{"id":91484,"date":"2020-09-14T07:59:08","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T07:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=91484"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:04:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:04:17","slug":"segni-che-sta-decisamente-sprecando-il-vostro-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-sta-decisamente-sprecando-il-vostro-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Segni che ti sta facendo perdere tempo anche se sei sicura che sia quello giusto"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 incredibile come a volte ci innamoriamo e non vediamo mai i segni che qualcuno non \u00e8 quello che crediamo.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, there\u2019s a guy in your life, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

You think that you\u2019re amazing together but there\u2019s this little scared voice in your head telling you that there\u2019s something wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, you silence that voice, and make yourself believe everything is just perfect. But what if it isn\u2019t?<\/span><\/p>\n

Continuate a leggere per scoprirlo in tempo e risparmiarvi un'enorme delusione in seguito.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. He doesn\u2019t initiate meaningful conversations<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Un ragazzo che si aspetta di passare una vita con voi sar\u00e0 desideroso di imparare quante pi\u00f9 cose possibili su di voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'intimit\u00e0 e la connessione tra due persone veramente innamorate \u00e8 un legame molto importante che spinge le persone a condividere tutto con quella persona speciale.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he only talks about random, shallow stuff with you, he doesn\u2019t truly care about discovering who you are deep inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

This goes to show there isn\u2019t true <\/span>intimit\u00e0<\/span><\/a> tra voi due e dovreste smettere di idealizzare la vostra relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Manca di coerenza<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You maybe haven\u2019t thought about this much, but pay attention. Does it seem to you that he only calls you up when it\u2019s convenient for him?<\/span><\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 disposto a cambiare i suoi programmi per voi e a incontrarvi quando volete vederlo?<\/span><\/p>\n

Purtroppo questo significa che probabilmente <\/span>only calls you when he\u2019s bored<\/span><\/a> e in realt\u00e0 ti ha messo in secondo piano.<\/span><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t put up with a guy who doesn\u2019t cherish you as <\/span>la sua prima scelta<\/span><\/a> \u2013 he\u2019s wasting your time.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t give you the smallest sign of affection or attention<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t really remember a time he called just to tell you he was thinking of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything seems okay when you\u2019re together, but once he\u2019s away, he\u2019s definitely away, with no sign of his existence whatsoever.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, everybody has a lot on their plate, but sending a quick message doesn\u2019t really take much time.<\/span><\/p>\n

This probably means that he\u2019s not thinking of you as much as you\u2019re thinking of him, which is a clear sign he\u2019s a time waster and not who you believe him to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. He doesn\u2019t ask about your day<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When you get together he\u2019s willing to talk about anything and share details of his day, but he hardly ever asks about yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando teniamo veramente a una persona, ci interessiamo molto a quello che le \u00e8 successo durante il periodo in cui siamo stati lontani da lei.<\/span><\/p>\n

Not asking how your day went means he\u2019s focused on himself and the fun part of your relationship \u2013 he doesn\u2019t really care much about you, your feelings, habits, or your life in general.<\/span><\/p>\n

You may not notice this at first, but as time passes you\u2019ll start <\/span>sentirsi soli<\/span><\/a> e abbandonato nella vostra relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Vi mente<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You may never have caught him lying about something big, but you\u2019ve noticed he isn\u2019t a stranger to telling quite a few small lies.<\/span><\/p>\n

He feels comfortable lying and you can tell that it\u2019s a part of who he is.<\/span><\/p>\n

Potreste pensare che vi abbia detto quelle bugie solo per apparire migliore, perch\u00e9 era nervoso per far s\u00ec che lo vedeste nella migliore luce possibile.<\/span><\/p>\n

Still, the truth is, if he ever planned anything serious with you, he\u2019d be open about who he is from the very beginning.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t base a relationship on lies.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Non si accorge mai dei dettagli<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Even though it\u2019s not uncommon for guys not to notice every little detail about us gals, a guy who truly loves you will notice plenty.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll at least know your favorite movie, band, food\u2026 what makes you laugh and the things that you don\u2019t like or those that make you mad.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you think about it, most of us know these things about many of our acquaintances, why wouldn\u2019t he know about yours?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the answer is simple \u2013 it\u2019s because he isn\u2019t interested in getting to know you better or making you happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Non chiede mai i vostri progetti per il futuro<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Una persona che vi ama si preoccupa dei vostri sogni, dei vostri obiettivi e dei vostri progetti per il futuro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re at the beginning of your relationship or you\u2019ve been dating for a while, a guy who wants to be with you will be intrigued by how you want to spend your time in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he envisioned spending his future with you, he\u2019d definitely ask questions about the way you see yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he hasn\u2019t, I\u2019m sorry to say that he probably doesn\u2019t see himself spending that much time with you, no matter how you feel about him.<\/span><\/p>\n

 8. Non fa mai domande sulle altre persone della vostra vita.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve never heard him mention your friends or family. You might think that he\u2019s just not that curious and he only cares about what he has with you, but\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

A guy who\u2019s getting to know you and is willing to commit to you will definitely care about finding out at least a couple of things about your upbringing, the names of your parents, if you have siblings, or what are your friends like.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s incredible how sometimes we fall in love and never see the signs that someone is just not who we believe them to be. So, there\u2019s a guy in your life, right? You think that you\u2019re amazing together but there\u2019s this little scared voice in your head telling you that there\u2019s something wrong. So, you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":91489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-91484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/8-Signs-He\u2019s-Definitely-Wasting-Your-Time-Even-Though-You\u2019re-Pretty-Sure-He\u2019s-The-One.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=91484"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91484\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=91484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=91484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=91484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}