{"id":9069,"date":"2020-02-25T11:29:40","date_gmt":"2020-02-25T11:29:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9069"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:52:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:52:06","slug":"non-cerca-di-fermarsi-e-non-si-guarda-mai-indietro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-cerca-di-fermarsi-e-non-si-guarda-mai-indietro\/","title":{"rendered":"Se non cerca di impedirvi di andarvene, non guardatevi mai indietro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re leaving and he\u2019s not there to stop you, if he doesn\u2019t take you by the hand and tell you to stay, if he doesn\u2019t pour his heart out right there and then and if he lets you leave without telling you he doesn\u2019t want you to leave, then what&#8217;s the purpose of looking back?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bolde.com\/16-reasons-he-doesnt-deserve-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\">He doesn\u2019t deserve you <\/a>nor does he deserve a place in your mind. He doesn\u2019t deserve you second-guessing him and he sure as hell doesn\u2019t deserve to see you doubting your decision.<\/p>\n<p>He let you get away, he allowed you to leave, but if he was half the person you were, if he loved you half of how much you loved him, he would\u2019ve done anything in his power to stop you.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is when a man is in love he\u2019ll do anything to keep the woman he loves next to him.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 orgoglio nel suo amore, non c'\u00e8 gioco di emozioni e non ci sono ripensamenti.<\/p>\n<p>If a real man wants you to stay, he\u2019ll stop you and the only way you will be able to walk away from him is over his dead body.<\/p>\n<p>So if your guy doesn\u2019t bother to stop you from leaving, was he ever your guy?<\/p>\n<p>Letting you leave means he\u2019s fine with it. Or at least that he isn\u2019t bothered enough to do anything about it.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t reach for your hand on you leaving, stay firm on your decision. Keep your head high and leave.<\/p>\n<p>Up till the end point, there could be a possibility of changing your mind. But once you walk out of his life and he does nothing about, that\u2019s about it. At that moment you need to realize that he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t deserve your time. He doesn\u2019t deserve your love. He doesn\u2019t deserve a spot in your life anymore because he refused to show you that you have a place in his life. He just let you go. Just like that.<\/p>\n<p>Ha lasciato andare tutti i vostri ricordi, tutto quello che avete avuto insieme, tutti i momenti felici, ogni bacio, ogni abbraccio, ogni ricordo di quando avevate la testa appoggiata sul suo petto.<\/p>\n<p>He let it go as if it were nothing, as if it never meant a thing in the world to him, so why would you beat yourself up for someone who didn\u2019t care to show he wanted you? Actually, by letting you go, he showed that <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kate-bailey\/2013\/07\/40-little-ways-you-can-tell-someone-doesnt-love-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\">he didn\u2019t really want you anymore<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di guardarsi alle spalle, lui ha detto chiaro e tondo cosa provava per la tua partenza.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80253 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/back-view-of-blonde-woman-wearing-sleeveless-dress-while-sitting-on-mountain.jpg\" alt=\"vista posteriore di una donna bionda che indossa un abito senza maniche mentre \u00e8 seduta su una montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/back-view-of-blonde-woman-wearing-sleeveless-dress-while-sitting-on-mountain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/back-view-of-blonde-woman-wearing-sleeveless-dress-while-sitting-on-mountain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/back-view-of-blonde-woman-wearing-sleeveless-dress-while-sitting-on-mountain-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Allora, perch\u00e9 guardare indietro? Perch\u00e9 dovrebbe importarle? Perch\u00e9 dovresti concedergli ancora un minuto della tua vita?<\/p>\n<p>He wasn\u2019t ready to do the same for you, so now it\u2019s time for you to pick up your broken pieces and continue your life without him.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t hold on anymore to something that is long time gone. Don\u2019t wait for him to show up and say he\u2019s sorry. Don\u2019t settle for him because a girl like you deserves so much more.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who\u2019ll never make you wanna leave his side from the start. You deserve someone who\u2019ll make sure you\u2019re aware of how much you\u2019re loved, someone who\u2019ll make a spot in his life for you and with whom you\u2019ll always know where you stand.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who knows what he wants. You deserve someone who wants you and who isn\u2019t afraid to show it.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who\u2019d never do anything to make you sad, let alone something so big that would make you leave.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who\u2019d pull you into his arms and remind you how much you mean to him.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who\u2019d never let you leave because he\u2019s sure of his feelings and because he knows he wants you next to him.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who\u2019d remind you of all the beautiful moments you had with him if you became uncertain about what it was that you felt.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t let the guy who couldn\u2019t recognize your worth get the best of you. Don\u2019t ever settle for one man\u2019s crumbs when there is a man out there ready to give you everything you deserve-the whole world and even more.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/marisa-donnelly\/2016\/04\/to-my-fellow-women-please-dont-settle\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Don\u2019t ever settle for a man<\/a> who\u2019s unsure about you two. Leave and once you leave, don\u2019t ever look back.<\/p>\n<p>Leave the past where it should be left-in the past. Put out from your heart everyone who doesn\u2019t belong there, who doesn\u2019t deserve to be there.<\/p>\n<p>Fate spazio nella vostra vita per qualcuno che merita di stare nel vostro cuore. E non sprecate mai la vostra vita guardandovi indietro.<\/p>\n<p>Stay true to your heart. Give it to someone who won\u2019t break it. It deserves at least that much.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80251 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Try-To-Stop-You-From-Leaving-Don\u2019t-Ever-Look-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se non cerca di impedirvi di andarvene, non guardatevi mai indietro\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Try-To-Stop-You-From-Leaving-Don\u2019t-Ever-Look-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Try-To-Stop-You-From-Leaving-Don\u2019t-Ever-Look-Back-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Try-To-Stop-You-From-Leaving-Don\u2019t-Ever-Look-Back-Pinterest.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re leaving and he\u2019s not there to stop you, if he doesn\u2019t take you by the hand and tell you to stay, if he doesn\u2019t pour his heart out right there and then and if he lets you leave without telling you he doesn\u2019t want you to leave, then what&#8217;s the purpose of looking&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":80252,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9069","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Try-To-Stop-You-From-Leaving-Don\u2019t-Ever-Look-Back.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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