{"id":9032,"date":"2020-11-24T13:56:11","date_gmt":"2020-11-24T13:56:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9032"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:10:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:10:31","slug":"vulnerabile-tratto-principale-donna-forte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vulnerabile-tratto-principale-donna-forte\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 essere vulnerabili \u00e8 la caratteristica principale di una donna forte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Essere vulnerabili \u00e8 difficile<\/a>. Significa aprirsi alla possibilit\u00e0 di essere feriti emotivamente dalle persone che significano di pi\u00f9 per voi.<\/p>\n

Chi lo vuole? Essere vulnerabili solo per vedere il proprio cuore sbattuto a terra per essere calpestato, giusto?<\/p>\n

Being vulnerable is something so many people struggle with, because they feel like they will be laughed at if they put their emotions out there for people to see. It’s hard to do that, to be yourself in a world that taught you that what’s on the outside matters more than your emotions.<\/p>\n

What we don’t see nowadays is that being vulnerable is the main trait of strong men and women who love without the fear of getting hurt.<\/p>\n

People who are vulnerable show their true self wherever they are and they don’t put a fake smile on their face when something isn’t OK.<\/p>\n

Sono in grado di guardare qualcuno negli occhi e di versare la propria anima!<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il vero significato di essere forti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La vulnerabilit\u00e0 \u00e8 spesso vista come una debolezza, ma queste due cose non hanno nulla in comune.<\/p>\n

For me, a bigger weakness is to say that you’re fine without confronting the real issue regarding something.<\/p>\n

Sono sempre stata una persona che si preoccupa troppo delle persone.<\/p>\n

I miei precedenti partner hanno sempre pensato che fossi emotivamente bisognosa di attenzioni e che fossi una prostituta perch\u00e9 parlavo sempre dei miei sentimenti, per quanto fosse difficile per me e a volte anche per loro.<\/p>\n

Ma con il tempo ho visto quanta forza ho raccolto.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong, it’s still so freaking hard to tell someone how you feel, because the fear of rejection is always present, but there are no consequences in being open.<\/p>\n

I don’t know about you, but I always regret the things I didn’t say more than the ones that I did.<\/p>\n

Speaking up for yourself isn’t as hard as it looks.<\/p>\n

L'altro giorno ho pianto a dirotto davanti al mio compagno, perch\u00e9 la paura di perderlo (anche se tra noi va tutto bene) mi ha sopraffatto e ho avuto un attacco di panico.<\/p>\n

I’ve told him about my panic attacks before, but until that point he had never seen one.<\/p>\n

Iniziai a soffocare il mio stesso respiro e rimasi paralizzata, per poi scoppiare in lacrime. Lui era molto confuso e io pensavo che fosse finita l\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Stava per lasciare<\/a> perch\u00e9 avrebbe pensato che ero un vero e proprio fenomeno da baraccone.<\/strong> Invece, mi ha abbracciato e mi ha lasciato piangere quanto avevo bisogno.<\/p>\n

He asked just the right questions, which were as simple as, \u201cWhat just happened?\u201d or, \u201cI would really like to know what was going on through your mind.<\/p>\n

Can you please tell me?\u201d I have never felt more vulnerable in someone\u2019s arms as I did at that point.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente gli ho raccontato tutto e che avevo paura di perderlo perch\u00e9 per me significa tutto.<\/p>\n

We were talking about this for hours and he didn’t let me move out of his hug.<\/p>\n

After we were done with that topic and he told me that I won\u2019t lose him because he loves me and he said how important I am to him, mi ha detto quanto significasse per lui vedermi in questo modo<\/strong>, per vedermi vulnerabile!<\/p>\n

I was genuinely surprised. I didn’t expect that. Afterwards, he even told me how brave that was of me.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec ho iniziato a pensare alla mia vulnerabilit\u00e0 e perch\u00e9 ero cos\u00ec dannatamente insicuro<\/a> a questo proposito.<\/p>\n

I miei precedenti partner volevano che smettessi di parlare loro di tutti i sentimenti che provavo; pensavano solo che fosse strano e che fossi depressa.<\/p>\n

That’s probably how the fear of my own vulnerability came to life and also the reason why I didn’t stay in a relationship for a longer period of time with any of those toxic people.<\/p>\n

If someone tells you that your emotions aren’t worth listening to or that you feel \u2018too much\u2019, you should really think about if you want that person to be in your life because they are showing their toxicity and you shouldn’t be around them.<\/p>\n

Il vostro cuore \u00e8 qualcosa di molto speciale e tutto ci\u00f2 che fate con le vostre emozioni \u00e8 una vostra scelta, e solo una vostra scelta.<\/p>\n

So don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself, together with your emotions, out there!<\/p>\n

E ogni donna che ha lo stesso coraggio \u00e8 un individuo coraggioso e abbiamo bisogno di un numero ancora maggiore di voi in questo mondo.<\/p>\n

To know that you’ve been yourself and that you’ve been loved this entire time for your vulnerability means so much that you can’t imagine.<\/p>\n

Quindi, mettete da parte quel sorriso finto e lasciate che gli altri vedano il vostro vero volto.<\/p>\n

Parlate di tutte le cose che temete e di tutti i vostri obiettivi.<\/p>\n

Believe me, it’ll be worth it, because you’ll find someone who’ll appreciate you and love you just the way you are!<\/p>\n

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