{"id":90547,"date":"2020-09-14T06:29:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T06:29:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90547"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:49:17","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:49:17","slug":"gli-uomini-che-ci-hanno-ferito-ci-hanno-anche-reso-piu-saggi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gli-uomini-che-ci-hanno-ferito-ci-hanno-anche-reso-piu-saggi\/","title":{"rendered":"Come tutti gli uomini che ci hanno ferito ci hanno anche reso pi\u00f9 saggi"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know that this may sound a bit ridiculous but I would like to thank all the men that have hurt me. No really, I’m not joking. All girls should do the same.<\/span><\/p>\n

All those men didn’t only betray and disappoint us, they did much more. They taught us so many helpful lessons for our future.<\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa per cui dovremmo ringraziarli di pi\u00f9 \u00e8 che ci hanno reso pi\u00f9 forti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ci hanno spezzato il cuore eppure siamo ancora qui. <\/span>We still believe in love and we still hope that one day it’ll find us, too.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I nostri ex possono insegnarci molte lezioni preziose e le nostre relazioni passate ci rendono davvero pi\u00f9 forti e pi\u00f9 saggi, ed ecco come.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non importa quanto lo amiate, dovreste sempre amare di pi\u00f9 voi stesse.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Voi. Dovete sempre essere la priorit\u00e0 numero uno nella vostra vita. Prima di innamorarvi di qualcun altro, dovete imparare a innamorarvi di voi stessi. <\/span>amore con se stessi.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Never allow anyone to become more important than you. Some people won’t appreciate you as you think they do. They’ll try to use you and your love.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s better to be alone than with someone who doesn’t respect you<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You knew that he didn’t treat you the way he should have, but you chose to stay anyway and believed that he’d change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non ha mai provato a cambiare. Ti ha fatto soffrire ogni giorno di pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questo ti ha fatto decidere: <\/span>Tra una relazione tossica unilaterale e la pura felicit\u00e0 della libert\u00e0, avete scelto di essere di nuovo felici e di non guardare indietro.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don’t ever lose your identity in a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It’s okay to change some things about yourself, things that your partner isn’t okay with. However, you should never change yourself completely for someone else, no matter how strong your feelings for that person are.<\/span><\/p>\n

You should always be yourself and the right person will accept and love all of you. We all have some flaws and if someone doesn’t accept you the way you are, it’s their loss, not yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siate consapevoli della vostra autostima e non accontentatevi mai di meno di quanto meritate.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questo si chiama <\/i><\/b>rispetto di s\u00e9.<\/i><\/b><\/a> Se in una relazione si trascurano costantemente i propri bisogni, si tradisce se stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you have a good relationship with yourself, then no man can ever hurt you. You won’t allow him to do so because you know that you don’t deserve it.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 contare solo su se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s a common misconception that women aren’t strong and independent and they should depend on their partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa triste \u00e8 che la maggior parte delle donne ci crede davvero e si affida completamente all'altro.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I nostri ex ci hanno insegnato che questo \u00e8 completamente sbagliato. L'unica persona su cui si pu\u00f2 sempre contare \u00e8 se stessi, perch\u00e9 si sa che, per quanto le cose diventino difficili, non si lascer\u00e0 mai.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ci sono cose su cui non si dovrebbe mai scendere a compromessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Fare dei compromessi \u00e8 un parte non negoziabile di ogni relazione sana<\/a>. However, you should never forget your principles \u2013 that is something you should absolutely not compromise on.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s important to meet both yours and your partner’s needs but that doesn’t mean that you should compromise on some of your core values just to please them. That’s actually how women lose themselves in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cercare di dimostrare costantemente il proprio valore \u00e8 solo una perdita di tempo.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s normal to try to prove yourself and your feelings to your partner at the beginning of your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se dovete ancora farlo costantemente, anche a distanza di tempo, allora la relazione non ha futuro ed entrambi state solo sprecando il vostro tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he can’t see your value and that your feelings are sincere, then he is blind and you should stop trying to prove yourself. He doesn’t deserve it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Le relazioni unilaterali sono le peggiori<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ogni relazione \u00e8 composta da due persone e ognuna di esse deve lottare per mantenere la relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

If only one partner makes time and effort to maintain the relationship, then it’s a <\/span>relazione unilaterale.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve learned from our past relationships that it’s worse than being alone and we’ll never allow ourselves to be in a relationship like that again.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not worth the fight if there is no love<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You can try as much as you like to maintain your relationship but if the love has gone, then you’ll understand in time that it’s not worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ci sono tanti motivi per cui dovremmo apprezzare le nostre relazioni passate ed essere grati ai nostri ex. Sono tutte lezioni preziose che ci hanno reso pi\u00f9 saggi per le nostre relazioni future.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve made some huge mistakes that cost us a broken heart. I think we\u2019ve all made a promise to ourselves that we will never repeat those mistakes again.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siamo consapevoli di essere l'unica costante della nostra vita e abbiamo fatto di noi stessi una priorit\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n

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