{"id":91520,"date":"2020-09-16T19:13:22","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T19:13:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=91520"},"modified":"2022-08-04T09:28:22","modified_gmt":"2022-08-04T09:28:22","slug":"modi-per-essere-fedeli-a-se-stessi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/modi-per-essere-fedeli-a-se-stessi\/","title":{"rendered":"6 modi per essere fedeli a se stessi e perch\u00e9 \u00e8 cos\u00ec importante"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando avevo quattordici anni, mia nonna mi disse una cosa che da allora mi risuona nelle orecchie: “Whatever you do in life, always remember to be loyal to yourself!”<\/i><\/p>\n

Back then, I couldn’t understand the real meaning of these wise, evergreen words because I was too young and innocent to understand how the world we live in operates. <\/p>\n

Ma ora posso dire con certezza che la lealt\u00e0 verso se stessi \u00e8 una delle regole fondamentali che ognuno dovrebbe seguire. <\/p>\n

Cosa significa essere fedeli a se stessi?<\/b><\/p>\n

(I’ll skip quoting all those mainstream definitions of self-loyalty and instead write it in my own words.) <\/p>\n

Quindi, essere fedeli a se stessi significa essenzialmente essere ci\u00f2 che si \u00e8, ascoltare l'intuizione ed essere in contatto con il proprio vero io.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Significa essere parte attiva della propria vita, invece di cercare l'approvazione degli altri o di fare le cose solo perch\u00e9 qualcuno ci ha detto di farle. <\/p>\n

Essere leali significa non solo prendersi cura degli altri e soddisfare le loro esigenze, ma anche soddisfare le proprie. <\/p>\n

Sadly, hectic lifestyles and the modern world we live in often force us to forget that and to think that being loyal to yourself is an act of selfishness. Today, we’ll prove to the world otherwise!<\/p>\n

Come essere fedeli a se stessi?<\/b><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Ricordate a voi stessi ci\u00f2 che volete e andate a prendervelo!<\/h2>\n

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Remember all those New Year’s resolutions you were so excited about? <\/p>\n

Perhaps you promised yourself that you’ll start going to the gym, find a new job, stop smoking, start practicing a stile di vita olistico<\/a>lavorare per migliorare le vostre relazioni e simili?<\/p>\n

They don’t necessarily need to be New Year’s resolutions<\/a>, but something you\u2019ve always wanted to do yet for some reason haven\u2019t. <\/p>\n

Forse l'accumulo di stress ha preso il sopravvento, oppure continuate a trovare scuse per sentirvi meno in colpa per non aver fatto nulla in merito ai vostri propositi.<\/p>\n

Qualunque sia il motivo, se volete essere fedeli a voi stessi, dovete ricordare a voi stessi ci\u00f2 che volete e iniziare a lavorare per realizzarlo il prima possibile! <\/b><\/p>\n

Se il vostro desiderio \u00e8 quello di fare un viaggio con la persona che amate, iniziate subito a pianificarlo. Se il vostro desiderio \u00e8 quello di essere pi\u00f9 attivi fisicamente, andate subito a correre e create un programma di palestra per la prossima settimana\/mese. <\/p>\n

The most important thing is to motivate yourself and remind yourself of all your decisions and goals that you’ve put on hold. Remember, you can do anything you set your mind to \u2013 only if you want to!<\/p>\n

Sostenere ci\u00f2 in cui si crede<\/h2>\n

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We’re surrounded by millions of other people: our family, friends, colleagues, the media, modern influencers, and other virtual crew.<\/p>\n

Tutti influenzano la nostra opinione (soprattutto i media) e hanno prospettive diverse. <\/p>\n

And there’s nothing wrong with that because if we all had one mindset, we wouldn’t be able to learn new things from other people. <\/p>\n

Quindi, essere un buon ascoltatore \u00e8 una buona cosa perch\u00e9 ci insegna nuove idee (positive o negative che siano), ma trascurare le proprie convinzioni a causa degli altri \u00e8 qualcosa che non si dovrebbe MAI fare.<\/p>\n

Respect other people’s ideas and opinions, but always make sure to stand for what YOU believe in. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dovreste applicare questa regola in ogni aspetto della vostra vita, che si tratti di relazioni, di etica lavorativa o di religione. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dal momento in cui ci si alza fino alla fine della giornata, si devono prendere molte decisioni nel corso della giornata, e ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 sapere di aver fatto la cosa giusta.<\/p>\n

