{"id":90005,"date":"2020-08-14T08:13:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:13:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90005"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:38:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:38:30","slug":"mi-hai-reso-una-donna-migliore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-hai-reso-una-donna-migliore\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 buffo, ma mi hai fatto diventare una donna migliore per qualcun altro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tutti commettiamo degli errori. Ma tu sei stato un errore come nessun altro. Volevo trovare il pulsante di cancellazione e cancellarti dalla mia vita come se non fossi mai esistito.<\/p>\n

I became frustrated because I wasn’t able to forget and delete all the things that reminded me of you. Memories of you made my life toxic.<\/p>\n

The problem was, I tried so hard to forget all about you and our relationship that I couldn\u2019t. I became obsessed with it until I finally realized that Ho dovuto guardare tutto da un'altra prospettiva.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Decisi che dovevo accogliere il mio passato come parte della mia vita, come una grande lezione dolorosa che dovevo imparare.<\/p>\n

Ho capito che la cosa migliore che potessi fare in quella situazione era imparare dai miei stessi errori.<\/strong><\/em> That’s the only way I could help myself to finally move on and continue with my life.<\/p>\n

I also realized that it wasn’t only your fault that we fought so much and eventually broke up. I made some mistakes, too, even though I wasn’t aware of them at the time.<\/p>\n

The biggest mistake was letting you treat me the way you did. You always acted like you were above me. You thought you were so much better than me and that\u2019s why you never knew how to appreciate me.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Always treating me like an option and showing yourself off in front of your buddies wasn’t the right way to prove your love. It just let me know that I wasn\u2019t worth your time.<\/p>\n

Un giorno saresti l'uomo pi\u00f9 straordinario e il giorno dopo il pi\u00f9 infimo degli infimi.<\/p>\n

You would try to make things better by saying you loved me but my emotional scars couldn\u2019t be erased with words. <\/strong>Love isn\u2019t in words it\u2019s in actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love can\u2019t be found in unanswered texts, skipped dates, and a lack of effort. Love isn\u2019t in being selfish and cold.<\/p>\n

Vedete, non abbiamo mai parlato<\/a> about the things that bothered us, and that\u2019s where we also went wrong. Poor communication never leads to a rich relationship.<\/p>\n

We kept everything to ourselves. We didn’t even try to deal with things in a healthy way \u2013 by talking about them.<\/p>\n

You said several times how I should give you some space but I never did. It\u2019s not that I didn\u2019t want to, it’s because I was so afraid that you might leave me.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

I also needed some personal space but I was unaware of it at the time. I realize now that we all need it from time to time. A healthy amount of space never harms a relationship \u2013 it can only better it.<\/p>\n

There are so many other things that we should\u2019ve done differently. But I don\u2019t regret anything. I was who I was because I was so blindly in love with you.<\/p>\n

Honestly, I\u2019d never cared for anything or anyone else like I did for you and my actions weren\u2019t always under my control.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I see now that wasn\u2019t a good thing. Losing control, losing my ground, losing myself wasn\u2019t something positive.<\/p>\n

Significava metterti al primo posto mentre io mi mettevo all'ultimo. Significava tollerare il tuo comportamento per l'euforia che avrei avuto quando fossimo stati insieme.<\/em><\/p>\n

Significava perdonare l'imperdonabile in nome dell'amore. Amore che per lo pi\u00f9 proveniva dalla mia parte.<\/em><\/p>\n

Le cose non sarebbero mai dovute andare cos\u00ec. Ma ero troppo vicino e troppo coinvolto per vedere chiaramente il nostro disordine.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Per fortuna la mia vista si \u00e8 schiarita per tutte le lacrime che hai provocato.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mi hai lasciato lezioni preziose su ci\u00f2 che l'amore non dovrebbe mai essere. Mi hai costretto a scoprire chi sono perch\u00e9 mi ero perso in te. Mi ero persa nella storia di ci\u00f2 che avremmo potuto essere, ma che non siamo mai stati.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Lasciarti andare \u00e8 stato come se mi fosse caduto un grosso peso dalle spalle. Mi sentivo pi\u00f9 tranquilla che mai.<\/strong> <\/em>Promisi a me stessa che non avrei mai pi\u00f9 permesso a nessuno di trattarmi cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

I set down some new rules for myself. I made a promise that I\u2019ll be kinder and better to myself. That I will be selective about who I date and that I will never be the last one on my own priority list.<\/p>\n

Sono cresciuta, mi sono evoluta e sono diventata una persona migliore grazie a te, alla tua mancanza di impegno e al tuo pessimo trattamento. Chi l'avrebbe mai detto che il dolore che mi hai causato sarebbe stato il miglior innesco per una nuova e migliore me.<\/p>\n

Grazie a te la mia nuova relazione \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 di quanto avrei mai potuto sognare di avere con te. Ho iniziato con un cuore pulito, una mente aperta e un senso di autostima. Questo ha fatto la differenza.<\/p>\n

L'aspetto divertente di tutto ci\u00f2 \u00e8 stato che, nello stesso momento in cui sei stato il mio errore<\/a> sei stato anche il mio pi\u00f9 grande maestro.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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We all make mistakes. But you were a mistake like no other. I wanted to find the erase button and wipe you out of my life like you\u2019d never existed. I became frustrated because I wasn’t able to forget and delete all the things that reminded me of you. Memories of you made my life…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90005","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90005","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=90005"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90005\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=90005"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=90005"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=90005"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}