{"id":90826,"date":"2020-08-13T20:48:43","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:48:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90826"},"modified":"2021-11-15T15:41:14","modified_gmt":"2021-11-15T15:41:14","slug":"non-permetterai-a-nessuno-di-farti-queste-cose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-permetterai-a-nessuno-di-farti-queste-cose\/","title":{"rendered":"Se vi amate veramente, non lascerete che nessuno vi faccia queste 8 cose"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La maggior parte delle persone dice di amare se stessa. Purtroppo, <\/span><b><i>that isn&#8217;t true love with most of us<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Diamo troppo di noi stessi ad alcune persone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We change ourselves completely for our loved ones. We lose ourselves when we&#8217;re in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>That&#8217;s not how <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/aumentare-lamore-per-se-stessi-e-smettere-di-sentirsi-indesiderati\/\"><b><i>l'amore per se stessi \u00e8<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i> dovrebbe essere<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Se davvero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/imparare-ad-amare-se-stessi-2\/\">amare se stessi<\/a>Non permettereste mai a nessuno di dirvi come dovreste cambiare completamente voi stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>It&#8217;s not important who goes or stays in your life<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; you&#8217;re all that&#8217;s important. You&#8217;re the only constant in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s why you have to know your worth. You have to be aware of what you deserve and never settle for any less. In light of that, you should never let anyone do any of the following things to you:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Farvi dubitare di voi stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90830 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg\" alt=\"donna con cappotto nero in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-love comes from self-worth. You should never let anyone make you doubt yourself and tell you that you can&#8217;t do certain things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Potete ottenere pi\u00f9 di quanto pensiate. Potete fare qualsiasi cosa vi prefiggete. <\/span><b><i>Basta credere in se stessi e non permettere a nessuno di spegnere la propria luce.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi mette in cattiva luce davanti agli altri<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90831 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench.jpg\" alt=\"quattro persone sedute su una panchina di cemento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I honestly swear that some people really enjoy doing this. And I&#8217;ll never be able to understand why. Do they think they are better than others or what?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Irrelevant. The important thing is that you shouldn&#8217;t allow this from anyone. If you allow one person to undermine you, then someone else will think that you&#8217;re okay with it and do the same to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Utilizzate voi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90832 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen.jpg\" alt=\"due donne con la penna in mano sedute al tavolo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not all people have a pure and clean heart like you \u2013 you have to be aware of that always. You&#8217;ll meet some people that will only try to use you and your naivety.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s why it\u2019s important never to let your heart control your mind, otherwise you won&#8217;t be able to realize when someone&#8217;s only using you and your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Maltrattarvi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90833 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna che parla con un uomo seduto a tavola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anche in questo caso, bisogna essere consapevoli <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lettera-ragazza-perso-valore-di-se-2\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">della propria autostima<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Know your value and don&#8217;t settle for any less than you deserve, no matter how much you love someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stand up for yourself. Don&#8217;t try to fool yourself. If someone mistreats you, that means they don&#8217;t respect you. And <\/span><b><i>Dove non c'\u00e8 rispetto, non c'\u00e8 davvero amore.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Prendersi gioco di voi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90834 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks.jpg\" alt=\"quattro persone che bevono un drink in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A little teasing among friends is normal. But if it&#8217;s only one-sided, then that is not just playful teasing. It&#8217;s bullying and that&#8217;s something you should never allow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show others that you&#8217;re confident. Put an end to that constant taunting and tell the culprits that you aren&#8217;t okay with it. Tell them that their teasing hurts your feelings and that you won\u2019t put up with it anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Controllare la propria vita<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90835 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda il mare di giorno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Very often, when people fall in love, they let their significant other control their life. And they don&#8217;t become aware of it until they realize that their relationship has become toxic and unhealthy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Non importa quanto si ami l'altra persona, si dovrebbe sempre amare di pi\u00f9 se stessi. <\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La vita \u00e8 cos\u00ec imprevedibile e non si sa mai cosa ci riserver\u00e0 il futuro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can never be sure that you&#8217;ve met your soulmate or that you&#8217;ll stay with that person forever. If you let someone control your life other than yourself, you&#8217;ll feel lost if they ever had to break up with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Influenza le vostre decisioni<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90836 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top bianco in piedi nel campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We have all different opinions about certain things and we also have all the right to voice them. It\u2019s good to hear out someone\u2019s advice, especially if it&#8217;s coming from those close to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you are the only person who is in charge of your life and you should be the one to make your own decisions and choices. Don&#8217;t let other people&#8217;s opinions affect your decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abusare di te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90837 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna arrabbiata che parla con un uomo in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter how much you love someone, never \u2013 I repeat \u2013 never let them abuse you in any kind of way.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical violence isn&#8217;t the only form of an abusive relationship. There are so many other types and that&#8217;s why sometimes we don\u2019t even realize that we&#8217;re being abused by our significant other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Costanti ultimatum, comportamento di controllo, <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segnali-che-indicano-che-la-sua-gelosia-e-malsana\/\"><b><i>gelosia irragionevole<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>, guilt trips, verbal abuse, constant criticism\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questi sono tutti segnali di una relazione malsana e abusiva e di un comportamento che non dovreste mai tollerare se vi amate davvero e vi preoccupate del vostro benessere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90884 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se vi amate veramente, non lascerete che nessuno vi faccia queste 8 cose\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people say that they love themselves. Unfortunately, that isn&#8217;t true love with most of us. We give too much of ourselves to some people. We change ourselves completely for our loved ones. We lose ourselves when we&#8217;re in a relationship. That&#8217;s not how self-love is supposed to be. If you truly love yourself, you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":90829,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90826","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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