{"id":9085,"date":"2020-04-14T16:19:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T16:19:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9085"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:21:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:21:11","slug":"il-ragazzo-della-lettera-non-ha-dato-amore-merita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-ragazzo-della-lettera-non-ha-dato-amore-merita\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera al ragazzo che non mi ha dato l'amore che meritavo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro te<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Dopo tutti questi anni passati con te, ora finalmente capisco che ti ho amato di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Io ero quella che faceva sempre il passo pi\u00f9 lungo della gamba per la nostra relazione, mentre tu non facevi alcuno sforzo per far funzionare le cose.<\/p>\n

I always wanted to know why you didn\u2019t love me and why you didn\u2019t think that I was worthy. And I did everything in my power to make you happy.<\/p>\n

And in all that mess I forgot the most important thing\u2014to love and respect myself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

But it is all over now. I am a priority to myself and I don\u2019t regret all those nasty things that happened to me.<\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for them, I wouldn\u2019t be this strong. And for that, I want to thank you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that loving someone doesn\u2019t mean that they will give their love back to me, or even half of that love.<\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi mostrato che le persone che un tempo amavi possono trasformarsi in perfetti sconosciuti lungo la strada.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Thank you for teaching me that love doesn\u2019t just mean spending time with someone and listening to their problems.<\/p>\n

Ora non permetter\u00f2 mai a nessun altro uomo di trattarmi come un'opzione. Se mai mi innamorer\u00f2 di nuovo, lo far\u00f2 con un uomo che ha paura di perdermi.<\/p>\n

E questa sar\u00e0 l'unica regola che rispetter\u00f2 per quanto riguarda l'amore.<\/p>\n

Ormai dovreste sapere che ero il tipo di donna che amava follemente ed era l'unico modo in cui sapevo funzionare.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Ho amato e ho perso, ma sono sempre stata me stessa, una ragazza con il cuore in mano, mentre tu giocavi a un altro tipo di gioco.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Your mind games were anything but good. You were the man with the mask all the time. You made a big show for everyone around you but you couldn\u2019t deceive me.<\/p>\n

Conoscevo il tuo vero volto eppure ho deciso di restare con te.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t have a clue about love. Love is all that you think it isn\u2019t. Love is waking up to the same person every day and choosing that person every single day.<\/p>\n

Love isn\u2019t passive, it is an action, something that lives inside of us and something that has to be nurtured.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

When I think about it, I realize that maybe, just maybe, you weren\u2019t ready for all that love that I had for you.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how to act when someone pampered you and showered you with love.<\/p>\n

Non sei stato in grado di darmi l'amore di cui avevo bisogno e per questo non ti perdoner\u00f2 mai. Non ho mai ricevuto l'amore che desideravo tanto e a te non \u00e8 mai importato.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Era pi\u00f9 facile voltarmi le spalle che fare lo sforzo di creare una bella storia d'amore.<\/p>\n

Now that it is all over, I don\u2019t regret anything because I am a much stronger person than I was when I was with you.<\/p>\n

Ora, voglio un amore che confina con il buon senso e non mi accontenter\u00f2 mai finch\u00e9 non l'avr\u00f2 ottenuto.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, invece di stare a casa ad aspettare che tu mi chiami, scelgo me stessa ogni giorno.<\/p>\n

And when you realize how much of a loving and caring person I am one day and you wish to have a second chance with me, please know that I won\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n

I still believe in second chances but I don\u2019t think everyone deserves them-and that includes you!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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\u2018Dear You\u2019 After all these years with you, I now finally understand that I loved you more. I was the one who would always go the extra mile for our relationship while you gave zero effort to make things work. I always wanted to know why you didn\u2019t love me and why you didn\u2019t think…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":77475,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9085","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Didn\u2019t-Give-Me-The-Love-I-Deserve.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9085","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9085"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9085\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77475"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9085"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9085"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9085"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}