That is why it’s important to stand for what you believe in and trust your gut. <\/p>\n

Quando le cose vanno male, \u00e8 pi\u00f9 facile incolpare se stessi per qualcosa di sbagliato che ascoltare gli altri. <\/p>\n

Imparare dai propri errori significa evolversi, quindi non bisogna mai avere paura di difendere se stessi e ci\u00f2 in cui si crede!<\/p>\n

Prendetevi del tempo per riconnettervi con voi stessi<\/h2>\n

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Chores, jobs, and other daily tasks often get us into a rut and we start feeling as if we’re stuck in a real-life Il giorno della marmotta <\/i>film. Ogni nuovo giorno diventa una ripetizione di quello precedente. <\/p>\n

A causa di ci\u00f2, iniziamo a perdere il contatto con noi stessi e con il nostro autostima<\/a> soffre. Cominciamo a trascurare i nostri bisogni per portare a termine altri compiti quotidiani.<\/p>\n

Being loyal to yourself means taking time to reconnect with yourself \u2013 with your likes and dislikes, things you’re good at, your dreams and desires. <\/b><\/p>\n

Fare di se stessi una priorit\u00e0 e tornare alle proprie radici non \u00e8 qualcosa di cui ci si debba vergognare.<\/p>\n

When you’re connected with yourself, your confidence increases.<\/p>\n

And trust me, there’s no better mood lifter than knowing you’re respecting and loving yourself in spite of all this negativity prevailing in the world. <\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Ecco cosa significa amare davvero se stessi<\/a><\/p>\n

Siate onesti con voi stessi<\/h2>\n

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La menzogna, l'infedelt\u00e0, la violenza e altri vizi della vita moderna ci impediscono di raggiungere il nostro pieno potenziale.<\/p>\n

Essere fedeli a se stessi significa anche essere onesti con se stessi su tutto, anche sulle cose negative.<\/p>\n

Acknowledge your imperfections, quirks, flaws, and bad habits. Don’t try to hide your imperfections on social media. Don’t try to convince yourself that your bad habit is not something you should be working on.<\/p>\n

Miglioramento personale<\/b>pazienza e gentilezza sono <\/b>tratti del carattere<\/b> you should focus on. But, you should also keep in mind that you don’t need to be perfect. <\/b><\/p>\n

Embrace your imperfections that cannot be changed and work on things that can be improved. Don’t make excuses for your bad behavior or try to run away from your problems. <\/p>\n

If you want to be honest with yourself, then you will have to see things as they are at the moment, face them, and start working on improving them. It’s the only way to ultimate happiness. <\/p>\n

Abbracciare i propri sentimenti<\/h2>\n

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Instead of prioritizing only other people’s feelings, honor your own as well. Pay attention to how you’re feeling when someone disappoints you or something bad happens. <\/p>\n

Don’t try to suppress your emotions when you’re feeling down just because you’re afraid of being judged by others. Remember that you’re only human and you’re not expected to be happy 24\/7. <\/p>\n

Avete il diritto di avere una brutta giornata, di <\/b>sentirsi traditi<\/b><\/a>, disappointed, and broken. Embrace all those feelings \u2013 not only the positive ones \u2013 because if you don’t, then you’re not being loyal to yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you’re focused on your own feelings, you understand yourself better and your relationships with others improve as well. Remember that you don’t need to be perfect in order to experience unconditional love. <\/p>\n

You don’t need to change yourself completely and suppress your thoughts and emotions in order to be seen and praised by other people. <\/p>\n

Voi siete VOI e non esiste un altro voi in tutto il mondo. Quindi, abbracciate la vostra unicit\u00e0, i vostri sentimenti e le vostre opinioni.<\/p>\n

Imparare dai propri errori e perdonarsi<\/h2>\n

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Avete mai incolpato voi stessi per qualcosa che \u00e8 accaduto in passato? Scommetto di s\u00ec (come il resto della civilt\u00e0). Vi siete incolpati per le scelte che avete fatto, per le cose che avete fatto o detto e simili.<\/p>\n

But, guess what? You cannot change it. And if something cannot be changed, there’s no point in beating yourself up about it. <\/p>\n

Invece di rimuginare sul passato e incolparsi per certi risultati, concentratevi sull'imparare dai vostri errori e sul perdonarvi.<\/b><\/p>\n

You will never be able to be totally free if you don’t forgive yourself.<\/p>\n

The truth is, we’ll make thousands of mistakes during life, but what matters is that we learn something from them so that we don’t repeat them again.<\/p>\n

