{"id":90096,"date":"2020-08-14T07:23:22","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T07:23:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90096"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:37:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:37:22","slug":"ragazza-dal-cuore-spezzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazza-dal-cuore-spezzato\/","title":{"rendered":"Una ragazza con il cuore spezzato non \u00e8 altro che una donna coraggiosa in divenire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Caro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/piccoli-e-veloci-promemoria-che-ogni-donna-dal-cuore-spezzato-ha-bisogno-di-ascoltare\/\">ragazza dal cuore spezzato<\/a>,<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>So che il tuo cuore sta soffrendo, ma ho bisogno che tu ricordi una cosa: tutte le cose che senti ora passeranno presto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not saying that your love will cease but that aching pain in the middle of your chest, that anxious lump inside your stomach, they will go away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know you\u2019re trying hard to look normal when you\u2019re around other people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You even joke around. You make funny faces and say that things are going to be all right but the moment you\u2019re left alone, your face becomes sullen.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>La vostra mente \u00e8 invasa da cose non dette e sentite il peso enorme di un amore non corrisposto. L'amore non corrisposto vi ha cambiato. Ha riassemblato il vostro essere.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It showed you that life isn\u2019t what you expected it to be. It\u2019s just some weird combination of unpredictable feelings and things you can\u2019t control. Things like love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90099 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-bench-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top bianco seduta su una panchina di cemento rosso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-bench-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-bench-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-bench-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>We don\u2019t choose who we love. We can\u2019t control our innermost feelings. They\u2019re just there.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But there\u2019s one thing everyone can do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Potete cambiare la vostra visione della situazione invece di cambiare i vostri sentimenti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can grow to realize that life doesn\u2019t have to be dark because you didn\u2019t get the love you thought you wanted. Notice how I said you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pensiero<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> che si desiderava.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I know it\u2019s a touchy subject but I have to say it: Not everything you want is always what you need.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A volte la vita ha modi strani per farcelo capire. A volte usa le brutte esperienze per indirizzarci verso qualcosa di meglio.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When our heart is broken, we\u2019re forced to look at our deepest parts with complete awareness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Quando il nostro cuore \u00e8 spezzato, possiamo vedere quale parte di noi \u00e8 pi\u00f9 colpita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s like scanning your soul to find the weakest part you need to heal.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90100 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-grass-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi sull&#039;erba durante il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-grass-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-grass-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-grass-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando dico guarire, intendo dire accettare e accettare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>La completa accettazione di noi stessi \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che alla fine guarisce tutto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why we need to be fearless. We need to be bold. We need to realize that knowing our Achilles heel gives us an advantage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t quit when you\u2019re in pain and when you feel hurt; keep pushing and get a reward from it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s not one person who doesn\u2019t have what we call weaknesses.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Our weak spots make us human. Your feelings, even the ones you feel now, are what make you human. It\u2019s all a wonderful gift of life but it takes time to realize that.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So many times, those weaknesses become our greatest strengths\u2014if we only let them be. Vulnerability is shunned but everyone is hungry for it in other people. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sceglietelo comunque<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Rimanete vulnerabili nonostante quello che dicono gli altri.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90101 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-chair-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna con maglione blu seduta su una sedia vicino alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-chair-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-chair-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-chair-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do things only from your heart and see how every decision you make will be in complete accordance with yourself. That\u2019s where your true strength lies.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Le donne forti sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/piccoli-e-veloci-promemoria-che-ogni-donna-dal-cuore-spezzato-ha-bisogno-di-ascoltare\/\">le donne il cui cuore \u00e8 stato spezzato<\/a> ma hanno scelto di continuare ad amare comunque.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>When you\u2019re sure in your heart then nothing external can move you; you become fearless.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si diventa una persona in grado di sopravvivere a tutto, senza mai sentirsi amareggiati.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You become a person who always knows that everything in life is happening for a reason. That\u2019s why you continue to anticipate the next chapter of your life with happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Abbiamo bisogno di avere il cuore spezzato per poterci ricomporre in qualcosa di ancora migliore.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>We need to have our heart broken to make room for all the things we\u2019re capable of.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>We need to have our heart broken so we can see what we\u2019re made of and finally realize how magical we truly are.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90765 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Girl-With-A-Broken-Heart-Is-Nothing-But-A-Fearless-Woman-In-The-Making-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Una ragazza con il cuore spezzato non \u00e8 altro che una donna coraggiosa in divenire\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Girl-With-A-Broken-Heart-Is-Nothing-But-A-Fearless-Woman-In-The-Making-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Girl-With-A-Broken-Heart-Is-Nothing-But-A-Fearless-Woman-In-The-Making-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Girl-With-A-Broken-Heart-Is-Nothing-But-A-Fearless-Woman-In-The-Making-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Girl-With-A-Broken-Heart-Is-Nothing-But-A-Fearless-Woman-In-The-Making-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear broken-hearted girl, I know your heart is aching in pain but I need you to remember something: All the things you feel now will soon pass. I\u2019m not saying that your love will cease but that aching pain in the middle of your chest, that anxious lump inside your stomach, they will go away&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":90098,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Girl-With-A-Broken-Heart-Is-Nothing-But-A-Fearless-Woman-In-The-Making.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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