevole. \u00c8 lui che sta cercando di bilanciare e destreggiarsi tra voi due.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He is the one hurting both of you and playing with your hearts and minds. And it\u2019s your job to not let him do that. At least, not on your watch!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Sadly, in today\u2019s dating world, when you start dating someone new, it\u2019s not uncommon for you not to know where you stand. Are you two just seeing each other? Are you in a relationship? Are you exclusive? Is being faithful expected? Or are you in some kind of an open relationship? I know this sounds…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":98046,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-A-Man-Cant-Decide-Between-You-And-Someone-Else-Let-Him-Pick-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88894"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163624,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894\/revisions\/163624"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98046"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}