If you’re able to do this, there’s nothing you should worry about. Being loyal to yourself isn’t about living a perfect life devoid of mistakes, but about forgiving yourself and turning them into valuable life lessons. <\/p>\n

Come tradiamo noi stessi<\/h2>\n

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Ci sono milioni di modi in cui ogni singolo essere umano sabota in una certa misura la propria lealt\u00e0 e spesso non ne \u00e8 nemmeno consapevole.<\/p>\n

Ci circondiamo di persone tossiche<\/a>assorbire la loro negativit\u00e0 e ballare al loro ritmo.<\/p>\n

We spend time with people who are bad for us, who are critical and oozing with negative energy, yet we keep hanging out with them because we’re afraid of being alone (or for some other reason).<\/p>\n

We sabotage our own loyalty when we’re afraid to say no to certain things we’re not okay with, or when we’re blindly following trends instead of creating our own<\/i><\/b>. <\/i><\/p>\n

We deprive ourselves of self-loyalty when we’re trying to be something we’re not because we’re afraid that others won’t like our true selves. <\/p>\n

O quando diciamo a noi stessi quella famosa frase: Vorrei aver ascoltato me stesso!<\/b> Quando ignoriamo deliberatamente la nostra intuizione, diventiamo schiavi di altre persone e non siamo pi\u00f9 fedeli a noi stessi.<\/p>\n

Sabotiamo la nostra fedelt\u00e0 in cos\u00ec tanti modi che se decidessi di scrivere solo di questo, l'intero articolo diventerebbe un libro. Dimentichiamo che la chiave della vera felicit\u00e0 sta nella seguente affermazione:<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 18 semplici modi per darsi una priorit\u00e0 nel modo che meritate <\/a><\/p>\n

Essere fedeli a se stessi significa essere ci\u00f2 che si \u00e8 veramente!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Do you think it is possible to be truly happy when you’re not loyal to yourself? As I’m writing this, I’m giving you a few seconds to think about it. <\/p>\n

If your answer is no, there’s no need to question it. Essere chi si \u00e8 veramente! <\/b>Una delle affermazioni pi\u00f9 belle e allo stesso tempo una delle pi\u00f9 difficili da realizzare.<\/p>\n

Che cosa significa essere chi si \u00e8 veramente?<\/p>\n

Probabilmente significa avere un proprio stile invece di copiare gli altri, avere una propria opinione, esprimersi senza vergognarsi e fare le cose non solo perch\u00e9 si deve, ma perch\u00e9 si vuole.<\/p>\n

In poche parole, per essere chi siete veramente, dovete conoscere voi stessi!<\/b><\/p>\n

And you cannot know yourself if you’re not loyal to yourself. You cannot be in touch with your true self if you don’t give yourself permission to be yourself. (These interconnections are so beautiful.) <\/p>\n

E William Shakespeare lo sa bene:<\/p>\n

“This above all: to thine own self-be true,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

E deve seguire, come la notte il giorno,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Thou canst not then be false to any man.” <\/i><\/b>(Amleto)<\/b>\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b<\/p>\n

34 Inspirational “Be True To Yourself” Quotes<\/h2>\n

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Questi <\/i>citazioni motivazionali<\/i> vi aiuter\u00e0 a capire l'essenza dell'essere leali con voi stessi e vi ispirer\u00e0 a iniziare a lavorare per incrementare il vostro <\/i>autostima<\/i> e <\/i>l'amore per se stessi.<\/i><\/p>\n

1. \u201cWe must not allow other people’s limited perceptions to define us.\u201d \u2013 Virginia Satir<\/p>\n

2. \u201cOne of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself.\u201d \u2013 Shannon L. Alder<\/p>\n

3. \u201cBy being yourself, you put something wonderful in the world that was not there before.\u201d \u2013 Edwin Elliott<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWhat I am is good enough if I would only be it openly.\u201d \u2013 Carl Rogers<\/p>\n

5. \u201cDon\u2019t let others box you into their idea of what they think you should be. A confined identity is a miserable way to exist. Be you and live free. Trust that in living true to yourself, you will attract people that support and love you, just as you are.\u201d \u2013 Jaeda DeWalt<\/p>\n

6. \u201cJust because they disagree, doesn’t mean you ain’t right.\u201d \u2013 Toba Beta<\/p>\n

7. \u201cImperfection is beauty, madness is genius, and it\u2019s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.\u201d \u2013 Marilyn Monroe<\/p>\n

8. \u201cWanting to be someone else is a waste of who you are.\u201d \u2013 Kurt Cobain<\/p>\n

9. \u201cWhen you dance to your own rhythm, life taps its toes to your beat.\u201d \u2013 Terri Guillemets<\/p>\n

10. \u201cNever dull your shine for somebody else.\u201d \u2013 Tyra Banks<\/p>\n

11. \u201cBeing yourself means shedding all the layers of looking good, wanting to be liked, being scared to stand out, and trying to be who you think people want you to be. Being yourself means being naked, raw, and vulnerable.\u201d \u2013 Jeff Moore<\/p>\n

12. \u201cWith confidence, you have won before you have started.\u201d \u2013 Marcus Garvey<\/p>\n

13. \u201cYou need to amare se stessi<\/a> and be yourself one hundred percent before you can actually love someone else.\u201d \u2013 Christina Perri<\/p>\n

14. \u201cTo accept ourselves as we are means to value our imperfections as much as our perfections.\u201d \u2013 Sandra Bierig<\/p>\n

15. \u201cYou were born an original. Don’t die a copy.\u201d \u2013 John Mason<\/p>\n

“Stay True To Yourself” Quotes<\/h2>\n

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16. \u201cBe who you were created to be, and you will set the world on fire.\u201d \u2013 St. Catherine of Sienna<\/p>\n

17. \u201cThe strongest force in the universe is a human being living consistently with his identity.\u201d \u2013 Tony Robbins<\/p>\n

18. \u201cWe all wear masks, and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing some of our own skin.\u201d \u2013 Andre Berthiaume<\/p>\n

19. \u201cNo other version, no matter how perfect it is, would ever feel better than being your true self.\u201d \u2013 Edmond Mbiaka<\/p>\n

20. \u201cFollow your inner moonlight; don’t hide the madness.\u201d \u2013 Allen Ginsberg<\/p>\n

21. \u201cNever be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life but define yourself.\u201d \u2013 Harvey Fierstein<\/p>\n

22. \u201cAlways be a first-rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else.\u201d \u2013 Judy Garland<\/p>\n

23. \u201cI prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence.\u201d \u2013 Frederick Douglass<\/p>\n

24. \u201cJust be yourself. There is no one better.\u201d \u2013 Taylor Swift<\/p>\n

25. \u201cTo help yourself, you must be yourself. Be the best that you can be. When you make a mistake, learn from it, pick yourself up and move on.\u201d\u2013 Dave Pelzer<\/p>\n

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26. \u201cAs soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.\u201d \u2013 Johann Wolfgang von Goethe<\/p>\n

27. \u201cBe true to yourself. Make each day a masterpiece. Help others. Drink deeply from good books. Make friendship a fine art. Build a shelter against a rainy day.\u201d \u2013 John Wooden<\/p>\n

28. \u201cTake care not to listen to anyone who tells you what you can and can\u2019t be in life.\u201d \u2013 Meg Medina<\/p>\n

29. \u201cYou must have control of the authorship of your own destiny. The pen that writes your life story must be held in your own hand.\u201d \u2013 Irene C. Kassorla<\/p>\n

30. \u201cNever complain, never explain. Resist the temptation to defend yourself or trovare scuse<\/a>.\u201d \u2013 Brian Tracy<\/p>\n

31. \u201cHateful to me as the gates of Hades is that man who hides one thing in his heart and speaks another.\u201d \u2013 Homer<\/p>\n

32. \u201cBe yourself. Above all, let who you are, what you are, what you believe, shine through every sentence you write, every piece you finish.\u201d \u2013 John Jakes<\/p>\n

33. \u201cThe easiest thing to be in the world is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don’t let them put you in that position.\u201d \u2013 Leo Buscaglia<\/p>\n

34. \u201cIf you end up with una vita noiosa e miserabile<\/a> because you listened to your mom, your dad, your teacher, your priest, or some guy on television telling you how to do your ****, then you deserve it.\u201d \u2013 Frank Zappa<\/p>\n

Siate fedeli a voi stessi. Perch\u00e9 alla fine della giornata, avete solo voi stessi! <\/b><\/p>\n

Amate voi stessi come amate la vostra famiglia e i vostri migliori amici. Sforzatevi di fare del vostro meglio ogni giorno e non arrendetevi mai, qualunque cosa accada!<\/i> <\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Consigli per la cura di s\u00e9: Come innamorarsi della cura di se stessi<\/a><\/p>\n

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